Ask The Clients

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

I always keep the small (12 oz) bottles of waters at home so that clients can get a sealed bottled from me when I offer them a beverage. When traveling, I do the same.

 

When offered a beverage myself, I always request water. A new client, who lives in a clearly nice home in a very nice area of Los Angeles always brings me water in a glass. The first time he did so, I pretended to sip and then left the glass alone for the rest of the session. The second time I brought my own bottle. As the client made a comment once he saw I had finished with my own bottle and we were finished with the session, I stated I would not mind some water "for the road." He again brought me a glass, which I promptly mostly drank down and thanked him. Ever since, on my return to his home, I have accepted and drank from the glass of water he has brought me.

 

I discussed this with the Twinks and other friends of mine who escort and all agreed they would not have drunk from a glass.

 

My question: would you be offended if someone asked you for water and did not drink from a glass you brought them? Would you have any other adverse reactions and why?

[+ Lucky]

First of all, I would only offer an 8 ounce bottle. This stuff is not cheap.

Second of all, I have noticed that if I offer a drink from a can or bottle the escort usually says "Oh, a glass of water would be fine." Then of course he doesn't drink it.

To me it is just a courtesy like saying how are you but not expecting anything other than "Fine, thanks." in return. An icebreaker, so to speak, if you have the bottle in the freezer.

 

(Yes, I am going nuts. I have been locked inside since Tuesday, and just as I am getting better we are getting snowed inx( )

[foxy]

As a client, whenever I've been offered a drink I also ask for water. Sometimes it's come in a glass and a few times I've been given my own small bottle to open. I'm usually in the es

corts home when this happens. I don't think any escort is going to "slip me a mikey" so I usually feel comfortable either way. I do think if I were an escort I might be a little cautious about excepting a drink from an unknown client. I'm sure most of the time it would be ok but it's always better to err on the side of caution. I don't think any sensitive client would be offended if an escort asked for his own bottle of water that had not been opened. So much of this business depends on trust but it's still a good idea to keep your guard up. No one should ever have to worry about being hurt but I'm sure their are a few (very few I hope) people out there who could do us harm. I think the main thing in this business, from both ends is to be as honest as possible and speak your mind. No decent person will ever fault you for that.

Maybe the simple solution is to bring along a bottle of your own water and say "Thanks I have some of my own".

[VaHawk]

>I don't think any escort is

>going to "slip me a mikey" so I usually feel comfortable

>either way. I do think if I were an escort I might be a little

>cautious about excepting a drink from an unknown client.>

 

I think both the client and the escort should exercise caution, especially if it is a first time encounter between the two. And that goes for if the meeting is in the escort's place, the client's place or a hotel. Let's not forget that not every escort that is hired by a client is reviewed on this site, and if not then you as a client need to exercise caution. Also, this site has not been around that long. And believe me from my own personal, very painful yet educational experience that some guys will indeed slip a "mickey" in your drink even in your own home. :-(

[foxy]

Very sensible advice. Sorry I mis-spelled mickey.

[VaHawk]

From my own experience, I would advise you to heed the advice of those twinks you always refer to, and never drink from an unopened container proferred by a client, especially a first time client. You should proceed with caution, even with a second time client, especially at his place. Does the name Jeffrey Dahmer ring a bell? Even with an unopened container, I would advise you to not leave it unattended if you left the room for any reason.

 

Besides, most clients would bring you an unsealed bottle of water, especially "one for the road". I would never give the escort anything unopened and if he was not satisfied or was uncomfortable with what was offered for any reason, I would not be the least bit offended or harbor any "ill feelings" towards him. Any client who would get upset or complain would probably be worth avoiding. :-(

[foxy]

I'll second that!

[VaHawk]

OOOPS! That should have been never drink from an opened container or glass. I must have cabin fever from being stuck inside all weekend due to the snow.

[+ Lucky]

"I must have cabin fever from being stuck inside all weekend due to the snow."

So now I have that to look forward to as well!

x(

[Luv2play]

This is one of those subjects you never really think about until someone raises it and then you think, well, that IS something to consider. In my case I entertain most escorts in my home except when I'm travelling and then it may be either my hotel room or the escort's place. At home or in my hotel, I always have bottled beverages to offer. Of course I'm into watersports so I do have an ulterior motive}( }( }( But they know that in advance:P

 

If I am offered a drink at an escort's place I will accept juice or bottled water if offered but I don't drink tap water but then I don't at home either. Too many chemicals for my taste;( Now drinking in a bar is another matter, I keep a eye on my drink at all times and if I lose track of it I leave it unfinished. Call me Miss Prudent!

[OneFinger]

>This is one of those subjects you never really think about until someone raises it...

 

I have NEVER bought bottled water and honestly didn't think about having some on hand. I always meet my escorts in a hotel and usually offer them a bottled soft drink or beer which I have in the room. Perhaps I'd better add water to that list also.

 

I would NOT be offended if the escort didn't drink the glass of water. But, I do like the suggestion that you bring your own to ensure you have something that is safe.

[Huey]

RE: Paronoid

 

The Black Sabbath song comes to mind when reading your post.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Heavy Water

 

>The Black Sabbath song comes to mind when reading your post.

 

Given your avatar and your position, I am sure you agree that heavy water is something that neither interests you nor you endorse.

 

I feel the same way about certain music.

[+ Lucky]

RE: Heavy Water

 

Huey and Franco:

You California guys are way over my head. What Black Sabbath song?

[Huey]

RE: Heavy Water

 

Lucky the song is called Paronoid, for me it not only fits the topic it fits the threads author's personality :o .

[Huey]

RE: Whoa

 

Involuntary change of topic's subject line.

[HooBoy]

I have issues about bottled water.

 

I do not think it is safe.

 

I feel confident in the security around the water in Manhatten (and other major cities), but I do not trust water that is served to me in bottles.

 

Aside from my fear that underpaid workers are spitting into the bottles before they are capped, I am not sure about the security in the bottled water plants.

 

However, I feel VERY secure that the water supply in the major cities is safe.

[Bilbo]

Hoo, I have seen roommates who already had depressed immune systems (and not all from HIV) get sick just from Houston tap water. Of course, that was many years ago, (and wasn't my Cub, Maverick)but a lot of guys tell me that its still not all that safe all the time.

 

I keep a dorm size refrigerator stocked with bottled water in my massage room for my clients so we don't have to go traipsing all over the apartment. For what it's worth.

[+ Lucky]

I know that in New York and San Francisco that the city water authorities will not vouch for the safety of their water to people with compromised immune systems. Which is not to say that bottled water is safer. Chelsea restaurants used to have signs in the window about their water filtration process, but no more.

[guyinsf]

Perhaps I'm wrong but I thought that if someone slipped a "mickey" into your drink, its taste would be masked by alcohol or some other flavor (juice or soda) but that it would be detectable in water. I'm certainly not an expert in "date rape" drugs, though, so I could be wrong.

 

I don't buy bottled water, for the most part. I use a water filter to make my tap water taste better. I always offer an escort a glass of water (or whatever else I have on hand, like juice, soda, or a mixed drink). Most guys who ask for anything just want the water. The escort is certainly free to see me in my kitchen pouring a glass of water from my pitcher at the same time I am pouring one for myself. Unless I'm planning to make myself pass out as well, my drinking that water is a pretty clear sign to them that I'm not trying to drug them.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Point of Reference

 

I was born in the mid-1960's and my parent's choice of music then was classical. While I did spend ten years in San Francisco and now call Los Angeles home, I have spent more time in Europe and elsewhere than I have in California.

 

Now that I do live here, I tend to stick with music with a positive message; you will have to ask elsewhere for someone to explain the obscure and the pointless.

[jackhammer91406]

Franco,

I have done all of my hiring when I was out of town. I have always asked via e-mail whether the escort had a preference in something to drink so that I could have it in my hotel room when they arrived. With one exeption, they have all said a bottle of water. The exception asked for Dos xxques (sp) beer. I bought a collapsing cooler and use hotel ice to keep drinks cold if there's no fridge. The guy who asked for the beer was the biggest disappointment and in fact other than being a good beer drinker, did nothing for me. I never reviewed him because the whole thing could have been my fault since I really didn't get excited once he got there so, after he had spent an hour drinking the beers and letting himself be touched, he got up and left.

 

 

 

 

As to your question, If they had asked for something and then didn't drink it, I might ask if there was something wrong with it so I would learn for the next time, but otherwise, it's cool.

[+ glutes]

I always decline a 'glass of water' from a escort. Not so much as the quality of the water being served, but one look at their kitchen makes me wonder on the cleanliness of the glass itself.

[EXPAT]

I always keep large bottles of water in the frig and usually escorts want water, so they usually see me poor it out of the bottle anyway. But if they brought their own water, it wouldn't bother me at all.

[Guest sebastian]

TELL THE CLIENTS

 

What is so wrong with telling the client what your comfort zones are? Maybe someone should write a book about etiquite for serving beverages.