ESCORTS WHO CANNOT GET IT UP

[+ Keith30309]

Every time one of these “can’t get hard” threads spins up I get this mental image of a sweaty guy desperately masturbating a soft dick trying to get an erection nervously glancing between a clock and frowning client with arms crossed.

 

If I’m late on budget changes at least I can work late to get it done. ?

Edited July 13, 2020 by Keith30309

[MscleLovr]

That’s a potent mental image @Keith30309 that I shall try my best to forget

 

IMHO Working guys “desperately masturbating a soft dick“ are a contradiction in terms. Guess they must be those guys who advertise ‘you pay for my time only’

[marylander1940]

Every time one of these “can’t get hard” threads spins up I get this mental image of a sweaty guy desperately masturbating a soft dick trying to get an erection nervously glancing between a clock and frowning client with arms crossed.

 

If I’m late on budget changes at least I can work late to get it done. ?

 

Exactly! Not everybody has the stomach to escort even when Viagra.

[marylander1940]

That’s a potent mental image @Keith30309 that I shall try my best to forget

 

IMHO Working guys “desperately masturbating a soft dick“ are a contradiction in terms. Guess they must be those guys who advertise ‘you pay for my time only’

 

What about when the client because of his age, body type, lifestyle, medicines, etc. can't get it and keep it hard?

 

Btw all the talk about "he MUST cum for me" on the previous page reminds me of slavery.

[MscleLovr]

What about when the client because of his age, body type, lifestyle, medicines, etc. can't get it and keep it hard?

 

I’d say that’s when a service provider earns his money. I’d expect the working guy to ask how he can best satisfy the client. Perhaps rarely it might be that the client doesn’t want, or is unable, to climax,

 

the talk about "he MUST cum for me"....reminds me of slavery.

 

Respectfully I disagree. I like seeing my companion unload, and I want him to be as excited and enjoy the sex as much as possible.

[marylander1940]

I’d say that’s when a service provider earns his money. I’d expect the working guy to ask how he can best satisfy the client. Perhaps rarely it might be that the client doesn’t want, or is unable, to climax,

 

yes, I'm sure is rarely but I've been told it happens.

 

Respectfully I disagree. I like seeing my companion unload, and I want him to be as excited and enjoy the sex as much as possible.

 

I also expect the guy to satisfy his client. Getting hard and bottoming if required are understandable expectations.

 

If you want him to cum and possibly making him miss an appointment later by another client who's out of shape and wants to get fucked with the escort wearing a condom... pay extra (tip).

[caliguy]

Being only a top, when I hired I didn’t really care about a bottom’s dick.

 

I have always cared much more about a bottom having a handsome face, a ripped muscled body and the skills in bed to please me.

 

I certainly enjoy the visual of a muscleboy getting hard while he’s kissing me, and I like him to be erect while he’s sucking me off. I’d only insist that a bottom be hard while I’m fucking him

Sounds more like you want a robot.

[marylander1940]

I had that happen only one time...He was a very nice man...handsome...great body...big fat cock...couldn't stay hard..He confessed he had seen someone before me....Not only didn't he expect his fee he called later and offered a do over on him....No thanks mam!

So the guy couldn't get hard that day for you but didn't charge you. He even called you and offered a do over and you said no way. I don't know what to say on that but wow.

 

 

No offence but sounds like you were being a dick. wonder he couldn't get hard.

 

Wow. You don't want a sex partner. You want a robot.

 

Can they cum? ? Does yogurt cum up?

 

Will Social Security cover them?

 

[caliguy]

So the guy couldn't get hard that day for you but didn't charge you. He even called you and offered a do over and you said no way. I don't know what to say on that but wow.

 

 

No offence but sounds like you were being a dick. wonder he couldn't get hard.

 

Wow. You don't want a sex partner. You want a robot.

 

Can they cum? ? Does yogurt cum up?

 

Will Social Security cover them?

 

Oh yeah, they will. Everything from moaning to full on explosion.

[Pittlookalike]

Please excuse my ignorance but what are pnp and trimex?

[MscleLovr]

From Google: PnP refers to Party and Play which means having sex while using drugs.

 

And assuming you meant Trimix @Pittlookalike: Trimix is an injectable three-drug prescribed medication used to treat erectile dysfunction

[The Dude]

It's not much fun giving head to a guy who can't get hard.

[dbar123]

For a while I thought I was sexually radioactive since I had about 4 guys in a row who couldn't stay hard. I paid them all but never repeated. Once you smell pot in the air, all bets are usually off.

 

It's usually the guys with the biggest dicks (in my limited experience)...the thick 9+'s who seem to have the problem. The slightly smaller guys always seem to stay rock hard.

[marylander1940]

For a while I thought I was sexually radioactive since I had about 4 guys in a row who couldn't stay hard. I paid them all but never repeated. Once you smell pot in the air, all bets are usually off.

 

It's usually the guys with the biggest dicks (in my limited experience)...the thick 9+'s who seem to have the problem. The slightly smaller guys always seem to stay rock hard.

 

Exactly!

It takes a lot of blood to get 8/9 inches hard and keep it.

[orville]

For a while I thought I was sexually radioactive since I had about 4 guys in a row who couldn't stay hard. I paid them all but never repeated. Once you smell pot in the air, all bets are usually off.

 

It's usually the guys with the biggest dicks (in my limited experience)...the thick 9+'s who seem to have the problem. The slightly smaller guys always seem to stay rock hard.

Pot is not a problem at all, it actually favours arousal. METH and other hard drugs are the root of the ED pandemic in the gay world. You probably need to learn how to differentiate the smell of Pot from the one of Crystal Meth.

Edited July 14, 2020 by orville

[former lurker]

I’d say that’s when a service provider earns his money. I’d expect the working guy to ask how he can best satisfy the client. Perhaps rarely it might be that the client doesn’t want, or is unable, to climax,

 

 

 

Respectfully I disagree. I like seeing my companion unload, and I want him to be as excited and enjoy the sex as much as possible.

 

Insisting that the escort come, and even refusing to pay the full rate if he doesn't, is hardly a means to ensure he is enjoying the time as much as possible. Less demanding is more likely to result in his greater enjoyment.

[cmennow]

Every time one of these “can’t get hard” threads spins up I get this mental image of a sweaty guy desperately masturbating a soft dick trying to get an erection nervously glancing between a clock and frowning client with arms crossed.

 

If I’m late on budget changes at least I can work late to get it done. ?

I've actually seen this before LOL

[cmennow]

For a while I thought I was sexually radioactive since I had about 4 guys in a row who couldn't stay hard. I paid them all but never repeated. Once you smell pot in the air, all bets are usually off.

 

It's usually the guys with the biggest dicks (in my limited experience)...the thick 9+'s who seem to have the problem. The slightly smaller guys always seem to stay rock hard.

Ummm….I kinda beg to differ on that....I only mess with the 9+ crowd and they can get and keep and erection without a problem or any enhancements. I think it's more of if there is a connection between two people.

[former lurker]

Ummm….I kinda beg to differ on that....I only mess with the 9+ crowd and they can get and keep and erection without a problem or any enhancements. I think it's more of if there is a connection between two people.

 

The truth is we have no idea what any guy may take to maintain an erection before meeting with us.

[+ Keith30309]

I've actually seen this before LOL

How did that make you feel ?

[MscleLovr]

Insisting that the escort come, and even refusing to pay the full rate if he doesn't, is hardly a means to ensure he is enjoying the time as much as possible. Less demanding is more likely to result in his greater enjoyment.

 

You quoted me @former lurker but I have NEVER insisted an escort cum and I have NEVER not paid the full rate.

 

I’d like to point out that when hiring I would describe all that I like to do and enjoy, before asking the guy if he felt we’d be very compatible. I always emphasised that I was describing a menu, not a checklist.

 

Once a guy told me he didn’t like the taste of cum but he asked if it was OK if I came in his mouth but he didn’t swallow the load. He was a nice, fit personal trainer and so I agreed. Other times, I’ve had guys say ‘I don’t do that‘ about some aspect of the sex I enjoy, and I just politely moved on.

 

I don’t see anything wrong about a client being clear on what he wants, as long as the conversation is respectful.

[former lurker]

You quoted me @former lurker but I have NEVER insisted an escort cum and I have NEVER not paid the full rate.

 

I’d like to point out that when hiring I would describe all that I like to do and enjoy, before asking the guy if he felt we’d be very compatible. I always emphasised that I was describing a menu, not a checklist.

 

Once a guy told me he didn’t like the taste of cum but he asked if it was OK if I came in his mouth but he didn’t swallow the load. He was a nice, fit personal trainer and so I agreed. Other times, I’ve had guys say ‘I don’t do that‘ about some aspect of the sex I enjoy, and I just politely moved on.

 

I don’t see anything wrong about a client being clear on what he wants, as long as the conversation is respectful.

 

I apologize if I placed my post in response to one where it didn't quite fit. Scrolling back, I see there is some discussion of whether paying for "time" rather than specific performance is a real thing. That provoking a characterization by Marylander of a "must come" attitude on the part of some clients. It was the stream of that discussion to which I thought it made sense to point out the tension between wanting the escort to "enjoy" the time and being insistent on specific performance/performance on command.

[+ DrownedBoy]

In my personal experience, THC makes me horny as hell, but you have to get off the high to orgasm properly.

[MscleLovr]

I apologize if I placed my post in response to one where it didn't quite fit. Scrolling back, I see there is some discussion of whether paying for "time" rather than specific performance is a real thing. That provoking a characterization by Marylander of a "must come" attitude on the part of some clients. It was the stream of that discussion to which I thought it made sense to point out the tension between wanting the escort to "enjoy" the time and being insistent on specific performance/performance on command.

 

Well said @former lurker I’d hope that most clients would want the escort to enjoy the date as it enhances the experience for both.

 

I was thinking that such a date has some of the dynamics of eating dinner in a good restaurant. I’m always polite, and try to be friendly, towards the server as it makes for easier interactions and a better evening overall. Nonetheless the server is there to work while I first choose from the menu and the wine-list; the server anticipates my needs while I relax and have a pleasurable time.

[marylander1940]

I apologize if I placed my post in response to one where it didn't quite fit. Scrolling back, I see there is some discussion of whether paying for "time" rather than specific performance is a real thing. That provoking a characterization by Marylander of a "must come" attitude on the part of some clients. It was the stream of that discussion to which I thought it made sense to point out the tension between wanting the escort to "enjoy" the time and being insistent on specific performance/performance on command.

 

You didn't mention me @former lurker but someone told me about your post.

 

In most cases the escort has sex with someone he's not attracted too, and some acting is required, he might also have another potential client later. I hope I didn't point something obvious with the last sentence...

 

I think forcing someone to cum as part of the act because you're paying is not nice but I'm sure some young guys under 25/30 are easy trigger and cum multiple times in a day. Anyways, unless is a multiple hour appointment let's tip those guys! I've always have the same opinion about the subject.

 

nobody provoked my characterization: he must cum, I want him to cum for me, I want to be his only client that day, were possessive phrases that were said on this thread.

 

On a related topic I never liked cumeaters because within a minute they start asking "are you close?" and I've never been a minute man, and I don't think there's nothing to be proud about shooting in one minute but some it shows manliness. I take my time, I can't cum right away. I always make the joke that if I was straight women would enjoy their time with me.

Edited July 14, 2020 by marylander1940