BryanGrove In NYC

[GovernorD]

Booked and met him. I had to think through carefully how I felt about him.

He is okay. Nice guy. Nothing went particularly wrong, but I just can’t place my finger on this guy. It was very refreshing to meet an RM who isn’t overly exposed with a pornstar look. But he seemed mentally vacant and not fully present. Reading the other comments in this thread my impression of him is that he may be going through depression and anxiety stemmed from his personal life problems. He is human after all, and we all go through various turmoils in life. But I guess this is what sets the pros apart from others who aren’t very good at this. And he just didn’t deliver enough for me to book him again because of the disconnect. 
 

In addition, he is much “tubbier” than how he presents himself in his profile photos. Maybe an extra 30lbs. In my opinion not “average” as he depicts himself, which sort of caught me off guard. He definitely should update his photos.
 

Again, nice guy. He wasn’t rude or anything but for reasons explained above not going back. My suggestion: PASS!

[mike carey]

I've merged two threads on this provider, and hidden recent comments posted in both.

[DaveB52]

On 1/20/2023 at 9:20 PM, nycman said:

Are you planning on diagramming sentences with him…..or fucking?

grin

It’s hot when you can fuck, then have an intelligent conversation with your partner.

[DaveB52]

On 1/23/2023 at 3:58 PM, BananaBagel said:

Cool - I’d be interested to hear how it goes. 

He’s definitely not new to this. He’s a super nice guy with a huge cock. He’s passionate and turns into an aggressive top. Recommend spending time with Bryan. 

[+ SidewaysDM]

On 1/15/2025 at 5:46 AM, GovernorD said:

Booked and met him. I had to think through carefully how I felt about him.

He is okay. Nice guy. Nothing went particularly wrong, but I just can’t place my finger on this guy. It was very refreshing to meet an RM who isn’t overly exposed with a pornstar look. But he seemed mentally vacant and not fully present. Reading the other comments in this thread my impression of him is that he may be going through depression and anxiety stemmed from his personal life problems. He is human after all, and we all go through various turmoils in life. But I guess this is what sets the pros apart from others who aren’t very good at this. And he just didn’t deliver enough for me to book him again because of the disconnect. 
 

In addition, he is much “tubbier” than how he presents himself in his profile photos. Maybe an extra 30lbs. In my opinion not “average” as he depicts himself, which sort of caught me off guard. He definitely should update his photos.
 

Again, nice guy. He wasn’t rude or anything but for reasons explained above not going back. My suggestion: PASS!

Thanks GovernorD, for the thorough and detailed assessment of your experience with Bryan Grove. He is definitely my type and age, and I am an older Chubb, so I shouldn’t mind the extra weight. Although, providers should be posting recent and accurate photos of themselves. The fact that he seemed distracted, is a real turn off for me. There are many other provders to choose from, who are eager and enthusiastic for their clients business. 

[pubic_assistance]

9 hours ago, SidewaysDM said:

Although, providers should be posting recent and accurate photos of themselves.

Absolutely  💯

Especially when they're over 40 and getting chubby. 

[+ BOZO T CLOWN]

On 1/15/2025 at 5:46 AM, GovernorD said:

In addition, he is much “tubbier” than how he presents himself in his profile photos. Maybe an extra 30lbs. In my opinion not “average” as he depicts himself, which sort of caught me off guard. He definitely should update his photos.

 

12 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Absolutely  💯

Especially when they're over 40 and getting chubby. 

Why do we use words like "chubby" and "tubby" to describe a fat escort? Is that to make him sound cute and adorable? Is that to avoid sounding mean?
Adjectives like chubby and tubby are probably appropriate for an 8-year old like Chubby, the character from The Little Rascals. But definitely not for a 40+ year old provider.
Why sugar coat (no pun intended) an important physical characteristic of an obese escort? Can't we just be direct and honest and say he is FAT? 

Also, @GovernorD, you shouldn't have been surprised that BryanGrove is 30 pounds FATTER than his pics indicate. After all, he was 38 years old when this thread began in January, 2023. Three years later, he is 39. He seems to have a problem with veracity.

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[+ KensingtonHomo]

1 hour ago, BOZO T CLOWN said:

Why do we use words like "chubby" and "tubby" to describe a fat escort? Is that to make him sound cute and adorable? Is that to avoid sounding mean?
Adjectives like chubby and tubby are probably appropriate for an 8-year old like Chubby, the character from The Little Rascals. But definitely not for a 40+ year old provider.
Why sugar coat an important physical characteristic of an obese escort? Can't we just be direct and honest and say he is FAT? 

Perhaps ask yourself why you feel the need to be cruel in addition to talking about yourself in the third person? 

Depending on someone's height and proportions, 30 lbs can be significant or not. This guy is 6'3", so 30 extra pounds, depending on where it shows up, could look quite different than it would on a guy who is 5'8". 

"Chubby" doesn't have an age demarcation. Yes, it's associated with children but it means "slightly overweight, plump and rounded." It's certainly not the same thing as "obese." 

 

[+ BOZO T CLOWN]

13 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

Perhaps ask yourself why you feel the need to be cruel in addition to talking about yourself in the third person? 

Depending on someone's height and proportions, 30 lbs can be significant or not. This guy is 6'3", so 30 extra pounds, depending on where it shows up, could look quite different than it would on a guy who is 5'8". 

"Chubby" doesn't have an age demarcation. Yes, it's associated with children but it means "slightly overweight, plump and rounded." It's certainly not the same thing as "obese." 

 

Did you read @GovernorD's post? Since he spent time with the provider, his opinion is paramount. He was so clearly put off by the escort's extra 30 pounds of fat, that he said his body no longer even qualifies as being "average". He also wrote that the provider needs to post updated photos in his RM ad that would accurately reflect his current physical shape. 

Being "honest" and being "cruel" are not synonymous.  A thesaurus is your friend.
Also, please remember COM guidelines - attack the issue, not the individual. You shouldn't personalize a member's opinion if it disagrees with your own.

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[+ KensingtonHomo]

5 minutes ago, BOZO T CLOWN said:

Did you read @GovernorD's post? Since he spent time with the provider, his opinion is paramount. He was so clearly put off by the escort's extra 30 pounds of fat, that he said his body no longer even qualifies as being "average". He also wrote that the provider needs to post updated photos in his RM ad that would accurately reflect his current physical shape. 

Being "honest" and being "cruel" are not synonymous.  A thesaurus is your friend.
Also, please remember COM guidelines - attack the issue, not the individual. You shouldn't personalize a member's opinion if it disagrees with your own.

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You're attacking an individual you've never engaged with; claiming he's "fat" and "obese," which is not what GovernorD said. He referred to him as "chubby." 

Your need to be cruel, not "honest," says a lot about you. Very sad. 

[+ BOZO T CLOWN]

3 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

You're attacking an individual you've never engaged with; claiming he's "fat" and "obese," which is not what GovernorD said. He referred to him as "chubby." 

Your need to be cruel, not "honest," says a lot about you. Very sad. 

Stating that a provider is fat is not an attack. It is an opinion.
If you have a different opinion, you are entitled to it without being abusive towards the person with whose opinion you disagree.

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