A very crazy story

[Poincare]

I was recently contacted by the boyfriend of an escort. They have been dating seriously for two years in NYC. The boyfriend didn’t know about the escorting at all and only found out by stumbling across rentmen in his boyfriends search history. When asked about it, he got very anxious and argumentative. So the boyfriend searched all the pics on rentmen in NYC and found his boyfriends pictures (just the body and tattoos, no face shots). He then confronted all of us who reviewed him through rentmen’s email and asked us details on his boyfriends activities. He got the confirmation he needed, broke up with him and moved to LA. I’ve stayed in touch with the escorts boyfriend. He was in shock and has had trouble processing it all. Crazy but true. Just happened.....

[+ goosh69]

I believe it

[+ sync]

Keeping being an escort provider from someone with whom there has been a two-year "serious" relationship is worthy of a frown.

[BaronArtz]

I would not have responded to the boyfriend's email …

Edited June 20, 2019 by BaronArtz

[Tonyko]

Hard to believe in a two year serious relationship a secret like this could even be maintained, I could see if he were a word of mouth scort with a handful of regulars etc but anyone with an Ad running is pretty much out there. But guess anything's poss. I was with a friend we went backstage after a Broadway show to see an old friend of mine who was in it and as he walked us down the hall past dressing rooms he commented we should peek in as we pass the door of the 60-something former TV star who plays the lead, he's got a gor boy in there with him, one of his regular hires. Needless to say when we slowed down as we passed his open door sitting in there was my friend's BF of 6 mos, watching the actor change into his sneakers. We just kept walking, awful nite, waited till much later to fill my old friend in on it all, he had no idea.

[The Dude]

I would not have responded to the boyfriend's email …

Let alone befriended him

[+ ArVaGuy]

I’d say there’s some serious issues in that relationship if the boyfriend is scouring his partner’s search history in the first place. Not defending the escort for keeping the secret but from the boyfriend’s behavior contacting reviewers and such is a sign of instability for me. Will this scorned boyfriend tell all their friends? Will he expose the escort to his family or employer? Will the escort come home one day and find a rabbit in a stew pot?

 

I’d be more inclined to remain in touch with the escort, especially if the sessions were good. I would not have confirmed any details to the boyfriend and ignored the inquiry.

[Brosnan]

I was recently contacted by the boyfriend of an escort. They have been dating seriously for two years in NYC. The boyfriend didn’t know about the escorting at all and only found out by stumbling across rentmen in his boyfriends search history. When asked about it, he got very anxious and argumentative. So the boyfriend searched all the pics on rentmen in NYC and found his boyfriends pictures (just the body and tattoos, no face shots). He then confronted all of us who reviewed him through rentmen’s email and asked us details on his boyfriends activities. He got the confirmation he needed, broke up with him and moved to LA. I’ve stayed in touch with the escorts boyfriend. He was in shock and has had trouble processing it all. Crazy but true. Just happened.....

I had exactly the same experience with him! I ended up actually liking the boyfriend after a number of exchanges with him, though I have to say I do miss the escort (Funnicolas), who seems to have fallen off the face of the earth since this happened.

[newhudson]

I would not have responded to the boyfriend's email …

 

100%

[MscleLovr]

The boyfriend didn’t know about the escorting at all

 

I believe this. It happened to me too. Years ago, I was duped by my then bf who was a ‘below-the-radar’ escort with only torso pics online. I found out after he arranged a date with a guy who was a friend of mine.

[+ FrankR]

I had exactly the same experience with him! I ended up actually liking the boyfriend after a number of exchanges with him, though I have to say I do miss the escort (Funnicolas), who seems to have fallen off the face of the earth since this happened.

Wait, I thought funnicolas advertised as straight! Now I am crushed! ?

[Denorth]

For his boyfriend contacted you is just strange, and for you to keep in touch with him is just stranger. Imho

[hypothetically]

I was recently contacted by the boyfriend of an escort. They have been dating seriously for two years in NYC. The boyfriend didn’t know about the escorting at all and only found out by stumbling across rentmen in his boyfriends search history. When asked about it, he got very anxious and argumentative. So the boyfriend searched all the pics on rentmen in NYC and found his boyfriends pictures (just the body and tattoos, no face shots). He then confronted all of us who reviewed him through rentmen’s email and asked us details on his boyfriends activities. He got the confirmation he needed, broke up with him and moved to LA. I’ve stayed in touch with the escorts boyfriend. He was in shock and has had trouble processing it all. Crazy but true. Just happened.....

 

Kind of messy to elaborate so thoroughly on what happen imo. I understand communicating to everyone his bf was contacting clients (in the event any one on the forum was, idk, “alarmed”) but the rest was unnecessary.

[sexymonk]

This is a story where in this situation it is hard to blame either of them.

1) the escort did this out of economic reason. He wanted to pay his bills and be independent rather than be dependent on his so called bf. This was his work and he didn't cheated on his bf emotionally! At least, by this work he did with dignity, not duping, blackmailing or robbing anyone!

2) his bf should have capacity to understand situation. Exhibit maturity to look beyond. Also, he is not paying the other persons bill. I understand that he went into emotional turmoil if he were exclusive with the escort about which we don't know!

3) his bf contacted clients as if the escort had affair with clients which is not the case. Also, to maintain integrity he should never expose his bf to his family or friends unless the escort is ok.

4) good luck to escort for supporting many clients when in need of another persons intimacy which is natural right like sleep, food, water and saving them from depression and being there as a therapist!

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Kind of messy to elaborate so thoroughly on what happen imo. I understand communicating to everyone his bf was contacting clients (in the event any one on the forum was, idk, “alarmed”) but the rest was unnecessary.

 

Bingo. Now others are chiming in and it's becoming more personal.

 

This thread should never have been created.

[Poincare]

Bingo. Now others are chiming in and it's becoming more personal.

 

This thread should never have been created.

 

Maybe u r right. In 2019 what is appropriate? What are the limits and rules of this forum? How much should be kept out? This is pretty personal for sure. Maybe too real..

[quaero]

Why did you respond to the bf's inquiries? There's an implicit agreement between an escort and the client to respect each other's privacy. How would you feel if the escort began making inquiries to your friends and family about your private affairs with escorts?

[+ kent]

I'm a vote for not responding to the BF. I'd have also notified the escort that the BF had inquired.

[newhudson]

Why did you respond to the bf's inquiries? There's an implicit agreement between an escort and the client to respect each other's privacy. How would you feel if the escort began making inquiries to your friends and family about your private affairs with escorts?

Couldn’t have said it better!

[amar4men]

Is the bf good looking

[Poincare]

He is a male model

[BluDay]

I’d say there’s some serious issues in that relationship if the boyfriend is scouring his partner’s search history in the first place.

 

It's possible there was no scouring going on. If they share a computer/tablet and the bf types in "r", the browser will suggest sites or search terms used on that computer starting with "r". For me typing "m" into my browser suggests this forum.

 

This behavior can be overridden by using "porn mode", whatever the private browsing option is for your browser.