Are deposit requests becoming a regular thing?

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

28 minutes ago, NYXboy said:

Seriously though - don't meet these people if it leaves you feeling bad.

Agree 💯.

There are several threads on this website explaining never to pay up front, even while in the same room.  Always pay at the end of the session.

I ignored this advice a few times in my life, at my expense.  About three times different providers asked for money at the start of the session instead of waiting until the end.  I agreed to pay instead of just walking out and it was always a subpar experience.  I let my little head take over the thinking from my big head.

Nowadays if a provider asks for money when he or I walk through the door, I end it right there.  It has only happened to me once   Never pay up front.

McDonald's asks you to pay up front.  A classy steakhouse waits for you to enjoy your meal.

Edited March 10, 2023 by Vegas_nw1982

[Beancounter]

This thread has turned into a cat fight.  Take your bitchiness to private messages gentlemen. 

[Lazarus]

13 minutes ago, NYXboy said:

The fact you choose to ignore my questions shows I am right - every single comment on every single thread here by you is negative, cruel, unkind and it seems you have an obsession with trying to 'out' providers as ingenuine.  

You are a sad person. Try and look for positive things and you will find them - look for disappointment and you will find it on any corner. Misery loves company which is why you keep trying to spread it. Life is what you make it and judging by your activity here, you're choosing a sad miserable time.  Be well! 

I don’t know what questions you expect me to answer & frankly I don’t owe you any explanations. You seem to resent the fact that I CONSTANTLY expose scammers & frauds on Rentmen. Which leads to believe that one of these scammers is you. Maybe you should spread more time spreading positivity,  less time watching Judge Judy. & stop trying to figure out different ways for scam people out of their money. 

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Just now, Lazarus said:

I don’t know what questions you expect me to answer & frankly I don’t owe you any explanations. You seem to resent the fact that I CONSTANTLY expose scammers & frauds on Rentmen. Which leads to believe that one of these scammers is you. Maybe you should spread more time spreading positivity,  less time watching Judge Judy. & stop trying to figure out different ways for scam people out of their money. 

HAHAHAHAHHA. of course you think I am a scammer - you think EVERYBODY is.

Suspect whatever you like - my comments speak for themselves - as do yours.

I have definitely left kind and nice reviews of some of the boys I have met, and some reviews of more average experiences.  Yours are ALL Negative Nancy, NONE of these guys you have actually met.

get help and do something positive with your time.  I'm done. 

[+ nycman]

[mike carey]

Moderator's Note

Gentlemen, this thread is about whether deposits are becoming more common and why that might be so. This is not the place for comments on why or why not other members may choose, or choose not to pay them (fine for you to cite your own reasons). Stop the gratuitous character assessments and other judgmental comments on your fellow posters.

[+ DrownedBoy]

Darn it, it's so annoying having to block users so I don't have to read these flame wars, but the weeds keep popping up in the garden.

Edited March 10, 2023 by DrownedBoy