Regulars vs Frequent Repeats vs Trying New?

[MidwestCoastal]

Just curious...

 

How many people exclusively see 'regulars' vs 'frequent repeats' vs 'trying new often'?

 

I have a guy that I spend 6-8 weekends a year with; we're both stoners, both gaymers, both political.... he's a VERY hung, VERY sexual top and I'm a very willing bottom for him. There is great sexual chemistry, but he's not as affectionate as I like and not very into foreplay.

 

I go through phases of spending time with others (which you can see from my posts), but have months where I only see my regular.... I think I'm hoping to find someone like my current regular who also fulfills the affection need.

 

Just curious how others spend their time and money!

[big-n-tall]

I have a set of regulars. One I see far more than others because he lives the closest. (I'm sure it helps that we have incredible chemistry and we've actually become good friends.) Some I've known for years. Some have since retired but I still see for sexy time. I would see any of them more if I had more time and money. Seeing as most live out of state from me that complicates the already complicated scheduling.

 

There were a few I saw, I guess would be frequent repeats but they no longer escort, sadly.

 

I seldom see new people anymore. This year so far I met only one new hire. Although I do have my eyes on a few... I have no idea if I'll ever meet them.

[+ José Soplanucas]

All of the above.

[KeepItReal]

In my younger days I was more likely to go with a new guy when the opportunity presented itself. Now that I have gained some wisdom (lol!) I have two regulars - we are well suited and enjoy our time together so that is my first priority. I have a frequent repeat that lives out of town and we would probably be "regulars" if he lived in my city. I prefer these visits - they are very meaningful to me and I go to great lengths to make myself available; these relationships do require a little work but it is worth it to me. I only try someone new when I am traveling or my regulars/repeats are not available. That being said: you do you!

[+ Coolwave35]

My escort budget is 30k a year. About 22 goes to regulars, 4 on repeats and 4 on newbies when I travel.

[+ bashful]

My escort budget is 30k a year. About 22 goes to regulars, 4 on repeats and 4 on newbies when I travel.

 

Wow.

 

I hired one local guy six times for a couple of years, another visitor four times, and three visitors once, and met one of those visitors in another city. Roughly, I'd say, counting fees, and if he's not in the burbs, the cost/points for a hotel in the city to avoid a 1-2 hour commute each way in and out of the city, the cost of going to another city, and the associated expenses that go with a night or two staying in a hotel, over the last couple of years, my guess is I've spent only about 15 grand.

[rocky]

I see a regular almost every week, from out of town, for almost 20 years. Our relationship has changed, my fault, from very sexual, sensual, to companionship which isn't bad, but I also enjoy the sexual/sensual. I'm a bad person I guess, I enjoy the younger but also like the friendship. There are times I say, hell with money get me anything I can, then say, quiet down, give me someone to cuddle with.

[+ 7829V]

My escort budget is 30k a year. About 22 goes to regulars, 4 on repeats and 4 on newbies when I travel.

30K at 36

Congrats !!!

[rocky]

I'm probably $30k per year too...

[KeepItReal]

Damn, that is one heck of a hobby!

 

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[+ VictorPowers]

I feel like my portfolio of clients is only Frequent Repeats and Trying New. As a traveling escort I don’t know if I’d qualify for the term “Regular”. Although, I love my repeat encounters, close relationships can be built!

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[+ ArVaGuy]

I feel like my portfolio of clients is only Frequent Repeats and Trying New. As a traveling escort I don’t know if I’d qualify for the term “Regular”. Although, I love my repeat encounters, close relationships can be built!

 

By my definition of the term, you are a “Regular”

[+ nycman]

I like having both. Nothing beats the familiarity of a fuck buddy

that you get along with enough to become a “regular”.....

 

Unless, it’s the torrid hot lust of a new fling.

 

God I love men, and all our fickle ways!

[+ oldNbusted]

I like having both. Nothing beats the familiarity of a fuck buddy

that you get along with enough to become a “regular”.....

 

Unless, it’s the torrid hot lust of a new fling.

 

God I love men, and all our fickle ways!

 

Sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you feel like... the other nut?

[MscleLovr]

A friend of mine is a very expert and socially adept escort. To put him in context, he’s 33 has a good face, great physique, big dick and is sexually versatile. He has been well reviewed.

 

I had imagined he had a lot of regular clients but no. One night he told me, he’d been astounded when he started out as an escort that no-one repeated; he said “it’s as if everyone wants someone new”

[+ Axiom2001]

For the past five or six years, or perhaps longer, most of my "recreational play" has been with regulars. And strangely enough, to my satisfaction, the action has always varied and has been mighty satisfying and fulfilling.

[liubit]

For the past five or six years, or perhaps longer, most of my "recreational play" has been with regulars. And strangely enough, to my satisfaction, the action has always varied and has been mighty satisfying and fulfilling.

Same here.

[Decatur Guy]

I mostly hire from a pool of five frequent repeats. But time to time, I hire touring guys and I have a few local guys I hire less frequently.