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Hey guys,

I fantasize on men with athletic body I can touch, sniff and kiss. But escorts I’ve been with looked very reluctant to fake being affectionate. It seems that only women can fake interest when straight guys hire them. The guys I’ve met wanted to give me a hand job to finish the session and get it done with. I feel that guys can do the mechanical work of hand job, penetration, massage, but they are not able to look affectionate or have the initiative to hug me. After such sessions I feel so empty and rejected, thinking that “money can’t buy you love” even for one hour. Am I asking too much of these guys? Did I choose the wrong escorts? Maybe the more muscular they are the more difficult for them to fake interest in less attractive people?

pls let me know if you have a solution or other feedback…

thanks,

Daniel D.

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26 minutes ago, Daniel_D said:

Hey guys,

I fantasize on men with athletic body I can touch, sniff and kiss. But escorts I’ve been with looked very reluctant to fake being affectionate. It seems that only women can fake interest when straight guys hire them. The guys I’ve met wanted to give me a hand job to finish the session and get it done with. I feel that guys can do the mechanical work of hand job, penetration, massage, but they are not able to look affectionate or have the initiative to hug me. After such sessions I feel so empty and rejected, thinking that “money can’t buy you love” even for one hour. Am I asking too much of these guys? Did I choose the wrong escorts? Maybe the more muscular they are the more difficult for them to fake interest in less attractive people?

pls let me know if you have a solution or other feedback…

thanks,

Daniel D.

Sounds a lot like applying for jobs.  Rejection letter after rejection letter until you land a job.  Keep looking and the right boy will appear one day 

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I’m confident you can find a man with a muscled/athletic body to take care of you @Daniel_D 

You just have to research suitable men. When you contact them, explain you’re happy to pay full rate but you want a romantic “boyfriend experience”. Be very specific: say you want lots of kissing and cuddling and to be hugged, but you don’t want (if I understand your desires correctly) penetrative sex nor to climax.

Some years back, I was asked by a younger but very overweight acquaintance about an athletic muscle-bottom I was dating. He was embarrassed about his own body but he too wanted a very romantic time (but no sex) with a hot guy with a muscled body. I was asked if the muscleboy would be willing to meet him. He later told me how the handsome muscleboy stripped down to a black speedo on arrival. He sprawled on the bed to let my acquaintance worship his body fully, and he was cuddled and kissed by the muscleboy. It was heaven for my acquaintance. In fact it was so good that he hired the muscleboy again a few nights later so that he could see how he looked in tight white briefs. 

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16 hours ago, dbar123 said:

Keep looking. It’s all about the chemistry.

You should list your approximate area. You might get some good suggestions on locals to try

Now in Jackson MS but can travel by car or plane to nearby ports.

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On 7/6/2022 at 9:45 PM, Daniel_D said:

Hey guys,

I fantasize on men with athletic body I can touch, sniff and kiss. But escorts I’ve been with looked very reluctant to fake being affectionate. It seems that only women can fake interest when straight guys hire them. The guys I’ve met wanted to give me a hand job to finish the session and get it done with. I feel that guys can do the mechanical work of hand job, penetration, massage, but they are not able to look affectionate or have the initiative to hug me. After such sessions I feel so empty and rejected, thinking that “money can’t buy you love” even for one hour. Am I asking too much of these guys? Did I choose the wrong escorts? Maybe the more muscular they are the more difficult for them to fake interest in less attractive people?

pls let me know if you have a solution or other feedback…

thanks,

Daniel D.

It just depends on the guy.  I’ve reached a point where I’m willing to run two scenarios depending on who shows up. If the guy is affectionate, I get the BFE I want.  There are good guys out there.

if not, I have him give me a massage and fuck.  There’s something about a massage, for me, that makes it more intimate than the “wham bam thank you man” that some providers seem to specialize in.

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Hi everyone,

I’m thankful for the responses and for this forum, which helped me find affectionate and professional guys (we didn’t do anal, only cuddling):

AnthonyFlex - indeed expensive but constantly working to please me, showing and flexing his muscles and being verbal on how muscular he is. The most deep and manly voice I’ve heard - I just wanted to put my ear on his chest and listen to the vibrations. His neck tattoo was a turn on for me, so was every inch of his body. He constantly said crazy stuff like “do you want me to piss on you” and I could never tell if he meant what he said. This crazy talk was also a turn on, like I got to be intimate with a ripped jail thug. A single hour extended to three. It was hundreds of dollars but an unforgettable experience. Rich people here, please take him for many hours. I can’t afford it regular.

ZRush was the best lover I’ve had. Previously I though many escorts don’t like kissing in the mouth. I also had escorts who did not initiate any action, only lay immobile and waited for me to finish touching their body. This guy took the initiative and started to kiss and hug me for about three hours. A big guy with huge pecs, tanned smooth skin (very little hair here and there) a cute adorable face that can be smiling or serious and manly. He seemed to like my biting his nipples and groaned. I moaned with happiness because his kisses were so loving. I really wanted to please him so I sucked his rod for some time. in sum, he can write the textbook for love making. 

This is a partial list of escorts I tried, but these two blew my mind.

D.

 

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Sure, dear MscleLovr.

AnthonyFlex, the human-rollercoaster-verbal-muscle-show-deep-voice, is usually in New York city. He travels, so I met him in Atlanta. At the time (a week ago) he charged $500 for the first hour and $400 for the second and I think less for the third. He was also offering the entire night for a considerable sum. I admire his capabilities so I think he’s entitled to charge much above the $300 industry standard. I do not regret paying him. It’s a once in a lifetime experience for muscle lovers (dunno about his anal expertise, though). I really wanted to spend the following morning with him, going to museums in Atlanta, but he said he would still charge $500 per hour, even when visiting a museum, and I couldn’t afford it. Note: It seemed to me that occasionally he would refuse or bail out of sessions if he was not up to it. I don’t think this should reduce his ratings.

ZRush, the buff angel face kisser, also was some deep voice, is now in the process of moving his home base from Atlanta (where I met him a week ago), to Florida, could be Tampa? Check his schedule. I think he’s $350 and then $200 for the second hour. If you suck his nipples he will be thrilled. Just saying.

 

D.

 

 

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On 7/23/2022 at 12:49 PM, Daniel_D said:

ZRush, the buff angel face kisser, also was some deep voice, is now in the process of moving his home base from Atlanta (where I met him a week ago), to Florida, could be Tampa? Check his schedule. I think he’s $350 and then $200 for the second hour. If you suck his nipples he will be thrilled. Just saying.

He quoted me $400 when I recently inquired. I didn't ask about a second hour.

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Have you tried hiring from an actual cuddling website?  I've heard success stories of some clients frequenting pro cuddlers while also enjoying their "escort proper" provider for all things non-cuddle when that itch needs to be scratched.

Ideally it would be one escort providing it all, but finding different providers to satisfy various needs might be an alternative.

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It's possible. I've done it with a guy I've hired before. I was sort of in a place where I needed a good hug. We started the session with some extended hugging and cuddling before things started to heat up. Great sex ensued.

It wasn't planned, I just said "mind if we cuddle a bit" and he said "its your time..."

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A note about https://rent.men/AnthonyFlex 

I met him for the second time. I realized that his straight acting voice and behavior is because… he’s pretty much straight (by the way, he also likes trans). He gives a great show of muscle, armpits and nipples and offers to kiss me, but these are things he’s doing for the job and his mind is wandering from one thing to another during the session. So, it’s such a fantasy to touch and lick this muscle man but it IS clearly a fantasy to think there’s any genuine affection from the other side. I just wanted to be honest with you guys. Yes, it’s still a unique, crazy and sexy experience, but personally I get upset if I notice the guy I’m with is not doing it with all his heart. It’s just a blow to my ego and a turn off. And I DID find escorts who were dedicated to giving me pleasure, so I know such men exist. 
 

D.

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