Toy etiquette/self-gratification question

[+ Snbrd]

While stuck at home during this pandemic, many members are undoubtedly taking matters into their own hands. That's easy enough. What about solo bottoming? Do you clean out before using toys? I have some dildos but I usually use them after a douche to get ready for an encounter with a top. If I try using them now in lieu of a real companion, should I clean out? What do other members do? While there is no other party to object I certainly don't want to make a mess.

[MrMattBig]

To eliminate the potential of mess as much as possible, I would clean out.

Additionally, that will be the best course of action towards easy cleaning of said toys afterwards.

Happy pleasures!?

[jjkrkwood]

I was surprised to see how many guys on Chaturbate are using those "self fuck" dildo machines.... although I don't bottom, it certainly can be used for an Oral officianado that likes to be "face fucked". But damn, those machines are expensive.....

[MrMattBig]

I was surprised to see how many guys on Chaturbate are using those "self fuck" dildo machines.... although I don't bottom, it certainly can be used for an Oral officianado that likes to be "face fucked". But damn, those machines are expensive.....

You can find some for under 100 on Amazon.

Amazon has done wonders for some sex toy items.

I remember paying 180 for the Magic wand when it first went cordless/rechargeable. Now it's 99.

As far as toys that vibrate or have moving parts, just depends on what you want to spend, but things are way more affordable then they were several years ago.

[instudiocity]

I was surprised to see how many guys on Chaturbate are using those "self fuck" dildo machines.... although I don't bottom, it certainly can be used for an Oral officianado that likes to be "face fucked". But damn, those machines are expensive.....

Aficionado?

 

Not being a grammar nut, but one needs to think through your phonetic malapropism to get your meaning.

 

i confused officianado to mean you face-fucked a cop or something.

[jjkrkwood]

Aficionado?

 

Not being a grammar nut, but one needs to think through your phonetic malapropism to get your meaning.

 

i confused officianado to mean you face-fucked a cop or something.

 

Don't think too hard, your head may explode.

[jjkrkwood]

You can find some for under 100 on Amazon.

Amazon has done wonders for some sex toy items.

I remember paying 180 for the Magic wand when it first went cordless/rechargeable. Now it's 99.

As far as toys that vibrate or have moving parts, just depends on what you want to spend, but things are way more affordable then they were several years ago.

 

The old saying "you get what you pay for" comes to mind. for something that will be used alot, you dont want to scrimp on price and have it break down in the middle of your self-satisfaction session.... That would be like hiring an escort that cant get hard.

[MrMattBig]

The old saying "you get what you pay for" comes to mind. for something that will be used alot, you dont want to scrimp on price and have it break down in the middle of your self-satisfaction session.... That would be like hiring an escort that cant get hard.

Lol so true!?

[Rudynate]

While stuck at home during this pandemic, many members are undoubtedly taking matters into their own hands. That's easy enough. What about solo bottoming? Do you clean out before using toys? I have some dildos but I usually use them after a douche to get ready for an encounter with a top. If I try using them now in lieu of a real companion, should I clean out? What do other members do? While there is no other party to object I certainly don't want to make a mess.

 

 

If you hose out, it will enhance your enjoyment. I'm into FF, and I've come to see cleaning out as part of the experience instead of a necessary chore.

[+ g56whiz]

While stuck at home during this pandemic, many members are undoubtedly taking matters into their own hands. That's easy enough. What about solo bottoming? Do you clean out before using toys? I have some dildos but I usually use them after a douche to get ready for an encounter with a top. If I try using them now in lieu of a real companion, should I clean out? What do other members do? While there is no other party to object I certainly don't want to make a mess.

Oh yes clean out. But you might also consider putting a condom on it. Makes it easier to put away clean.

[jjkrkwood]

Oh yes clean out. But you might also consider putting a condom on it. Makes it easier to put away clean.

 

but what if you used your last condom, and are waiting for your Amazon delivery ? Can you use a ziplock baggie or Saran Wrap ? :p

[+ g56whiz]

but what if you used your last condom, and are waiting for your Amazon delivery ? Can you use a ziplock baggie or Saran Wrap ? :p

Sure but I prefer the Costco film. Baggies are too thick and don't fit as snugly around the toy.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Not a toy, but this FJ accessory has made my current life in a sleepy beachtown a lot more fun:

 

https://www.fleshjack.com/collections/shower-mount-adapters

[jjkrkwood]

Not a toy, but this FJ accessory has made my current life in a sleepy beachtown a lot more fun:

 

https://www.fleshjack.com/collections/shower-mount-adapters

 

 

Hmmm, that's an interesting wash cloth holder !

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Hmmm, that's an interesting wash cloth holder !

 

I just realized that I'm basically fucking my shower every morning.

[+ g56whiz]

I just realized that I'm basically fucking my shower every morning.

Better than the alternatives in this situation.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Better than the alternatives in this situation.

 

It's the alternatives I'm thinking about as I'm pounding out my shower

[marylander1940]

While stuck at home during this pandemic, many members are undoubtedly taking matters into their own hands. That's easy enough. What about solo bottoming? Do you clean out before using toys? I have some dildos but I usually use them after a douche to get ready for an encounter with a top. If I try using them now in lieu of a real companion, should I clean out? What do other members do? While there is no other party to object I certainly don't want to make a mess.

 

If you don't clean yourself before using it... you'll find some unpleasant smell and substance when you remove it.

 

Your call!

[+ RJD]

It's the alternatives I'm thinking about as I'm pounding out my shower

 

Well, hang a shower curtain on me and tattoo Kohler on my ass...?

[jjkrkwood]

I just realized that I'm basically fucking my shower every morning.

 

Hope it's paying you well ? I've never been jealous of a shower before, but I am NOW !

[mike carey]

I just realized that I'm basically fucking my shower every morning.

I chose not to comment on that. But I echo other comments about being jealous of a shower.

[jeezifonly]

Love this post! Do your toys have eyes to roll or social media accounts? If no, then etiquette won’t apply, only the “squick factor” As in...

Do you have any tolerance for shit? Only yours? Not even yours? If it turns up at some point will it prevent ‘gratification’?

 

IMHO I never find the process of cleaning out for solo time “not worth the effort” - It usually makes play time easier, at the least...

Sometimes I learn something about my diet, something about relaxing, or even something about the wisdom of those fucking Charmin Bears...

[Mo Mason]

I would think that solo-bottoming with a toy in the shower would be the best thing to do. That way you don't have to prep at all - if there's a mess... well, you are in the shower.

 

I dunno. I'm a lousy bottom, I guess. I've never been into solo anal play - not even a finger. Then of course I complain about not being able to bottom during sessions because I'm so tight. lol

[jjkrkwood]

1) I would think that solo-bottoming with a toy in the shower would be the best thing to do. That way you don't have to prep at all - if there's a mess... well, you are in the shower.

 

2) I dunno. I'm a lousy bottom, I guess. I've never been into solo anal play - not even a finger. Then of course I complain about not being able to bottom during sessions because I'm so tight. lol

 

1)

 

2) No anal anything for me... Not even a little diddle..... Been there, done that, the DOOR is CLOSED !

[+ Pensant]

I’ve always enjoyed anal toys. I have a clean diet, so rarely have any mess, but cleaning up is no issue. They also make for a super-safe provider encounter, especially strap-ons.