Pursuing Clients?

[Ryan Roman]

Hi guys: I'm curious about something and thought maybe could share your thoughts... A friend of my is a NYC sex blogger, and mentioned the other day the escorts he knows actively promote themselves or pursue clients. While I've never actively pursued clients, are there those of you that have, and what have your experiences been? Thanks guys!

 

Ryan

[Guest]

It wouldn't push me towards someone who wasn't my type, but at least it gives an indication that the escort is serious and willing to respond to messages. I've received private messages from escorts whose profiles I've visited on rentmen.eu. If I were in the market, it might pique my interest. If it doesn't cost you anything, I don't see the downside in sending messages to members who've viewed your profile. The worst that can happen is they won't respond.

Edited July 22, 2019 by Unicorn

[hypothetically]

Hi guys: I'm curious about something and thought maybe could share your thoughts... A friend of my is a NYC sex blogger, and mentioned the other day the escorts he knows actively promote themselves or pursue clients. While I've never actively pursued clients, are there those of you that have, and what have your experiences been? Thanks guys!

 

Ryan

 

 

Pursuing clients was something I had a stern stance against when I began escorting. I thought I was above it and all I needed to do was show a little dick, give you a few angles, throw in some witty text, publish and ..boom, it’s raining clients. Incorrect. You have clients of course, but when you’re escorting in an over saturated market like NYC and you’ve exhausted meetings with all of your regulars, you are greatly limiting your earning potential by waiting for the phone to ring.

 

When living in NYC during off peak season or if my business wasn’t trending as it had been on say, a more monetary week, I would absolutely pursue clients and there is no harm in doing so. It afforded me the opportunity to secure more regulars and make connections with those who were maybe not the most forward nor inspired. Not inspired/motivated doesn’t mean not interested.

 

Sometimes you see something you like in a boutique and you just need someone to SELL it to you. Doesn’t mean you don’t want it.

 

My earnings would not be where they are if I relied solely on being pursed. And I assure you, any escort who is doing exceptionally well is not only being pursued, but doing the pursuing. Most escorts prefer not to disclose that info because....ego, but if any type of business is not hitting its numbers, what does that business do? Not wait for the phone to ring.

 

But on the same token, just because one is pursuing doesn’t mean he’s doing it effectively. I’ve stated elsewhere on the forum that it takes a very inventive/creative escort to keep his business afloat in a city like NYC.

Edited July 21, 2019 by hypothetically

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

You can sell yourself without looking thirsty.

 

Advertising is a skill. There's good reason why people can make a healthy living at ad firms.

Edited July 21, 2019 by Benjamin_Nicholas

[jjkrkwood]

Pursuing clients was something I had a stern stance against when I began escorting. I thought I was above it and all I needed to do was show a little dick, give you a few angles, throw in some witty text, publish and ..boom, it’s raining clients. Incorrect. You have clients of course, but when you’re escorting in an over saturated market like NYC and you’ve exhausted meetings with all of your regulars, you are greatly limiting your earning potential by waiting for the phone to ring.

 

When living in NYC during off peak season or if my business wasn’t trending as it had been on say, a more monetary week, I would absolutely pursue clients and there is no harm in doing so. It afforded me the opportunity to secure more regulars and make connections with those who were maybe not the most forward nor inspired. Not inspired/motivated doesn’t mean not interested.

 

Sometimes you see something you like in a boutique and you just need someone to SELL it to you. Doesn’t mean you don’t want it.

 

My earnings would not be where they are if I relied solely on being pursed. And I assure you, any escort who is doing exceptionally well is not only being pursued, but doing the pursuing. Most escorts prefer not to disclose that info because....ego, but if any type of business is not hitting its numbers, what does that business do? Not wait for the phone to ring.

 

But on the same token, just because one is pursuing doesn’t mean he’s doing it effectively. I’ve stated elsewhere on the forum that it takes a very inventive/creative escort to keep his business afloat in a city like NYC.

 

Well Mr Hypo, I am waiting for your flyer to appear in my mailbox....The postman must have forgotten it ? :eek:

[jjkrkwood]

You can sell yourself without looking thirsty.

 

Advertising is a skill. There's good reason why people can make a healthy living at ad firms.

 

Its been HOT in NYC….Everyone is Thirsty ! Some are even drinking out of fire hydrants

[mike carey]

Some are even drinking out of fire hydrants

Is that perhaps a euphemism?

[+ purplekow]

I hired an escort when I was visiting Philadelphia about 10 years ago. Since then, I get a the same recorded phone message every time the escort is in Philadelphia just letting me know he will be in Philly and leaving his phone number. I have never called him, but I have not eliminated calling him if things should work out and that we are in the city at the same time.

Some clients may consider this intrusive, but I enjoy the message as the escort has a deep bass voice and the seductive manner of the call is quite sexy.

[rvwnsd]

I don't mind when an escort reaches out to me, including escorts whom I hired in the past and are visiting my city again. Sometimes, I will check out ads in cities that I might visit buy haven't made plans to visit. In that case, I am not going to waste a guy's time asking whether we are compatible. However, when a guy reaches out to me I'll reply with what I like to see if we are compatible. If a trip happens, that guy will likely be the one I call.

[Guest]

I definitely don't like being called by escorts I've hired in the past, unless I've asked them to do so. Strangely, there have been a number of traveling escorts whom I've begged to let me know when they're in the area again, and they never call. The calls I've received are from escorts I didn't ask to let me know when they're in the area again. I'm not sure how common this type of experience is.

[Rudynate]

Pursuing clients was something I had a stern stance against when I began escorting. I thought I was above it and all I needed to do was show a little dick, give you a few angles, throw in some witty text, publish and ..boom, it’s raining clients. Incorrect. You have clients of course, but when you’re escorting in an over saturated market like NYC and you’ve exhausted meetings with all of your regulars, you are greatly limiting your earning potential by waiting for the phone to ring.

 

When living in NYC during off peak season or if my business wasn’t trending as it had been on say, a more monetary week, I would absolutely pursue clients and there is no harm in doing so. It afforded me the opportunity to secure more regulars and make connections with those who were maybe not the most forward nor inspired. Not inspired/motivated doesn’t mean not interested.

 

Sometimes you see something you like in a boutique and you just need someone to SELL it to you. Doesn’t mean you don’t want it.

 

My earnings would not be where they are if I relied solely on being pursed. And I assure you, any escort who is doing exceptionally well is not only being pursued, but doing the pursuing. Most escorts prefer not to disclose that info because....ego, but if any type of business is not hitting its numbers, what does that business do? Not wait for the phone to ring.

 

But on the same token, just because one is pursuing doesn’t mean he’s doing it effectively. I’ve stated elsewhere on the forum that it takes a very inventive/creative escort to keep his business afloat in a city like NYC.

 

 

I would definitely welcome it if @hypothetically reached out to me.

[+ Keith30309]

I like to hear from guys. I don’t watch travel schedules and knowing someone is an option is helpful.

[BaronArtz]

Hi guys: I'm curious about something and thought maybe could share your thoughts... A friend of my is a NYC sex blogger, and mentioned the other day the escorts he knows actively promote themselves or pursue clients. While I've never actively pursued clients, are there those of you that have, and what have your experiences been? Thanks guys!

 

Ryan

 

I am interested in reading the blog of your friend, the NY sex blogger! Can you post a link? Thank you.

[Rudynate]

If you're going to do it, be sure to do it right. About six months ago, a very attractive San Francisco escort reached out to me and asked if I'd be interested in booking with him. I said yes, I definitely would be. He basically had the booking. He was traveling and said he would be back in touch when he got back to SF. He never followed through-never heard from him. Not only did he leave business on the table, he ruined his reputation with me. I seriously doubt if I would book with him if I heard from him again.

[BaronArtz]

I don't mind being pursued if indeed, as @Rudynate said above, it is done right. That not only applies to the initial contact, but also in the follow-up. I find a professional follow-up important especially in the case of higher priced escorts. You can't be stand off-ish when you are charging $400 or more. Sadly, I find little correlation between price and courtesy/professionalism in this trade.

[+ OliverSaks]

Sounds like you’re the one losing out in this deal - cut the dude some slack maybe?

 

If you're going to do it, be sure to do it right. About six months ago, a very attractive San Francisco escort reached out to me and asked if I'd be interested in booking with him. I said yes, I definitely would be. He basically had the booking. He was traveling and said he would be back in touch when he got back to SF. He never followed through-never heard from him. Not only did he leave business on the table, he ruined his reputation with me. I seriously doubt if I would book with him if I heard from him again.

[Rudynate]

Sounds like you’re the one losing out in this deal - cut the dude some slack maybe?

 

You're right, I was being a little hyperbolic. Nonetheless, the underlying message is the same. In a business where reputation is everything, you can only afford so many missteps or oversights before your reputation takes a hit.

[gallahadesquire]

I was in Seattle once and asked for recommendations. The recommended escort wasn’t in town.

 

A YEAR later, said escort was in my City and texted me to let me know. It’s been a great time since.

[rogerG]

This was mentioned in another thread. I like Rentmen because non-escorts can post profiles. Numerous men through the years have sent me an IM saying various things, with as few words as "hey sexy." Others wrote to say how much we had in common. Some are not my type, are too expensive, or write things in their ad that turn me off. A few fell into my category and I hired them. Never had a bad experience so far. I even hooked up with another non-escort RM member once.

 

I appreciate hearing an escort express his organic attraction to me. His reach out gets my attention. We all have certain things that arouse us. They may not even be physical. If the attraction is mutual, I'm likely to act on his IM. If I discover the escort was not sincere in his attraction for me, but I got what I wanted from the appointment, I can accept that outcome with no regret.

[+ funguy86]

I would not mind being contacted. I would feel more comfortable knowing that after reading my profile that he was still interested. Being older, over weight and insecure, knowing the escort is comfortable with that would be nice. I do provide this information when reaching out to an escort but have been disappointed when meeting and the escort was not engaged. My thought would be if the escort took the time to read my profile and respond perhaps the engagement would be there.

[KeepItReal]

I don't mind when an escort reaches out to me, including escorts whom I hired in the past and are visiting my city again.

Agree. After meeting with a companion I usually send a follow up text to thank him for his time and will indicate if I would like to see him again. In that case, I don't mind hearing from him again. If I I don't indicate a desire to meet again, I will usually indicate such when the companion reaches out to me. In a polite and professional manner, of course.

 

As a side note, I usually decline to provide a review or a reference if it is the first time we are meeting. Frankly, I don't know the companion well enough at that stage and almost nobody is that good! Unless you're Iron Man - then I really want to play with your suit. Or Captain America - then I really want to play with you; suit or no suit.

 

[+ FrankR]

Unless you're Iron Man - then I really want to play with your suit. Or Captain America - then I really want to play with you; suit or no suit.

Your inner geek is showing. Will I see you at Comic-con?? Lol

[+ FrankR]

I am interested in reading the blog of your friend, the NY sex blogger! Can you post a link? Thank you.

Yes! @Ryan Wolff !

[bendable2019]

Pursuing clients was something I had a stern stance against when I began escorting. I thought I was above it and all I needed to do was show a little dick, give you a few angles, throw in some witty text, publish and ..boom, it’s raining clients. Incorrect. You have clients of course, but when you’re escorting in an over saturated market like NYC and you’ve exhausted meetings with all of your regulars, you are greatly limiting your earning potential by waiting for the phone to ring.

 

When living in NYC during off peak season or if my business wasn’t trending as it had been on say, a more monetary week, I would absolutely pursue clients and there is no harm in doing so. It afforded me the opportunity to secure more regulars and make connections with those who were maybe not the most forward nor inspired. Not inspired/motivated doesn’t mean not interested.

 

Sometimes you see something you like in a boutique and you just need someone to SELL it to you. Doesn’t mean you don’t want it.

 

My earnings would not be where they are if I relied solely on being pursed. And I assure you, any escort who is doing exceptionally well is not only being pursued, but doing the pursuing. Most escorts prefer not to disclose that info because....ego, but if any type of business is not hitting its numbers, what does that business do? Not wait for the phone to ring.

 

But on the same token, just because one is pursuing doesn’t mean he’s doing it effectively. I’ve stated elsewhere on the forum that it takes a very inventive/creative escort to keep his business afloat in a city like NYC.

 

Makes a lotta sense and thanks for sharing that. ❤️

[+ SundayZip]

I would not mind being contacted by an escort with whom I've already had a good experience. I typically hire when I travel and rarely at home (probably because I'm doing other things when at home). But if the right escort were to send me an email suggesting another get-together, I just might take him up on it. Even if it means an impromptu weekend trip to NYC, San Francisco or some other city where I enjoy spending time and can find other fun things to do. I can think of a couple escorts in particular. I'd welcome an email or text from one of these guys that started out something like,

"Hey <xxx>, I've been thinking about you and the fun time we had together last time. I'd really enjoy getting together with you again. You up for more fun times? I've got a few ideas <etc>"

 

There's a good chance his email would get me checking airfare.

Edited July 23, 2019 by SundayZip