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There Aren't Polls On Here Anymore. But How Many Of You Out There KISS Your Boyfriends, Partners, FWB's, Or F-Buddies!


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@liubit - I thought there would be a good way to find out at the Palm Springs Event, but I don’t see your name mentioned anywhere in that thread. Darn it... ;)
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Does anyone else on here have a couple of non-sexual friends that you sleep with? I have a couple of friends that I sleep with every so often, just because we are close. Nothing sexual going on, or even intended/wanted. Just friends I have a bond with. Someone close to wake up to, and say 'hi' to first thing in the morning.

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Does anyone else on here have a couple of non-sexual friends that you sleep with? I have a couple of friends that I sleep with every so often, just because we are close. Nothing sexual going on, or even intended/wanted. Just friends the I have a bond with. Someone close to wake up to, and say 'hi' to first thing in the morning.

 

Lucky Man to have such close friends.

 

Gman

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Kissing is important to me, and a sexual encounter that didn't include deep, passionate kissing would seem incomplete.

 

I agree totally. And I'm someone who had never kissed anyone passionately until my first sexual experience at the age of 41. Before that I thought the idea of French kissing sounded gross. As in -why do I want to stick my tongue in a guy's mouth? Why do I want a stranger's tongue in my mouth? Then I had my first experience which was also my first experience with an escort. ZOWEE!!!

 

I have had encounters without kissing. But it's similar to the feeling I get jerking off left-handed. It works. But the experience is missing something. It's not as satisfying.

 

I was hoping that guys who don't like to kiss might comment on their feelings. But maybe they saw the title of the thread, and except for @azdr0710, have skipped this thread as uninteresting.

 

Gman

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I agree totally. And I'm someone who had never kissed anyone passionately until my first sexual experience at the age of 41. Before that I thought the idea of French kissing sounded gross. As in -why do I want to stick my tongue in a guy's mouth? Why do I want a strange's tongue in my mouth? Then I had my first experience which was also my first experience with an escort. ZOWEE!!!

 

I had a similar experience as someone who's first time was both with an escort and later in life than usual. The big difference was I have always envisioned passionate kissing as big part of my fantasy. I usually can't even get into porn unless good kissing is involved. I specifically hired someone that was known for it for my first time, but coming up to the time I got worried my inexperience would ruin it and I would go overboard or try to get too aggressive with my tongue. Luckily I just decided to let him guide the experience and it was all I imagined it to be and more. He even complimented me on my kissing, but that might have been some flattery on his part.

 

My next two however listed kissing as an interest but did that closed mouth peck thing and killed the mood for me.

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I had a similar experience as someone who's first time was both with an escort and later in life than usual. The big difference was I have always envisioned passionate kissing as big part of my fantasy. I usually can't even get into porn unless good kissing is involved. I specifically hired someone that was known for it for my first time, but coming up to the time I got worried my inexperience would ruin it and I would go overboard or try to get too aggressive with my tongue. Luckily I just decided to let him guide the experience and it was all I imagined it to be and more. He even complimented me on my kissing, but that might have been some flattery on his part.

 

My next two however listed kissing as an interest but did that closed mouth peck thing and killed the mood for me.

My first time was basically the same as yours and Gman's, later in life and with an escort. Basically, I let them guide the whole thing. Until my last hire, I had no idea if I was any good at it; but unprompted, he said I am an excellent kisser. My guess is that my intuitive nature allows me to read people's moves and respond in kind. Honestly, I'm still not sure and I'm not really sure if escorts are going to be completely honest since they are unlikely to want to hurt the prospect of a future hire.

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My first time was basically the same as yours and Gman's, later in life and with an escort. Basically, I let them guide the whole thing. Until my last hire, I had no idea if I was any good at it; but unprompted, he said I am an excellent kisser. My guess is that my intuitive nature allows me to read people's moves and respond in kind. Honestly, I'm still not sure and I'm not really sure if escorts are going to be completely honest since they are unlikely to want to hurt the prospect of a future hire.

I've had non escorts tell me I'm a good kisser too. So whether the escorts were trying to butter me up or not, I have other validation.

 

And just to be clear although you may mean the same-I was a total virgin. I had never passionately kissed anyone. And never had sex. I had probably had less than 10 dates with females. And the most that occurred was a quick peck on the lips. I never tried to 'cop a feel' on those dates. So my 1st meeting with the escort was my real first experience He even taught me how to kiss.

 

 

Gman

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I've had non escorts tell me I'm a good kisser too. So whether the escorts were trying to butter me up or not, I have other validation.

 

And just to be clear although you may mean the same-I was a total virgin. I had never passionately kissed anyone. And never had sex. I had probably had less than 10 dates with females. And the most that occurred was a quick peck on the lips. I never tried to 'cop a feel' on those dates. So my 1st meeting with the escort was my real first experience He even taught me how to kiss.

 

 

Gman

That's exactly what I meant. I never thought to ask for instructions though. Hmm, not sure if it's too late to do so now.

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I love kissing and I think it goes back (a long time ago) to when I was a young man first figuring out my sexuality and quite inexperienced. Extensive kissing in a bar or at a house party (remember them?) got us in the mood to take things to the next level.

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Kissing someone I have an attraction for or have made an intimate connection with is amazing. It has a way of making any other sexual act much more enjoyable for me. I can't think of any sexual encounter I have had where kissing wasn't involved that I would actually want to repeat. I don't even like to have anal sex at all if kissing isn't going to be a part of it.

Note that kissing someone I don't have an attraction or connection to is pretty unbearable though.

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Passionate deep french kissing while being fucked balls deep by a well-hung (9+ by 7) top is the holy grail. Honestly, those fulfilling all these requirements (from three continents) can be counted in one hand.

So, one has had to settle for second best, being those well-hung tops who can deliver a satisfying fuck with excellent to average to practically no kissing. Sadly, many good tops seem to regard kissing as part of foreplay.

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Passionate deep french kissing while being fucked balls deep by a well-hung (9+ by 7) top is the holy grail. Honestly, those fulfilling all these requirements (from three continents) can be counted in one hand.

So, one has had to settle for second best, being those well-hung tops who can deliver a satisfying fuck with excellent to average to practically no kissing. Sadly, many good tops seem to regard kissing as part of foreplay.

That would seem very difficult to do. Or is this common?

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That would seem very difficult to do. Or is this common?

 

I think it is, at least in my experience. Being fucked missionary-style on my back and having the top lean down to kiss me deeply is amazing. But yes, relative heights can make it easier with some guys than others. And if I'm lucky we both reach a point where we're panting too hard to kiss!

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I think it is, at least in my experience. Being fucked missionary-style on my back and having the top lean down to kiss me deeply is amazing. But yes, relative heights can make it easier with some guys than others. And if I'm lucky we both reach a point where we're panting too hard to kiss!

My favorite top was hitting my prostate every stroke and moving between deep kissing and blowing my cock. He was a few inches taller than me but FLEXIBILITY was his second or third best talent.

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I think it is, at least in my experience. Being fucked missionary-style on my back and having the top lean down to kiss me deeply is amazing. But yes, relative heights can make it easier with some guys than others. And if I'm lucky we both reach a point where we're panting too hard to kiss!

 

Since I'm endowed-challenged, not very tall, and definitely not that flexible, missionary style is about the only way I can really kiss and "make love" at the same time. And sometimes even then, I have a tendency to "fall out." You average to well-endowed guys don't know the trials and tribulations of us who were a bit short-changed. Thank

Gosh I'm a bit thicker than average- or I'd have no claim to fame at all.

 

Gman

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