ESCORTS WHO CANNOT GET IT UP

[bendable2019]

Have you ever come across an escort who can’t get his dick up and what did you do? Of course you’ve paid a huge sum to meet him. Can you end up with a discounted fee? Is he willing to offer a reduced fee?

[+ pitman]

I once had an escort who, after greeting me at the door, took me to the bedroom and then excused himself for five minutes. He came back hard as a rock and stayed that way the entire time. I assume he injected himself with Trimex.

[marylander1940]

Have you ever come across an escort who can’t get his dick up and what did you do? Of course you’ve paid a huge sum to meet him. Can you end up with a discounted fee? Is he willing to offer a reduced fee?

 

it takes a few things for the escort to get it and keep it up:

 

The escort's health, lifestyle and age, Viagra and the age and physique of the client... Let's be reasonable. If a guy lists PNP in his ad maybe he's not the best choice for top and if the client is out of shape maybe he should tell/warn the escort about it to make sure he takes his pill and didn't cum that day.

[bendable2019]

I once had an escort who, after greeting me at the door, took me to the bedroom and then excused himself for five minutes. He came back hard as a rock and stayed that way the entire time. I assume he injected himself with Trimex.

 

Thanks .. but not all have such “tools” at their disposal to keep their end of the bargain.

[marylander1940]

Thanks .. but not all have such “tools” at their disposal to keep their end of the bargain.

 

Besides the fact that he needed an injection to get it and keep it hard it's creepy! I would feel sorry for him!

[bendable2019]

Besides the fact that he needed an injection to get it and keep it hard it's creepy! I would feel sorry for him!

 

indeed dear.

[HoseMaster]

Yes, it’s happened to me more than once. One guy tried to use a cock ring to keep it up (didn’t work), and others just couldn’t keep it hard. A couple of them looked like they were doing too many drugs, but others were probably more straight, or I wasn’t hot enough for them. I found other ways to get off, but never asked for any kind of refund. I just never repeated.

[DMICS]

Have you ever come across an escort who can’t get his dick up and what did you do? Of course you’ve paid a huge sum to meet him. Can you end up with a discounted fee? Is he willing to offer a reduced fee?

 

Happened to me once, the provider didn't get his full rate. I realized after the session something was off and when I asked him about it he said he had done powder right before the session. So that annoyed me. Moving forward I try not book provider's with PNP in their profile, and I also make it clear that being able to get up and remain in that state is very important to me. Everyone is human and people definitely have off days but so far I've had no problems except for that one time.

[+ nycman]

I’m a top so it’s not a deal breaker for me.

But the same thing happens on the flip side.

“I can’t bottom today”, gets politely shown to the door.

I make it clear prior to the hire that “I’m a top who likes to fuck.”

No fucking = no money.

 

It‘s like a plumber showing up without a wrench.

[bendable2019]

Happened to me once, the provider didn't get his full rate. I realized after the session something was off and when I asked him about it he said he had done powder right before the session. So that annoyed me. Moving forward I try not book provider's with PNP in their profile, and I also make it clear that being able to get up and remain in that state is very important to me. Everyone is human and people definitely have off days but so far I've had no problems except for that one time.

 

thank you for that...PNP noted.

[sincitymix]

I had one who told me about half way in the session that he couldnt cum because he had just fucked his boyfriend that morning before our meeting.. knowing full well what i told him i wanted..

second escort near the end told me he couldnt cum and had a hard time staying hard because he had just jerked off before our session..

third escort was upfront and said he had seen a few people that day and couldnt guarantee..

[DMICS]

I had one who told me about half way in the session that he couldnt cum because he had just fucked his boyfriend that morning before our meeting.. knowing full well what i told him i wanted..

second escort near the end told me he couldnt cum and had a hard time staying hard because he had just jerked off before our session..

third escort was upfront and said he had seen a few people that day and couldnt guarantee..

 

No pay/half pay 1st two scenarios. Third scenario I probably wouldn't go forward and book.

[Gymowner]

on the reverse side over the years i hired 2 separate gay escorts that had amazing asses. im a top. both had picture after picture of their asses and loved showing them off. in their ads they both stated being bottoms, listed anal etc. one escort said he wasnt into bottoming that day when i approached it in the session and the other said he had a movie shoot the next day and didnt want to be sore for the scene. hmmph!

 

my bad. i learned. on both occasions i did not discuss ahead of time what my expectations were for the session. i assumed what was going to happen. now when i hire i communicate exactly what i am looking for, what the minimum is i want out of the session and then let anything above and beyond that just happen. i hire mostly "straight" guys and man... ive had more sessions go from my minimum expectations into topping these studs than with theses so called gay "power bottoms". go figure.

 

not to get off the topic but my point is to make sure you agree on before the session exactly what your minimums are for the session. i have had regulars that for whatever reason they have an off day. i get it. they are not machines. i then leave on the dresser what i feel they earned for that session and not the usual agreed upon rate. i have never had a problem with any of them and they fully understand why.

Edited July 11, 2020 by Gymowner

[orville]

Thanks .. but not all have such “tools” at their disposal to keep their end of the bargain.

As a client I don't find any possible excuse and I personally, as a bottom client, would be so mad that I'd probably recognize zero or perhaps less than the half of the rate, only because I always make sure to express in advance what I want. If a guy gets into this business knowing he can't get/keep it hard - with or without help, I don't care - or for whatever reason, and he knows he's going to fail to his client, he better looks for another way of living. And yes, PNP = limp dick even for the hardest top, avoid at all costs.

Edited July 11, 2020 by orville

[dcman]

Being a bottom and not wanting to book with mr limp dick....I tend to book for morning appointments rather than evening thinking the escort will be energized and have no problem with getting rock hard. Usually works.... only remember 2 hires that stayed limp....and one of those was high as a kite when he arrived at 11am in the morning !!! Just say NO to PNP guys.

[bendable2019]

I’m a top so it’s not a deal breaker for me.

But the same thing happens on the flip side.

“I can’t bottom today”, gets politely shown to the door.

I make it clear prior to the hire that “I’m a top who likes to fuck.”

No fucking = no money.

 

It‘s like a plumber showing up without a wrench.

 

Thank you. ?

[bendable2019]

Being a bottom and not wanting to book with mr limp dick....I tend to book for morning appointments rather than evening thinking the escort will be energized and have no problem with getting rock hard. Usually works.... only remember 2 hires that stayed limp....and one of those was high as a kite when he arrived at 11am in the morning !!! Just say NO to PNP guys.

 

Thanks love. Truly appreciate that.

[bendable2019]

As a client I don't find any possible excuse and I personally, as a bottom client, would be so mad that I'd probably recognize zero or perhaps less than the half of the rate, only because I always make sure to express in advance what I want. If a guy gets into this business knowing he can't get/keep it hard - with or without help, I don't care - or for whatever reason, and he knows he's going to fail to his client, he better looks for another way of living. And yes, PNP = limp dick even for the hardest top, avoid at all costs.

 

Thank you.

[bendable2019]

on the reverse side over the years i hired 2 separate gay escorts that had amazing asses. im a top. both had picture after picture of their asses and loved showing them off. in their ads they both stated being bottoms, listed anal etc. one escort said he wasnt into bottoming that day when i approached it in the session and the other said he had a movie shoot the next day and didnt want to be sore for the scene. hmmph!

 

my bad. i learned. on both occasions i did not discuss ahead of time what my expectations were for the session. i assumed what was going to happen. now when i hire i communicate exactly what i am looking for, what the minimum is i want out of the session and then let anything above and beyond that just happen. i hire mostly "straight" guys and man... ive had more sessions go from my minimum expectations into topping these studs than with theses so called gay "power bottoms". go figure.

 

not to get off the topic but my point is to make sure you agree on before the session exactly what your minimums are for the session. i have had regulars that for whatever reason they have an off day. i get it. they are not machines. i then leave on the dresser what i feel they earned for that session and not the usual agreed upon rate. i have never had a problem with any of them and they fully understand why.

 

Thank you.

[bendable2019]

What about those who demand money upfront and when you’re in sesh, they can’t get it up? By then you have already transferred them money.

[KrisParr]

Had it happen once with a guy I was seeing about every month. My guess is that he’d spent his load earlier in the day and just couldn’t keep it up. The funny part? I remember him saying that he was sorry, but that my oral foreplay had overstimulated him too much. Overstimulated? He blew me to completion and announced “no charge”.

[bendable2019]

Had it happen once with a guy I was seeing about every month. My guess is that he’d spent his load earlier in the day and just couldn’t keep it up. The funny part? I remember him saying that he was sorry, but that my oral foreplay had overstimulated him too much. Overstimulated? He blew me to completion and announced “no charge”.

Thanks for that

[bendable2019]

Yes, it’s happened to me more than once. One guy tried to use a cock ring to keep it up (didn’t work), and others just couldn’t keep it hard. A couple of them looked like they were doing too many drugs, but others were probably more straight, or I wasn’t hot enough for them. I found other ways to get off, but never asked for any kind of refund. I just never repeated.

 

I guess I no repeat is the best solution without kicking a big fuss at the scene... lol..

[+ WilliamM]

An escort met me in New York several years on his way to a large Saturday night birthday party. He brought balloons, gifts for the birthday boy several cakes and, of course, himself to my hotel room.

 

I actually don't remember whether he could get it up. I was laughing too hard.

[DMICS]

I tend to book for morning appointments rather than evening thinking the escort will be energized and have no problem with getting rock hard.

 

Yup, also this. I always book morning or early afternoon appointments to help avoid that. Only my 1st hire was a late night session but that was with a pro (Nigel March), who says he only does 1 booking a day, so that went fine.

 

What about those who demand money upfront and when you’re in sesh, they can’t get it up? By then you have already transferred them money.

 

That's why I never reward upfront. Before finalizing and setting up an appointment I ask if its fine that their reward is given at the end of the session. Providers who say they only take rewards upfront I don't book. I only had one session where I compromised that rule and gave half upfront.