Follow-Up when someone views your ad

[Daverwr]

The people have spoken... must be that damn Canadian polite trait I've accidentally picked up...

I guess it is just how I was raised. In fact, I send a follow-up message after a date. I thank the provider and say I had a good time, assuming I did. If I didn’t have a good time, I remain quiet.

[xyz48B]

[+ 7829V]

When I'm window shopping, I just want to be left alone. If I need help, I'll let you know.

[+ 7829V]

You didn't say anything nice. ?

[Rod Hagen]

I definitely follow up with a HELLO SAILOR kind of email when someone views my private photos, but not simply my profile, regardless of where he is located. It just seems polite and good business.

[dbar123]

Since Rentman clients can disable member tracking in their account profile, I don't see why people would get offended by being contacted. If it bothers you, just turn the feature off.

 

I like being contacted if the person is not pushy. I only turn on tracking if I'm out of town.

[marylander1940]

 

That might be useful in the Deli!

[+ DrownedBoy]

I'm not offended, and actually more likely to text someone who's proactive.

 

Unfortunately, none of these proactive guys did it for me.

 

A few days ago, I RMd someone who interested me. A few seconds later, I got a message and started chatting, discussing what I'm into, even looking at dates. Then I checked and realized that it wasn't a reply from the guy I wanted, it was someone else who, at the exact same time, RMd me proactively. Embarrassing! I had to back pedal quickly...

[+ smara]

I think most clients would not be offended if the provider replies with a simple "thank you for viewing my profile and please don't hesitate to contact me" reply just once and see where it goes.

[Ryan Roman]

I definitely follow up with a HELLO SAILOR kind of email when someone views my private photos, but not simply my profile, regardless of where he is located. It just seems polite and good business.

I should have specified that - if they check out your private photos as a paying member of the site. That's the only time I would have sent them a message.

[+ keroscenefire]

I’ll also be up front and say I’m not currently booking and therefore didn’t reach out yet. So many escorts think because you’re on RM you’re looking for now(!) but that’s simply not my personality type or perferred approach. I’ve had more than one guy get pissy with me for saying I’m not booking now. If you reach out to me, expect I’ll answer honestly. Like I expect you to answer honestly if I reach out to you. Escorts shouldn’t get upset for a response they don’t like anymore than we clients should.

 

Yes I definitely agree with you on this. I browse A TON on RM and hire maybe once every 2 months at most. I'll look at dozens of profiles of places where I will be traveling soon as well. That said, I don't mind if a guy reaches out and it has led to meetings on occasions.

[+ barullo]

I wouldn’t be mad at a quick message to say thank you for visiting my profile. It opens up a conversation which I might have been too shy to start.

Edited July 21, 2020 by barullo

[PetetKsfo]

I appreciate seeing the different replies from both providers and clients. I have gone back and forth on it. Sometimes I have sent a "thank you for viewing my ad" and sometimes not. I aam more inclined to do it if the guy is in the city where I am located or visiting soon. I agree with the comments about the coldness of a "canned" message, and so I like to write each individually and chect to see if I had previously sent one. But I'm concerned about invading someone's privacy too. I think short and sweet may be best

 

Peter

[ArmyHands]

I follow up by sending out a FULL DETAIL than what my profile shows... soo many people write back to say thank you others wish they lived closer to me where I am located at check me out: http://massagemale4male.com/

[NikoLeto]

If someone has viewed my profile multiple times repeatedly but hasn’t contacted me, I figure they may just be shy and needing a nudge and so I say “hi”. It’s resulted in appts most of the time

 

This is exactly how I do it. RentMen even sends you an email every time someone views your private gallery, so if I see >3 messages saying they've looked at me, I send a general "thank you for looking at my ad, let me know if you have any questions", but my experience has been that some more 'vanilla' clients find my ad to be a little too hardcore, so putting forth the effort to illustrate how approachable I can be has net me a few clients.

 

I think it's a little bit creepy to reach out to someone who has just looked at your ad. I look at a lot of ads, but that doesn't mean I contact most of them.

 

Maybe it's just me, but if you reach out to me this way, you might get feedback that is more honest and less polite than you want. I might tell you exactly why I didn't respond to the ad, and it might not be flattering.

 

I would always value critical feedback of my business operation, however, I think it would appear desperate to reach out to someone after a single click. Sustained interest, it makes sense to reach out (having viewed your ad several times across a wider timespan), curiosity (a single glance), not so much.