City with Most Clients and SugarDaddies

[SteelFan]

Outside of NYC and Los Angeles. Which city have you had the most success in getting clients and repeat customers?

[+ OliverSaks]

DC DC DC

[marylander1940]

DC DC DC

 

Why don't you move here?

[+ OliverSaks]

Why don't you move here?

 

expensive, but I’ve considered it... and am considering it again as I decide where to go get another degree

 

If sex work were decriminalized there, I would likely move in a heartbeat, at least on a trial basis

[marylander1940]

expensive, but I’ve considered it... and am considering it again as I decide where to go get another degree

 

Pretty much all rents are between 2,000 and 2,500 and you might find cheaper ones in Arlington along the Orange line but some clients won't like to "cross the river" to go see an escort.

 

As spoken on another thread the ratio between expenses and revenue/income/profits affects all businesses.

[+ g56whiz]

expensive, but I’ve considered it... and am considering it again as I decide where to go get another degree

 

If sex work were decriminalized there, I would likely move in a heartbeat, at least on a trial basis

Another degree @OliverSaks ? Funny you don’t look Jesuit!

[+ OliverSaks]

I’m a masochist.

 

Another degree @OliverSaks ? Funny you don’t look Jesuit!

[marylander1940]

expensive, but I’ve considered it... and am considering it again as I decide where to go get another degree

 

If sex work were decriminalized there, I would likely move in a heartbeat, at least on a trial basis

 

I noticed you edited your post after I replied to you. As long as the AG of Virginia is a democrat you’re fine I haven’t heard of cops getting involved in a decade...

[+ Reisr30]

Why don't you move here?

 

I have never been to DC. Curious what people like about it. I never was interested in living there being from nyc originally but still curious...

[+ Pensant]

you should certainly visit since you’re not far by train. I’ve been there a number of times and I’ve always enjoyed it, especially the museums. Wouldn’t care to live there, though. Too transient.

[hypothetically]

Outside of NYC and Los Angeles. Which city have you had the most success in getting clients and repeat customers?

 

Kind of relative considering certain aesthetics have more weight in some cities than others. Nonetheless, to answer your question, I always did exceptionally (and surprisingly) well in Toronto, so much so that it was a staple in my travels for awhile. Others, not so much luck there. Internationally, Paris.

[Jarrod_Uncut]

expensive, but I’ve considered it... and am considering it again as I decide where to go get another degree

 

If sex work were decriminalized there, I would likely move in a heartbeat, at least on a trial basis

 

Why don't you move here?

 

Hell, I could ask myself the same question lol. Everytime I go to DC I don’t want to leave. A 3 day trip turns into 3 weeks. But DC is also an advanced level city to work in. The traffic, the weather, the competition, the prices, the constant crime and government presence...it’s a lot, not to mention the fluctuating racist/classist undertone.

 

It takes a strong person to be succesful in DC. The ones who are, are quite adept. They’ve found their comfort zone, and have become part of the culture.

 

Pretty much all rents are between 2,000 and 2,500 and you might find cheaper ones in Arlington along the Orange line but some clients won't like to "cross the river" to go see an escort.

 

Meh...idk. I remember one of the EOY from DC told me, “there’s no convenient spot in DC.” Meaning, no matter where you are in the DMV, you’re going to be convenient or inconvenient to someone.

 

Last time I was there, I spent a few days in the Maryland/Alexandria area. I actually was pretty busy. Nobody said I was too far. However, sometimes people won’t want to go across to VA. Or they’ll be clear out in Bowie or Largo. That’s why it’s good to have a car in DC. There’s potential in the whole metro, and staying in DC proper and paying those prices, isn’t always necessary.

Edited May 13, 2020 by Jarrod_Uncut

[Jarrod_Uncut]

Kind of relative considering certain aesthetics have more weight in some cities than others. Nonetheless, to answer your question, I always did exceptionally (and surprisingly) well in Toronto, so much so that it was a staple in my travels for awhile. Others, not so much luck there. Internationally, Paris.

 

I’ve always wanted to go to Toronto or Montreal. One of my middle school teachers in Florida was from Toronto, and he pretty much taught us everything about Canada and Toronto lol. I know for a fact I would make big bank out there as well. But it’s still somewhat hard for Americans to get into Canada.

 

Outside of NYC and Los Angeles. Which city have you had the most success in getting clients and repeat customers?

 

Every city outside of Los Angeles and NYC, because I never get much in LA, and I’ve still never “worked” NYC lol.

 

Also, clients and sugar daddies are 2 separate things. I have a friend (White guy, which makes a difference) in Denver who has a sugar daddy. He’s brought him cars, $1,000s of dollars, everything. He now doesn’t even work, and he’s almost 40. But as far as my knowledge goes, his sugar daddy has never hired “escorts” so to speak.

 

I find sugar daddies are common in larger gay cities. In those places, guys tend to not want to pay an escort. It’s like a client in Orlando I had years ago, who wanted to be my “boyfriend”. I didn’t want that, he wasn’t my type (I thought he was attractive, funny, and kind...but he wanted a certain lifestyle for me that I wasn’t looking for). And I feel sleazy getting into a relationship with someone because they have money.

 

I may be a sex worker, but I’m not the type of person who chooses a man because he has money. I rather be with a broke guy my age who I’m attracted to, than to base my relationship on status. I find smaller markets and towns tend to do better at meeting “clients”, usually the discreet married types don’t want to “sugar” anyone, they are fine with an occasional pay arrangement.

 

There’s a reason why places like LA, Miami/FTL, Nashville/Raleigh/Charlotte, San Diego, Atlanta, and Chicago are hard sales. Those towns have a fair share of guys who are financially challenged, in a city with guys who are fairly wealthy. So, those types feel they don’t have to buy an escort, when they can find someone who wants $100.

 

But that’s why I’m glad to be 32 and getting older, because I’ve graduated from the “broke black boy” stereotype, to the “commanding black entrepreneur”. The only thing I do now for 100, is a deposit towards a longer session ☝?

Edited May 13, 2020 by Jarrod_Uncut

[hypothetically]

But it’s still somewhat hard for Americans to get into Canada.

 

That is untrue. Are you a felon? Illegal?

[thisidethatside]

Outside of NYC and Los Angeles. Which city have you had the most success in getting clients and repeat customers?

san francisco & new orleans

[Jarrod_Uncut]

That is untrue. Are you a felon? Illegal?

 

? I already see I’m going to have to talk to you INDIRECTLY. I can’t quote anything you say because you go out of your way on being rude and disrespectful, just like the other one you was beefing with. Y’all should get along fine. Otherwise, don’t make assumptions. I’m very much a citizen and I don’t have anything felonious on my record, so don’t question my background ✋?

 

But...since you defer, here you go. Do your research. It’s true if more than 2 people are saying it.

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/australian-couple-denied-entry-into-canada-because-of-dwi-fine-in-australia.116760/

 

I've never had a conviction, but I find the immigration process in Canada to be possibly the worst in the world. It tends to dissuade me from going there. It would be interesting for someone to do a study to find out how much money Canada loses because of this obnoxious behavior.

[marylander1940]

That is untrue. Are you a felon? Illegal?

 

I think @Jarrod_Uncut is either talking about the current circumstances (Covid-19) or he would rather go there for more than 3 months to take a feeling about Canada business wise.

 

@RealAvalon Do you guys in Canada get many American escorts visiting?

[+ José Soplanucas]

expensive, but I’ve considered it... and am considering it again as I decide where to go get another degree

 

If sex work were decriminalized there, I would likely move in a heartbeat, at least on a trial basis

 

Yesssss! I need a smoking buddy!

 

But I do not think we are going to decriminalize sex work any time soon. A project was just rejected in the city counsel, IDK when we are going to have a new one.

 

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[Jarrod_Uncut]

I think @Jarrod_Uncut is either talking about the current circumstances (Covid-19) or he would rather go there for more than 3 months to take a feeling about Canada business wise.

 

I was just making a statement about wanting to go to Canada, but that I’m aware it’s not a simple entry process for all. That’s all I was saying.

 

At this point though, I’ve not really been interested in going up though. If I want to go to Canada, I can just go to Florida, Michigan, or any of those Great Lake states, and get the similar experience without the immigration hassles lol.

 

And despite the fact I travel like every month, there’s still a handful of cities right here at home I’ve not been in years. San Francisco, Houston, Boston, SLC, Seattle...it’s been years since I’ve been to those places. So why go to Canada when there’s still places here I can catch up on.

[down_to_business]

I was just making a statement about wanting to go to Canada, but that I’m aware it’s not a simple entry process for all. That’s all I was saying.

 

I can confirm that a friend of mine was denied entry into Canada because of a DUI (alcohol) on his record. This was several years back. I have no idea what the current situation is.

[SteelFan]

I can confirm that a friend of mine was denied entry into Canada because of a DUI (alcohol) on his record. This was several years back. I have no idea what the current situation is.

I was denied entry at Toronto International Airport for a charge that got dismissed and I had the record expunged. That's expunged not sealed. Clearly, records are never entirely deleted anymore, and it doesn't matter if a charge is completely false and gets immediately dismissed. I wonder if driving across would be just as strict.

[+ tassojunior]

I have never been to DC. Curious what people like about it. I never was interested in living there being from nyc originally but still curious...

 

Money.

 

Many easy clients. Many regulars. Easy work.

[Quincy_7]

Money.

 

Many easy clients. Many regulars. Easy work.

 

Any closeted politicians who hire?

[marylander1940]

Any closeted politicians who hire?

 

I've heard stories...

 

Money.

 

Many easy clients. Many regulars. Easy work.

 

And folks working for the government but don't tell them or they'll get offended.

[RealAvalon]

I think @Jarrod_Uncut is either talking about the current circumstances (Covid-19) or he would rather go there for more than 3 months to take a feeling about Canada business wise.

 

@RealAvalon Do you guys in Canada get many American escorts visiting?

Occasionally. Some. @VictorPowers has done a couple of tours in Canada.