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[Trick]

 

On an average day, I will answer to 2-4 texts from different numbers...and nothing coming out of it.

 

 

OMG! Am I reading this right? This entire rant about clients flaking and playing games is about an average of 2-4 texts a day?

 

2-4 texts!!! How much of a nuisance can those be???

 

Others have posted about the heat in the kitchen, this doesn’t even begin to warm it up.

Edited July 30, 2019 by Trick

[Trick]

 

Stop acting as if this forum encompasses the entire amount of clients who contact us. Majority of clients I see have never even heard of this forum before.

 

 

Dear Admins, I’m sensing contempt for the forum here. Can we start talking about impeachment?

[Trick]

 

I personally don’t think clients should use this forum as a decision factor in hiring.

 

I bullshit here all the time, just because it’s “a place to learn what makes a good encounter with an escort”.

 

 

 

 

Exhibits A and B

[Mocha]

A think the unspoken sincerity behind some of the criticism here is that any new client could read what's posted here online and change their decision from a yes to a no. While not part of an ad, what is written here is still part of your brand image. And what's on the internet lives forever.

 

Yeah, but that’s what Ads, Twitter and social media is for. This isn’t the only place to make an impression.

 

I personally don’t think clients should use this forum as a decision factor in hiring. I bullshit here all the time, just because it’s “a place to learn what makes a good encounter with an escort”. Which means you must eliminate the bad in some circumstances.

 

If people are going to get their breeches in a knot, then all you’re going to get are clients answering to other clients about questions posted to escorts.

[Mocha]

I'm not going to try and hit a moving target.

 

 

Not sure what that means. But I would think as an administrator, you’d be playing both sides of the field. It’s not just clients here, is it?

 

I think if you disagree to something, I would welcome if perhaps you could give an alternative solution to the matter that both clients and escorts can agree on. By disagreeing all together, I feel it sides with the “buyer” and dilutes the overall issue all together: ways that providers like myself and [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER] and @DevDaddy have experienced with phone callers (and I’ve said it to people on the forum before, it’s not “clients” it’s people who call our ad. 2 different things.)

 

A client isn’t a client until he books an appointment and shows up. A person doesn’t get client status just by texting/calling us. It’s like just because someone walks into a gym doesn’t make them a member. They’ve got to get a membership and actually work out. And many gyms have a key fob or fingerprint before you can get in to workout. That eliminates non-members from simply walking in to workout.

 

Same for us: a deposit will prevent non-clients from wasting our time.

[Guy Fawkes]

I dislike your game playing.

 

Not sure what that means. But I would think as an administrator, you’d be playing both sides of the field. It’s not just clients here, is it?

/QUOTE]

[Trick]

 

I personally don’t think clients should use this forum as a decision factor in hiring.

 

 

This is a slap on the faces of the many fine members of this forum, mine included, who have been spared from bad experiences and even harm by using this forum as a decision factor in hiring.

[Mocha]

This is a slap on the faces of the many fine members of this forum, mine included, who have been spared from bad experiences and even harm by using this forum as a decision factor in hiring.

 

Okay, I’ll admit to being mistaken on that one. I meant to say “solely” based on OUR conversations on the forum. I wasn’t referring to 411s on guys in the Deli.

 

The reason I say is because, escorts then become reluctant to post anything out of concern a client may not like something that is posted or discussed. Trust, if an escort posts here long enough, at some point a disagreement is going to come up.

 

That’s why you see most escorts don’t post here much, and if they do it’s seldom or under a different name. Because people are quick to announce how they are offended and how their business will be forever tarnished.

 

What I’m saying is, it’s not that serious. Yes, some clients may get offended in the process. But it’s a forum, the risk is there for that. You can post on a forum about puppies, the universe, religion, politics. Someone is bound to get offended. Using a forum to dictate hiring someone or not based on how they talk about things on he forum, is petty. That’s like not hiring a guy based off of how he acts on the basketball court. It’s a BASKETBALL COURT. Not the Divine Mercy Shrine of the Holy Mary Magdalene.

 

And then someone keeps bringing up me blackmailing a client, but yet I just read a thread where someone said if they didn’t get their deposit refunded, they would write a bad review. No one hollered blackmail about that.

 

And the admin of the forum wasn’t in a hurry to enforce the rules about posting “reviews” on the forum either. How ratchet is that for 2 forum members to air their dirty laundry about a particular escort and their business transaction? But yet...I’m wrong and get called all sort of names because I talk about situation with some bullshit MOFO off adam4adam faking to be a client who nobody knows of, that blatantly stood me up, and said I was worth 0? That’s hypocritical and shows there’s a continual air of favoritism on this forum.

 

I may talk sh!t here and there, but nobody has heard me call out any of my clients out by name in a negative way directed at them.

[Njguy908]

Every business has a cost of doing business. The moment a store charges me to ask the price of a shirt, or try it on, is the moment I shop else where. Unlike most businesses there is a return policy, when there isn't you tend to inspect the item more carefully. Best of luck to whatever you choose to do.

[Trick]

 

Using a forum to dictate hiring someone or not based on how they talk about things on he forum, is petty.

 

 

What shall we make of this forum then?

 

Didn’t you say in your now-deleted post that you were out of here? What keeps you coming back?

[MiamiLooker]

Does anyone really care what Mocha does?

[MscleLovr]

@Mocha I mean this kindly. You do appreciate that posting on the internet is like trying to win an argument with strangers? It’s exceedingly rare that someone ever says “I was wrong and you are right”.

 

FWIW My view is that you should do whatever you feel is right for you...but please do so without any pronouncements of what it is and why it’s right for you.

[marylander1940]

This is like a sales job.....you are going to have people wasting your time no matter what.....some guys will have a conversation just to see your pics and than you won’t hear from them again. Others are trying to set something up for the future and then they forget. The reality is you have to take the good with the bad. You are not going to win every battle or get a meeting from every conversation but you still have to show up and put yourself in the batter’s box. It’s annoying Mocha, I know, I deal with the same BS myself but I know who I’m dealing with and just bite the bullet with time wasters.

 

I feel your pain! Unfortunately teasing happens in most professions including yours, texting apps have made being flaky easier.

[marylander1940]

Does anyone really care what Mocha does?

 

Let’s mention him @Mocha maybe he’ll answer. You can always block him if you want or at least not post on his threads.

[marylander1940]

Dear Admins, I’m sensing contempt for the forum here. Can we start talking about impeachment?

 

Many folks have said goodbye to the forum in highly publicized threads and came back later.

[MiamiLooker]

Let’s mention him @Mocha maybe he’ll answer. You can always block him if you want or at least not post on his threads.

You can always hire him if you really want to help him out.

[Trick]

You’re not the “marylander” that gave him 5 stars on RM?

Edited July 31, 2019 by Cooper