Why do almost ALL escorts assume...

[Kevin Slater]

Why do almost ALL escorts assume...that any man over 45 must be a bottom???

 

Why do you assume they assume this? Because that's been your experience.

 

Why do they assume it? Because that's been their experience.

 

Kevin Slater

[marylander1940]

Why do almost ALL escorts assume...that any man over 45 must be a bottom???

 

Why do you assume they assume this? Because that's been your experience.

 

Why do they assume it? Because that's been their experience.

 

Kevin Slater

 

Brilliant!

 

[+ nycman]

I've never understood why it's discomforting for some to be considered as bottoms, or potential bottoms.

And I never understood why you never came to NYC and flipped.....

 

Hey, a boy can dream can’t he?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Why am I hearing this whole thread in his voice:

 

[Smurof]

Why am I hearing this whole thread in his voice:

 

Andy strikes me on this day as one who skipped the dentist, and only made it halfway through his eyebrow appointment. I miss him.

[TallMuscl37]

that any man over 45 must be a bottom???

Am I the only generous 45+ year old man who still TOPS???

Any insight would be greatly appreciated!

 

PS STAY HOME

 

I’d be curious to know what “type” of guys you may be going for? Are you going for big muscle, or guy next door, “straight acting”, or bottom exuding?

 

Also, where are you finding this out at? Are you waiting until you meet them to tell them you’re a top? Or are you discussing prior? I say because sometimes clients may be tops, and not say so until meeting in person. I think most escorts, unless stated otherwise, will assume a client is wanting to bottom. Dick sells more, in overall volume, than ass. But it doesn’t necessarily mean ass is worth less than dick (in fact I wouldn’t be surprised if there was a higher price involved). Just means that there’s generally more guys, particularly older, who want to have a top escort.

 

The reasons could range from ED, to not experiencing the same at home (e.g. married guys), or just general porn fantasy (big black cock, tight white ass, etc)

[+ JEC]

that any man over 45 must be a bottom???

Am I the only generous 45+ year old man who still TOPS???

Any insight would be greatly appreciated!

 

PS STAY HOME

Dedicated 100% dom top here, and don't see that ever changing. #DaddyDick

[+ JEC]

97 percent of my bookings come from my saying: “I’m a dominant top who loves to kiss and is very passionate and assertive and likes to take charge but is not aggressive or into pain.”

 

If I could move the ratio closer to 50-50 or even 75-25 or 90-10, I would, but it just doesn’t happen. All I can do is post photos of my ass online, market myself as versatile, and hope someone might want to top me.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Fuck yeah!

[+ RJD]

Why am I hearing this whole thread in his voice:

 

 

@Benjamin_Nicholas I just spit water out of my mouth when I read this. Bravo, Mr. Nicholas, bravo!

[Monarchy79]

Maybe it’s also the fact that a lot of guys over 45 simply have good ass.

[Walker1]

Maybe as we age, we lose some virility -without viagara and want a hot young stud to take you?

[jjkrkwood]

Maybe it’s also the fact that a lot of guys over 45 simply have good ass.

 

REALLY ? As I wandered thru the backrooms of sex clubs, although dark, I noticed a lot of "saggy asses" on otherwise fit looking older men. Is ass "the first thing to go" ???? Perhaps its good on the "inside", but not so much from the "outside" ?

[Monarchy79]

REALLY ? As I wandered thru the backrooms of sex clubs, although dark, I noticed a lot of "saggy asses" on otherwise fit looking older men. Is ass "the first thing to go" ???? Perhaps its good on the "inside", but not so much from the "outside" ?

 

“Good Ass”, and “Good Looking” ass, are two entirely different things. ???

[Monarchy79]

I noticed a lot of "saggy asses" on otherwise fit looking older men.

 

Somewhat unrelated sidebar.... Usually, when you see a fit man, with a soggy ass, it’s typically because:

1.) He does a lot of running for cardio (excessive running does wonders for burning fat), but it also “burns”, the “phat”, right out of your ass. Look at an excessive runner as he ages and his body will be lean from the front, and flat and saggy from the back. You may not notice this until he drops those drawers.

 

2.) He doesn’t incorporate enough lower body workouts in his routine. Gotta work those squats, and deadlifts to

keep the cakes high and tight. Bulgarian hack squats are a favorite of mine.

 

Note:

These are just by observations from my experiences.

[jjkrkwood]

“Good Ass”, and “Good Looking” ass, are two entirely different things. ???

 

LOL, you would think the desired situation would be BOTH ? :p:p But I guess some guys just settle for the "feel" and not the aesthetic ? (I cant EAT a saggy ass) :confused:

[Monarchy79]

LOL, you would think the desired situation would be BOTH ? :p:p But I guess some guys just settle for the "feel" and not the aesthetic ? (I cant EAT a saggy ass) :confused:

Of course, but life (and sex), doesn’t always give you everything. lol.

 

For example:

A firm , good looking, young ass, could also be an untrained, unclean ass.

 

Yet, an older, less-perky ass, can also be an experienced, tantric-gripping, rhythmic ass.

 

Although there are never absolutes.... never judge an ass, by its cover. ?

[jjkrkwood]

Of course, but life (and sex), doesn’t always give you everything. lol.

 

For example:

A firm , good looking, young ass, could also be an untrained, unclean ass.

 

Yet, an older, less-perky ass, can also be an experienced, tantric-gripping, rhythmic ass.

 

Although there are never absolutes.... never judge an ass, by its cover. ?

 

LOL, if the saggy ass were covered, I wouldn't have a problem. LMFAO :p

[Daverwr]

97 percent of my bookings come from my saying: “I’m a dominant top who loves to kiss and is very passionate and assertive and likes to take charge but is not aggressive or into pain.”

 

If I could move the ratio closer to 50-50 or even 75-25 or 90-10, I would, but it just doesn’t happen. All I can do is post photos of my ass online, market myself as versatile, and hope someone might want to top me.

Mike, I’d TOP that ass so good! .... but, I’m a total bottom ! ?. I could play with it, tho. ?

 

Love to see you in Palm Springs when you are traveling and taking appointments again! And, to keep this in the thread, I’m over 45 and have been a bottom all my life, minus one night in a brothel in Amsterdam.

[muscmtl]

Being a top and client is the worse combo, 90% of all rentmen boys are off limit

[Constantine]

Being a top and client is the worse combo, 90% of all rentmen boys are off limit

 

It must be the age group you're looking at. It's quite rare to find a guy under 25 who is top only.

[Daverwr]

But I guess some guys just settle for the "feel" and not the aesthetic ? (I cant EAT a saggy ass) :confused:

Sorry, but life sags!

[TallMuscl37]

Being a top and client is the worse combo, 90% of all rentmen boys are off limit

 

Do you reach out to the ones you may be interested in? You may be surprised to know some could be open to it, especially with your body type.

 

I’m usually top myself as well, but I’m a believer that...I would not turn a guy away who is a top. He could be my type in every way, I’m not going to pass up.

 

Just like last night: sucked him off twice and put in half of his dick inside me. Fortunately we discussed ahead of time, there wasn’t going to be no fucking involved. But I don’t mind giving a teaser...

[muscmtl]

You nailed it jarrod_uncut. I m not hot enuf for escort to btm. Known that for years. Its the oldest thing, escort going "look at u and look at me, how dare u ask me to btm"

Wish there was a site called menwhore, no escort, just good ol whores