Kindness can never be overrated - who is the kindest?

[BaronArtz]

I feel the opposite is even more important - the kindness of clients towards escorts.

Escorts, and even more so, cam models, are often viewed as objects and subject to abusive and rude behavior.  

Being kind (and tipping well) goes a long way towards a more satisfying experience.  The guys seem happy to see me and eager to schedule repeat appointments.  It seems like 'the obvious thing to do' but the reality of it all is different.

[Trick]

On 1/20/2023 at 3:26 PM, keroscenefire said:

Mike Gaite, Gianni Legno, Sir Dion X, Sherman Maus, Kevin Slater, Jean Ali, Lucas Frenchy and Matt Anthony are the few that come to mind.  They are all warm and welcoming and make you feel comfortable and special. 

I agree, Gianni Legno is endowed…with kindness. 😉

[Trick]

Everyday we meet people who are doing their jobs - store associates, waitstaff, baristas, flight attendants, etc. But somehow, with some of them, their innate kindness shines through.  The same goes for the providers we hire, from their first text response to the sweet hug or a peck on the cheek just before you leave their place.

[BrklynNYC]

I like this topic. After a while of hiring beautiful men, you appreciate interpersonal connection. A dick is just a dick. The connection is what makes them special and memorable. 

[Jackrabbitslim]

Jacob Durham, Bobby Biceps, Ryan Thick, DTX Jock, and San Diego Dream Boy

[30somethingsexybear]

7 hours ago, Jackrabbitslim said:

Jacob Durham, Bobby Biceps, Ryan Thick, DTX Jock, and San Diego Dream Boy

how IS Bobby Biceps doing? I don't see his ad on RM anymore, he too busy with his OF these days?

[kingsley88]

I thought most I've met were kind but the ones that stand out to me are MikeGaite, WillTantra AnthonyChelsea. 

[Go-dev]

I think Joel Someone was very nice and kind

[+ DrownedBoy]

11 hours ago, 30somethingsexybear said:

how IS Bobby Biceps doing? I don't see his ad on RM anymore, he too busy with his OF these days?

Hopefully he's still active. One of the kindest, I agree.

[Whatsupandstuff]

46 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

Hopefully he's still active. One of the kindest, I agree.

I have tried to connect. 

[big-n-tall]

13 hours ago, 30somethingsexybear said:

how IS Bobby Biceps doing? I don't see his ad on RM anymore, he too busy with his OF these days?

It's still there.

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[Cliff]

I’d say Kiddo is the kindest. 

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[Guest]

I'd love to add @nate_sf to the mix, he was incredibly kind to me as a fellow provider and offered some great personal and business advice as well just be a friendly soul to talk to.

[Guest]

On 1/18/2023 at 7:28 AM, Summerson said:

NateSF

YourHunk (Nate from Long Beach)

Is Nate from Long Bech still advertising as being in his 40s? Amazing if he still looks good, but he's in his mid 60s. 

[CuriousByNature]

5 hours ago, Unicorn said:

Is Nate from Long Bech still advertising as being in his 40s? Amazing if he still looks good, but he's in his mid 60s. 

YourHunk is in his 60s? That is a lot of age shaving... some of the photos are pretty grainy unfortunately.

[Guest]

3 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

... some of the photos are pretty grainy unfortunately.

That's because they're daguerreotypes. 

[pubic_assistance]

On 5/13/2023 at 5:00 AM, Cliff said:

I’d say Kiddo is the kindest. 

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I have never met Kiddo...but I have observed that the guy has CONSISTENTLY received rave reviews from a wide variety of gentlemen. So there is definitely a big degree of either professionalism or a professionalism borne of kindness. A combination that needs to be noted as a counter argument to the pessimism that was introduced to this conversation thread. NOT everything is about money. Certainly some providers are genuinely good people with a strong conviction of empathy toward lonely gentlemen who are reaching out for companionship, even if its for an hour or two.

[Cliff]

14 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

I have never met Kiddo...but I have observed that the guy has CONSISTENTLY received rave reviews from a wide variety of gentlemen. So there is definitely a big degree of either professionalism or a professionalism borne of kindness. A combination that needs to be noted as a counter argument to the pessimism that was introduced to this conversation thread. NOT everything is about money. Certainly some providers are genuinely good people with a strong conviction of empathy toward lonely gentlemen who are reaching out for companionship, even if its for an hour or two.

Agree. Kiddo is one of those professionals who may not have the biggest biceps but he is genuinely engaged, kind and thoughtful, fun, and provides an overall positive experience that makes your whole day feel good. It never feels transactional; it only feels…fantastical. ha ha Sorry for that silliness. 😉

[NewYorkDIT]

On 5/12/2023 at 9:37 AM, kingsley88 said:

I thought most I've met were kind but the ones that stand out to me are MikeGaite, WillTantra AnthonyChelsea. 

Kingsley88. I recently met AnthonyChelsea and I couldn’t agree more!  Very sexy, very attentive and genuinely nice.  I will be seeing him again!     

[TakeOneForTheTeam]

On 1/19/2023 at 2:01 AM, InterestingGuy said:

My votes for kindest go to:

Tristan Baldwin

Victor Powers

Mike Gaite

Rhet Butler 

Rhet butler pissed me the fuck off. Huge dick and we started out by taking a shower together that boy was hard within 5 seconds he told me he loved my mouth. We eventually made it to the bedroom. It was wild it was hot it was erotic it was everything and then he screamed oh my God I'm cuming don't don't I can't cum.  I said what the fuck is wrong with you. He told me he had to save it for his next client.  I sue him the fuck out of my home and prayed to God on my knees that his next client would cancel. Lol

[+ Gar1eth]

I'm going to be conflating kind and friendly 

 

Mike Gaite for sure. I spent two holiday weekends with him. He was very giving of himself. 
 

Andrew Justice was an incredibly nice guy. 
 

Alec Andrews 

 

AJ Irons

an escort who retired a long time ago that I can't remember his last name  1st name was Mike he was from Columbus, Ohio I think  He was in a few near porn movies.  On an overnight we went to a Barnes and Noble. We were both into sci/fi and fantasy.  He bought me a paperback  

 

Ace Banner

Ray Stone

Tyger from Portland  

 

There are probably a few others.  But these guys stick in my mind   

 

 

 

[d.anders]

Acts of kindness often come in very small but meaningful moments. 

I stepped onto a packed subway train yesterday, and out of the blue a handsome, teenage Black boy, with a huge afro hairstyle, tapped me on my shoulder from behind to offer me his seat. I was a bit taken by his youth and bold beauty, and then yes by his kindness. It took me a second to snap back to reality and say no thanks. I was only going 2 short stops. Before he turned away, I tugged at his arm sleeve, looked him in his eyes, and said, "Thank you for your kindness." He lightly bowed his head and smiled sweetly. Made my day.

Dropping something on the floor out in public is one of my worst nightmares. My skeleton can no longer pick certain things up, especially flat things. Whenever I drop money, my metro card, my debit card, a pen or pencil, etc, I'm usually at the mercy of a kind stranger. One small, quiet act can easily demonstrate someone sensitive, unselfish and thoughtful.

Every time a massage therapist places his warm hand on my naked body, I think of kindness in the slow manner he chooses to lift his warm hand away. Sensitivity and thoughtfulness are often small, discreet things we see and feel. This is not acting. This is being human, and telling the world what kind of human you are.

[KrisParr]

12 hours ago, Gar1eth said:

I'm going to be conflating kind and friendly 

 

Mike Gaite for sure. I spent two holiday weekends with him. He was very giving of himself. 
 

Andrew Justice was an incredibly nice guy. 
 

Alec Andrews 

 

AJ Irons

an escort who retired a long time ago that I can't remember his last name  1st name was Mike he was from Columbus, Ohio I think  He was in a few near porn movies.  On an overnight we went to a Barnes and Noble. We were both into sci/fi and fantasy.  He bought me a paperback  

 

Ace Banner

Ray Stone

Tyger from Portland  

 

There are probably a few others.  But these guys stick in my mind   

 

 

 

Andrew Justice = 10+ stars