Hair touching?

[guru68]

I guess more as a part of petting, but I wonder about hair touching from a client. Too personal? Of course, the other side of that would be product, etc.

[Storm4U]

I think you should ask if they mind first. Depending on when you do it. If you’re talking about when you’re being intimate then it’s probably fine but if not, then you may want to ask because some may love it and some may not.

Edited October 5, 2020 by Storm4U

[Trick]

I think you should ask if they mind first.

 

If I had to ask about hair touching, I wonder if I will have to ask about everything else. Goodbye spontaneity

[dbar123]

During the pandemic I grew my beard out to full Santa. Touching it gently and fondling it was a huge turn on because it became super sensitive to touch. Eventually I had to pare it down but now I regret doing that. May have to try it again now that winter is coming

[RandyVue]

Depends on the moment. If you are in the throws of passion then im sure its fine but if not, then some people are not comfortable with someone touching their hair or face so you may want to ask.

Edited October 5, 2020 by RandyVue

[Dirks]

If I had to ask about hair touching, I wonder if I will have to ask about everything else. Goodbye spontaneity

Totally, hair touching Is a real turn on for me, love the texture and feel of short or cropped hair in particular. I consider it to be part of close body contact which I always check ahead that body contact is ok for the provider. But never down to the specifics of Checking it’s ok to touch his hair!

[Trick]

Depends on the moment. If you are in the throws of passion then im sure its fine but if not, then some people are not comfortable with someone touching their hair or face so you may want to ask.

 

I just realized I must have been turning off a lot of providers. I touch everything, even lick everything.

[tenderloin]

Reminds me of that classic old movie line: "I'd love to kiss ya, but I just washed my hair."

[+ poolboy48220]

Given the nature of the business, I never even considered this would be off the board. Like @Trick , I touch everything, and have never had someone say "don't touch me there".

[adventurous old guy]

This thread made me smile. I usually ask as a prelim if there is something that is a turnoff for a service provider I'm meeting for the first time. There was a muscle boy who used to advertise in the DC/Baltimore area who let me know that he hated to have his hair touched, which I thought was odd but kind of a cute response. Turned out he was a hairdresser by day who spent a lot of time putting his do together and had recently done hair plugs. Two takeaways: 1) Always ask, you never know what matters to people; and 2) this guy turned out to be controlling about several specifics that he didn't mention during the prelims, so the hair thing was an early indicator of overall personality. Not a great meeting, though I did get advice on hair product! ?

[Islesguy]

Never thought about asking, but I should since it's pretty much automatic that I will start running my fingers through a guy's hair when we are cuddling. So far, no one has objected.

[+ harey]

Oh, no. I googled “creepy hair touching” hoping to find a funny picture. Unfortunately, instead I learned something new about Joe Biden.

 

BTW, I usually like cuddling with regular guys, and most have been OK with hair touching. I don’t assume anything on a first date and definitely ask first.

[Trick]

I was with a provider today and at first I did not want to touch his hair because of the discussions on this thread. But when he sucked my nipples, I not only touched his hair, I pulled it!

[rustyrex]

Did it once while in the heat of the moment. I didn't think it was a big deal till I realized when I touched his hair that it didn't feel like real hair. The guy damn near jumped back and then guided my hand somewhere else. His hair felt really odd, like straw but flexible. I apologized and we continued. He was an older gentleman with an beefy body and nice ass. I still enjoyed our moment together.

[Trick]

Did it once while in the heat of the moment. I didn't think it was a big deal till I realized when I touched his hair that it didn't feel like real hair. The guy damn near jumped back and then guided my hand somewhere else. His hair felt really odd, like straw but flexible. I apologized and we continued. He was an older gentleman with an beefy body and nice ass. I still enjoyed our moment together.

 

Was his name Eddie by any chance?

[rustyrex]

Was his name Eddie by any chance?

 

It was so long ago I don't remember, I was in PHX at the time on vacation.

[thickornotatall]

I want my head rubbed and hair pulled when sucking a big fat cock....

[filmbuff78]

I never ask about hair, but I never take a hat off without permission

[MikeBiDude]

Not only touch, but I’m a hair puller....after asking permission, or just following the hints ?

[Trick]

I never ask about hair, but I never take a hat off without permission

 

I’m really a bad client. The first thing I take off is the provider’s hat lol

[Daverwr]

I always touch the back of their hair during a passionate kiss. Only once did I get “Don’t touch my hair.” He was the ass that demanded his payment when he walked in. Beat me off as fast as he could then spent the rest of the time in the bathroom. When I complained, he said, “That’s why we get the money up front” and left. I was naive then (30 years ago).

[Shawn Monroe]

Since you’re wondering about a client touching a provider’s hair, wondering why this wasn’t asked in the “ask an escort” section.

 

Asking if a provider likes his hair touched is no big deal and should be asked about even if you like it, especially when many like to make sure the one you’re with is enjoying it too.

 

Not liking hair being touched isn’t always a sign of high maintenance. In fact, many Black men do not like having their hair touched. As the texture of our hair is different, touching or pulling it often makes it frizzy and affects the curl pattern.

 

even though I let him, I have a client ask every time before touching it because he knows this.

 

I’m with @Storm4U here. But instead of engage, you all kind of talked over him.