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Even though he stopped advertising 4 years ago, I continued to see a hot provider until very recently. I even had him up to my summer place last summer for a few days and we had a blast. He let me know that he’s no longer a provider. He feels that, at 32, maybe he’s better off focusing exclusively on his career as a color stylist. Although I’m happy for him, I’ll sure miss our torrid sessions.

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For the most part, a number of my favs who retired I'm still in contact with on a friendly basis. Of those, a small number, we still have sexual contact.

 

However, the guy I had the most chemistry with sexually, we actually remained in friendly contact up until shortly after he was named in a scandal with a billionaire being extorted. :)

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However, the guy I had the most chemistry with sexually, we actually remained in friendly contact up until shortly after he was named in a scandal with a billionaire being extorted.

For the record.....it looks like he’s out of jail.

 

https://www.towleroad.com/2019/12/jarec-wentworth-2/

 

And not to split hairs, but the victim D.B. is generally referred to as a “Multi-millionaire“, not a Billionaire.

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Even though he stopped advertising 4 years ago, I continued to see a hot provider until very recently. I even had him up to my summer place last summer for a few days and we had a blast. He let me know that he’s no longer a provider. He feels that, at 32, maybe he’s better off focusing exclusively on his career as a color stylist. Although I’m happy for him, I’ll sure miss our torrid sessions.

 

I am sure he will keep in touch on a personal level to let you know how his life endeavors are going. And I'm sure if he ever has that urge you will be the first to know ?

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For the record.....it looks like he’s out of jail.

 

https://www.towleroad.com/2019/12/jarec-wentworth-2/

 

And not to split hairs, but the victim D.B. is generally referred to as a “Multi-millionaire“, not a Billionaire.

 

It wasn't Jarec, but it was another Sean Cody guy (Ashton) named as possible witness in the whole scandal. I don't know if he ever was directly involved in the court case. I do remember an article where lawyers wanted him to testify and he tried to use the excuse he couldn't go because he had passes to San Diego Comic Con. :)

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It wasn't Jarec, but it was another Sean Cody guy (Ashton) named as possible witness in the whole scandal. I don't know if he ever was directly involved in the court case. I do remember an article where lawyers wanted him to testify and he tried to use the excuse he couldn't go because he had passes to San Diego Comic Con. :)

 

Taylor from Sean Cody who now uses the name Justin Matthews testified at Jarec's trial.

 

~Boomer~

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Taylor from Sean Cody who now uses the name Justin Matthews testified at Jarec's trial.

 

~Boomer~

 

Understood.

I know lawyers wanted Ashton to testify because of his ties to D.B. but he refused/tried to get out of it. I didn’t follow the case closely enough to know if he actually did.

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My guy retired and I missed my last chance to see him. I’m still crushed about it but I understand, can’t do this kind of work forever. As the saying goes when one door closes another one opens. Still looking for his replacement but I’m sure he’s doing what he wants.

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I was very young, and he was my first hire, but I will always miss Carlos Botero. He did some Musclehunks videos, and was a total animal behind closed doors. He was a really nice guy but once you got him behind closed doors, his primal urges came out. I was with him twice. Amazing guy.

 

My second hire right after him was Jake Gianelli. Amazing guy. He oozed sex. I remember though an awkward moment at first when he thought I was an escort myself, and maybe thought he was being set up or something. We had amazing sex.

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  • 1 year later...

This thread attests to the potential emotional component of being with escorts. I was not prepared for the emotional connection I had with my first regular back in the early 2010s. I started patronizing him while he was working in a strip club. Whenever I would show up, other strippers would snidely ask, “Are you here to see your boyfriend?” I got the sense that they were all laughing at me behind my back, but I didn’t care. The connection we developed led him to disclose a lot of personal information to me. I got the sense that he didn’t have a lot of people in his life who would genuinely listen to him, and I didn’t have anyone who would engage in physical intimacy with me like he did.

Eventually, it became difficult for me to reconcile the intimacy we shared—an intimacy that I believe was genuine—with the transactional aspect of being with an escort. That has been an ongoing struggle for me.  Based on this thread, I’m guessing I’m not alone.

 

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On 3/17/2021 at 3:14 PM, Pensant said:

Even though he stopped advertising 4 years ago, I continued to see a hot provider until very recently. I even had him up to my summer place last summer for a few days and we had a blast. He let me know that he’s no longer a provider. He feels that, at 32, maybe he’s better off focusing exclusively on his career as a color stylist. Although I’m happy for him, I’ll sure miss our torrid sessions.

Tell him I've heard people can continue escorting past 32 :-)  maybe he'll do both :-)

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On 3/17/2021 at 6:14 PM, Pensant said:

Even though he stopped advertising 4 years ago, I continued to see a hot provider until very recently. I even had him up to my summer place last summer for a few days and we had a blast. He let me know that he’s no longer a provider. He feels that, at 32, maybe he’s better off focusing exclusively on his career as a color stylist. Although I’m happy for him, I’ll sure miss our torrid sessions.

I recently saw an escort older than me who was 50. 32 is still young

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5 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

Tell him I've heard people can continue escorting past 32 🙂 maybe he'll do both 🙂

AFAIK, he’s only seeing me, but who knows? He looks much younger. He’s blessed with a great ass and a six-pack.

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