Real Straight Guys.

[Cure69]

1 hour ago, lonely_john said:

You are discovering yourself. Don't stress yourself out thinking of labels, what you are or aren't. Time will tell.

Yeah, it's been totally confusing in the very beginning but I sincerely felt "liberated" during my first bottom experience. And you're actually correct, I'm still learning a lot about myself. I don't even know if I have "a type" of man I like. All I see are beautifully sculptured men in photos, porn and on Rent Men (ugh!)

I'm sure it'll be more difficult for me to find "an average Joe" for me to be his butt buddy (LOL). 😩

[Cure69]

3 hours ago, studchaser said:

Thanks for sharing Cure. For all intents and purposes I wouldnt consider you straight. Maybe bisexual or falling somewhere on the spectrum. Desire and attraction is part of the equation in my determination of whether a guy is straight.  I tend to survey my guys before I make that determination so by the time I wanna make a move they havent had the opportunity to "put on". I dont just rely on what someone puts on a profie somewhere. 

 

I think the elusivesness of these guys is what sparks the interest. For many they are hiding in plain sight and for others they dont even exist. What a conundrum.

I never thought of myself being bi ... Interesting. These days, I'm just going where my desire takes me and enjoying the ride (literally) along the way. 😉

[Cure69]

34 minutes ago, nycman said:

I’m old enough to know that sexuality is an amazingly complex thing.
It’s as varied and changing as the waves on the ocean.
Some of the unexpected delights I’ve had you wouldn’t believe me if I told you.

Straight men who bottom but don’t kiss.
Men who get blown but don’t touch.
Men who want to be treated like a female.
Men who want to fuck men (gasp)
Men who only like to lick boots
Men who have barbershop fantasies 
Men who like foreskin fucking 
Men who like toys
Men who hate toys. 

Kinsey 0-6….are you fucking kidding?
Kinsey 0-1,000 still wouldn’t even come close to classifying man’s sexual diversity.
Thank fucking god! Now, put down your pencils and notebooks and get out there and enjoy. 
There are some amazing men out there just dying to experience you.

Straight?….that’s about one out of 165 sexual traits that I care about.
And it’s by far one of the least important….trust me. 

Wow, well said.

From your synopsis, I'm definitely a newly minted bottom who never (ever) liked toys. Didn't see any point in them (that's just me).

Your comment is super interesting!!

[+ DrownedBoy]

On 7/30/2021 at 3:24 PM, lonely_john said:

There is a caveat: There are some straight guys who fall in drug addiction and will do (almost) ANYTHING to feed their vice.

Yes. I hired one of them off RM accidentally. Not a fun time at all.

[Gymowner]

I feel it depends on their interactions and desires. If the guy gets involved with sexual activities with the other guy AND no money or external motivators are involved then chances are he is bisexed. If a guy is getting paid to lay there, close his eyes and get a blowjob so when he leaves his wallet is fat and his nuts are skinny then he most definately can pronounce himself at heterosexual. I've been with many many in my lifetime that fit the last scenario to a tee.

Edited July 31, 2021 by Gymowner

[Lazarus]

 

[lonely_john]

7 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

Yes. I hired one of them off RM accidentally. Not a fun time at all.

It happened to me as well. Since then, I've learned to look for drug abuse signs or PNP on RM profiles.

[+ augustus]

I've had experience with quite a few straight men.   It's mostly about the money and generally they will only allow you to service them.  I ADORE THEM.  First of all, they are as horny as hell (especially the ex-cons, who have the least inhibitions).  Then they are keen to keep it on the down low.   There is also little drama with them. You also need to watch what you say to them and not harp about what just happened.  Talk about something else.  Anyone who thinks a real straight good looking meathead won't pull his dick out when he's horny or needs a few bucks apparently has never lived near a military base.

Edited August 1, 2021 by augustus

[pubic_assistance]

On 7/30/2021 at 11:19 AM, marylander1940 said:

Must you bring this subject again...

Everyone has a type.

This fellow has every right to his.

[pubic_assistance]

On 7/30/2021 at 4:18 PM, studchaser said:

Some gays think in a narrow minded way because thats all they have had access to.

*Most*

[marylander1940]

4 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Everyone has a type.

This fellow has every right to his.

no some folks have an open type, but @studchaser has a type. Sometimes is hard to tell the difference between reality and fantasy in his PMs and posts about this subject. 

Maybe he should got a frat party, pretend to be drunk and leave the door open to see how many real straight men will "take the bait".

[marylander1940]

4 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

*Most*

except you of course. 

[pubic_assistance]

5 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

Sometimes is hard to tell the difference between reality and fantasy in his PMs and posts about this subject. 

I hardly think the gentleman is the only fellow out there with a sexual fantasy that he'd like to pay to act out.

[marylander1940]

3 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

I hardly think the gentleman is the only fellow out there with a sexual fantasy that he'd like to pay to act out.

you missed the point.

Sometimes is hard to tell he's talking about a fantasy or something that actually happened or he's working on making it happen in real life. 

[pubic_assistance]

3 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

you missed the point.

I don't believe I did.

I think you are looking for clarity in a a realm where fantasy and reality blend.

 

[marylander1940]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

I don't believe I did.

I think you are looking for clarity in a a realm where fantasy and reality blend.

 

facts are real, imagination/hoping for something isn't unless we actually do it. 

[pubic_assistance]

24 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

facts are real, imagination/hoping for something isn't unless we actually do it. 

Over your head again.

 

[marylander1940]

Just now, pubic_assistance said:

Over your head again.

 

I guess 1 + 1 to be whatever you need to be. 

 

[studchaser]

Just to clarify I am very lucid in my thoughts. The things i talk about are a combination of things experienced and things id want to experience ir experience again. As much as you guys paint me as sone unicorn there are many men with this interest. I always hope they will reach out and share similar experiences or even pm me(which they do). Ppl serious about this know everything exists under the radar. The same way millions of pounds ofillegal  drugs exist in America but you never see them unloading the boats or trailers with them nor the drugs available sign in the windows of dealers. 

 

Everytime i make a post like this. I hear stories where someone will share stories and images of sone straight guy they met so n so place and i may do the same. Its a thriving subgenre there is just no real forum dedicated to it 

[studchaser]

On 7/31/2021 at 7:04 PM, Gymowner said:

I feel it depends on their interactions and desires. If the guy gets involved with sexual activities with the other guy AND no money or external motivators are involved then chances are he is bisexed. If a guy is getting paid to lay there, close his eyes and get a blowjob so when he leaves his wallet is fat and his nuts are skinny then he most definately can pronounce himself at heterosexual. I've been with many many in my lifetime that fit the last scenario to a tee.

Very true gymowner. They are out there.

[studchaser]

22 hours ago, Lazarus said:

 

This is pure entertainment!!! However he is describing closeted guys. The men j am describing are men who love women but have a flecinomic incentive. Lets not mix apples n oranges and oretend its same thing 

[Luv2play]

18 hours ago, augustus said:

I've had experience with quite a few straight men.   It's mostly about the money and generally they will only allow you to service them.  I ADORE THEM.  First of all, they are as horny as hell (especially the ex-cons, who have the least inhibitions).  Then they are keen to keep it on the down low.   There is also little drama with them. You also need to watch what you say to them and not harp about what just happened.  Talk about something else.  Anyone who thinks a real straight good looking meathead won't pull his dick out when he's horny or needs a few bucks apparently has never lived near a military base.

I sometimes wonder what my life would have been like if I had lived near a military base.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

10 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Everyone has a type.

This fellow has every right to his.

He has a fetish, not a type.

There's a difference.

[pubic_assistance]

2 hours ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

He has a fetish, not a type.

And you are offended by people with sexual fetishes ?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

11 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

And you are offended by people with sexual fetishes ?

Where did I say that again?