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[coriolis888]

1 hour ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

 

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Most times it helps, other times they just say nothing. Which to me tends to imply they aren’t really viewing me professionally, and could just as likely fall thru or haven’t fully made up their minds.

I think you might be surprised how many clients have been ripped off by sending a deposit or a payment in advance.  

Once this happens to a client and then a different provider wants money in advance, it is a normal reaction to reject another advance deposit or payment.  

"Once burned, shame on you, twice burned, shame on me." 

You are likely an honest person and would not default on a deposit. 

Unfortunately, a huge portion of providers who ask for money in advance are not honest.  

 

[jeezifonly]

Among the things that make the transactions here unique as a business model, is establishing contact. I think we all need to give our text recipients breathing space.

Most people in both sides of the transaction have really busy lives, and now, more than ever, are also using smart phones for any number of things that used to be done with phone calls or on a computer, especially multi-gig workers.
Texts can get buried by family/work/friends/travel/medicalconvos having nothing to do with hiring or providing. If you don’t hear back, you don’t hear back. It’s the same as “no thanks.” I don’t think it’s out of malice. Mostly just busy-ness. 
Clients hire someone else, and providers book another client. Aren’t there worse ways to have your time wasted? 

Yes, as a matter of fact, I did just receive a jury summons, why do you ask? 😂

 

[+ Coolwave35]

@Jarrod_Uncut

I’m constantly told I’m a pretty decent client, and have a decent track record of hiring new guys (provided at least one forum member has met them.). I’m honestly curious if I’d ever be able to set up an appointment with you or if we’d turn each other off during the set up. I try to be super respectful of an escort’s time, particularly if we haven’t met yet. Here is my standard opening message.   I’d love your opinion of whether it would pass you’re sniff test. 
 

“Hello. I saw your profile on (abbreviate site name). I really liked what I saw and read and would like to find a time to meet. I’m in town until Saturday, hosting at my hotel, the Hyatt on 34th street. They have parking and you wouldn’t need a key card to get to my room. I would prefer to meet tonight, tomorrow, Thursday or Friday evening to start between 7-10.  I could make a day appointment work but would prefer not to. I’ll be prepared with cash, Applepay, paypal, cash app or Venmo. If you have availability, I’d like to discuss what I’m looking for.”

don’t hold back man, I’d love your feedback.  
 

 

[+ KensingtonHomo]

2 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

“Hello. I saw your profile on (abbreviate site name). I really liked what I saw and read and would like to find a time to meet. I’m in town until Saturday, hosting at my hotel, the Hyatt on 34th street. They have parking and you wouldn’t need a key card to get to my room. I would prefer to meet tonight, tomorrow, Thursday or Friday evening to start between 7-10.  I could make a day appointment work but would prefer not to. I’ll be prepared with cash, Applepay, paypal, cash app or Venmo. If you have availability, I’d like to discuss what I’m looking for.”

This is very similar to my initial message. I'm a little shorter and generally ask what payment type they prefer. 

[Jarrod_Uncut]

On 5/23/2022 at 12:43 AM, coriolis888 said:

I think you might be surprised how many clients have been ripped off by sending a deposit or a payment in advance.  

Once this happens to a client and then a different provider wants money in advance, it is a normal reaction to reject another advance deposit or payment.  

"Once burned, shame on you, twice burned, shame on me." 

You are likely an honest person and would not default on a deposit. 

Unfortunately, a huge portion of providers who ask for money in advance are not honest.  

 

Yeah, it’s unfortunate. But again, if a provider wants to get over on someone…I’ve seen it happen right in front of their face. I hear it all the time. So much so that, I’d be concerned to hire escorts if I wasn’t an escort lol. One client told me, the guy met the client outside and collected the money, and disappeared. Apparently it was just a “model home”. Other times, a hot young boy in a picture was a much older man in person. I’ve heard it all. 

However, that’s where the credentials come into play. I did without deposits for a good majority throughout, only doing them for occasional out of area meets. But, I just don’t enjoy working on “the edge” anymore. I like to know that even if the person has something come up, I’m still getting something out of it. That’s just me. I been played too many times, over the past few months…to where a client has to at least acknowledged my position, before seeing me. 
 

Plus, I have upfront expenses before I see clients many times. If I have to get a room, or drive, it’s all money upfront for me. I’ve paid for hotels, given out my address…and MoFos fail to show up and I’m out of money and time. And there’s not a whole lot of insight on the client’s end to believe each and everyone. So…I have to do what I need to do.

On 5/24/2022 at 6:44 AM, Coolwave35 said:

@Jarrod_Uncut

I’m constantly told I’m a pretty decent client, and have a decent track record of hiring new guys (provided at least one forum member has met them.). I’m honestly curious if I’d ever be able to set up an appointment with you or if we’d turn each other off during the set up. I try to be super respectful of an escort’s time, particularly if we haven’t met yet. Here is my standard opening message.   I’d love your opinion of whether it would pass you’re sniff test. 
 

“Hello. I saw your profile on (abbreviate site name). I really liked what I saw and read and would like to find a time to meet. I’m in town until Saturday, hosting at my hotel, the Hyatt on 34th street. They have parking and you wouldn’t need a key card to get to my room. I would prefer to meet tonight, tomorrow, Thursday or Friday evening to start between 7-10.  I could make a day appointment work but would prefer not to. I’ll be prepared with cash, Applepay, paypal, cash app or Venmo. If you have availability, I’d like to discuss what I’m looking for.”

don’t hold back man, I’d love your feedback.  
 

 

This is perfect! If every one wrote this way, it would be less time depend. I’d probably want to still ask a deposit…just because that’s just my standard right now. Otherwise, everything you’ve mentioned is transparent and understandable.

Only thing I could say is: you mentioned a lot of window of time, but ensure that’s what it actually is. Sometimes people will say they’re available whenever, but then change it up.
 

Like the one guy I mentioned elsewhere, he said earlier in the week that he would be available anytime after 7…but then the day of, had some BS excuse about having made other plans right after our session. How was I supposed to know? What a jerk. I was 1,800 miles from home, in an unfamiliar and large city. And he wanted to be a bitch about me needing a little more time to arrive. After I was nice enough to waive the deposit. Never again. Ever.
 

Some people try to cram other plans in the same time of day as their escort session. Don’t. If you have a date, stick with that plan for at least the “section” of that day. That leaves room to extend the session or any timing adjustments/delays.

Edited May 26, 2022 by Jarrod_Uncut