What's in a sexily whispered name?

[+ purplekow]

As most escorts advertise with a pseudonym, I was wondering how soon, if ever, are you comfortable having your client use you given name.  Do any of you have a second pseudonym you give as your real name?

[italianboyph]

I think sometimes the problem with given too much away as simple as a name can back fire. Cause unfortunately some people are crazy. 

[Kevin Slater]

Favio

Kevin Favio Slater

[Guest]

I'm Dante to my clients, and I'll always be Dante. 

During the pandemic I got doxxed a bunch of times by well-meaning restaurant staff checking my vaccine passport. Yet, those clients who overheard my birth name still know me as Dante. 

They whisper it, and it's hot. My birth name doesn't even matter. 

[Jamie21]

Clients expect discretion, and so do I.

They can call me whatever they like in the moment…

[Guest MikeThomas]

Don't your phones have caller id?  It's amazing what you can find by googling a phone number, especially if it's someones real phone number.

[Jamie21]

Burner phone…

[Luv2play]

I have a handful of escorts that I have seen multiple times, often overnights, who revealed their real names, both given and family, after we got to know each other better. I was completely open about my identity, which of course made sense since they were in my home and hiding my info would be impossible. 

In a couple of cases, I had to revert to their RM names when we did a threesome with another escort. That required some concentration.

Edited March 31, 2022 by Luv2play

[BuffaloKyle]

5 hours ago, Luv2play said:

In a couple of cases, I had to revert to their RM names when we did a threesome with another escort. That required some concentration.

That reminds me of a bunch of times when I have been watching a duo show on Chaturbate and the one guy has referred to the other by their real name! They usually tell the room please forget what you just heard. 😆

[MikeBiDude]

I’ve almost never had a provider who’s comfortable with me not give me a real first name…and I give mine.

[big-n-tall]

Not a provider... lol!

Almost all my regulars have voluntarily told me their real names. They either told me up front, shortly after first meeting, or after a few times meeting. Some of the upfront reveals were because I needed their names for plane tickets I got them.

One of the guys I've seen a few times has said his name offhandedly but never officially told me his name. So I still reference him by his stage name. Another guy told me his real name for the plane tickets but told me he preferred if I called him by his stage name.

[TruHart1]

Not a provider myself, but a relatively active client.

Absolutely every escort I’ve hired who has become a regular is different. Some tell me at least their real first name the first time we get together. Some after 2 or 3 meetings, and a few, never, always continuing to use their RentMen stage name. Do I feel closer to guys who are open to letting me know their real name, yes, in most situations. It never really makes that much difference with the best guys, though.

One man whom I simply adored and would always be happy to hire again, anytime, for example, is Andrew Justice, who never told me his real name, but remains in my memories as one of the best escorts with whom I’ve ever been lucky enough to enjoy his company multiple times!

Then, again, my most recent new hire, after we got to know each other through texting and one extremely memorable session, not only told me his real first name, but also gave me his personal cell phone number (he uses a Google number as his contact number on his RentMen ad!) Every provider who has become a regular is different, but I always feel so lucky that I’ve met and enjoyed my times with so many extremely fine regulars!!!

TruHart1 😎