Why can't escorts offer basic sex

[muscmtl]

Basic sex: if I hire you, you kiss you suck you swallow your rim and you get loaded: basic sex! Aything less means you're a12 year old having sex in your parents basement. I don't know when things got so wrong but it seems that asking for basic sex is asking for the fukn Moon. This one sucks but doesn't get fucke, or this one kiss but doesn't rim, and so on... Are these guys sex workers? or glorified waiters at the "half ass buffet"

 

I blame clients! I blame all these guys paying for practically nothing which inflates the narcissism of the escort who's in shock when someone ask him to do more than just show up

 

Basic sex: you know the thing you've seen in the millions of porn film: kiss suck swallow rim fuck get fucked..

but I guess basic sex is on the verge of Extinction

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Do you feel better now that you've put us all in our place?

 

Basic sex isn't basic for everyone: This isn't a one-size-fits-all discussion. Sure, with some escorts there's narcissism or games happening, but for others, sex is just one component of a very layered situation.

 

What you're describing is frustration on an hourly level and that's fine. Just be careful not to lump all escorts and situations into one black or white pot. This industry is wild when it comes to shades of grey.

[+ azdr0710]

Basic sex: if I hire you, you kiss you suck you swallow your rim and you get loaded: basic sex! Aything less means you're a12 year old having sex in your parents basement. I don't know when things got so wrong but it seems that asking for basic sex is asking for the fukn Moon. This one sucks but doesn't get fucke, or this one kiss but doesn't rim, and so on... Are these guys sex workers? or glorified waiters at the "half ass buffet"

 

I blame clients! I blame all these guys paying for practically nothing which inflates the narcissism of the escort who's in shock when someone ask him to do more than just show up

 

Basic sex: you know the thing you've seen in the millions of porn film: kiss suck swallow rim fuck get fucked..

but I guess basic sex is on the verge of Extinction

 

 

well isn't this a frosty Friday......

 

[+ FrankR]

Basic sex: if I hire you, you kiss you suck you swallow your rim and you get loaded: basic sex! Aything less means you're a12 year old having sex in your parents basement. I don't know when things got so wrong but it seems that asking for basic sex is asking for the fukn Moon. This one sucks but doesn't get fucke, or this one kiss but doesn't rim, and so on... Are these guys sex workers? or glorified waiters at the "half ass buffet"

 

I blame clients! I blame all these guys paying for practically nothing which inflates the narcissism of the escort who's in shock when someone ask him to do more than just show up

 

Basic sex: you know the thing you've seen in the millions of porn film: kiss suck swallow rim fuck get fucked..

but I guess basic sex is on the verge of Extinction

I suppose that makes me a 12 year old. ? Or to say it in a different way: Sex is a soup...and I am a fork. ?

[+ GregM]

People like different things. Just like some like their steak rare while others well done or some where in between. I happen to like what you described as basic sex but am more than happy to do my best and meet the requests of the great guys I see.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[hypothetically]

Basic sex: if I hire you, you kiss you suck you swallow your rim and you get loaded: basic sex! Aything less means you're a12 year old having sex in your parents basement. I don't know when things got so wrong but it seems that asking for basic sex is asking for the fukn Moon. This one sucks but doesn't get fucke, or this one kiss but doesn't rim, and so on... Are these guys sex workers? or glorified waiters at the "half ass buffet"

 

I blame clients! I blame all these guys paying for practically nothing which inflates the narcissism of the escort who's in shock when someone ask him to do more than just show up

 

Basic sex: you know the thing you've seen in the millions of porn film: kiss suck swallow rim fuck get fucked..

but I guess basic sex is on the verge of Extinction

 

Seems your recipe for “basic sex” has resulted in no sex. Turn down the heat and add less salt and maybe you’ll be able to eat, champ.

[+ kov78]

Basic sex: if I hire you, you kiss you suck you swallow your rim and you get loaded: basic sex! Aything less means you're a12 year old having sex in your parents basement. I don't know when things got so wrong but it seems that asking for basic sex is asking for the fukn Moon. This one sucks but doesn't get fucke, or this one kiss but doesn't rim, and so on... Are these guys sex workers? or glorified waiters at the "half ass buffet"

 

I blame clients! I blame all these guys paying for practically nothing which inflates the narcissism of the escort who's in shock when someone ask him to do more than just show up

 

Basic sex: you know the thing you've seen in the millions of porn film: kiss suck swallow rim fuck get fucked..

but I guess basic sex is on the verge of Extinction

I like the way you think @muscmtl what you describe is exactly what I like when I meet up. Unfortunately, I have only found 1 or 2 guys in my area that will doo all of that. Now if ever ya need any of those things , I’d be more than happy to help lol woof! And [uSER=15386]@GregM, how is it we have never met ?? You enjoy all those things and I’ve never knew this???? Let’s chat [/uSER]

[muscmtl]

I like the way you think @muscmtl what you describe is exactly what I like when I meet up. Unfortunately, I have only found 1 or 2 guys in my area that will doo all of that. Now if ever ya need any of those things , I’d be more than happy to help lol woof! And [uSER=15386]@GregM, how is it we have never met ?? You enjoy all those things and I’ve never knew this???? Let’s chat [/uSER]

 

What I absolutely love is all the guys who hate my post or trash me for it cuz I dare expose their lowballing sex needs. Hiarious that one is proud to be has sexually mature as a 12 year olds... I know there's lots of you and I out there, way more than these idiots who just want to look at the model as he indressed and jerk off. Someone needed to remind these escorts that they are sex workers

[marylander1940]

Basic sex: if I hire you, you kiss you suck you swallow your rim and you get loaded: basic sex! Aything less means you're a12 year old having sex in your parents basement. I don't know when things got so wrong but it seems that asking for basic sex is asking for the fukn Moon. This one sucks but doesn't get fucke, or this one kiss but doesn't rim, and so on... Are these guys sex workers? or glorified waiters at the "half ass buffet"

 

First of all thank you for being honest yet I found your post insulting!

 

Some guys like to swallow, but most don't. Rimming is a very personal subject... and even with perfect hygiene there are risks, besides is waaay more personal than kissing.

 

If I had a dollar for every time a guy told me "but I just showered" and he wasn't ready...

 

Getting loaded as in taking a load up their butts? Not everybody likes to bottom and specially BB with a client... They might do it if they're on PrEP with a handsome hookup but not with a client, it's their preference.

 

I blame clients! I blame all these guys paying for practically nothing which inflates the narcissism of the escort who's in shock when someone ask him to do more than just show up

 

Maybe some clients like to be the ones getting loaded and others like to rim. Other clients only do it safe and they BB with their husbands/partners.

 

Not everybody wants to do what you have in mind.

 

Basic sex: you know the thing you've seen in the millions of porn film: kiss suck swallow rim fuck get fucked..

but I guess basic sex is on the verge of Extinction

 

I'm sure there are lots of guys who get bred by their clients but rimming is not something they would do to most men who hire.

[hypothetically]

Someone needed to remind these escorts that they are sex workers

 

If anyone needed proof that there was a discrepancy in level of respect when it comes to client vs. provider, here you are.

 

Also, I was certain it was Flint with the contaminated water, not Montreal...wow.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

What I absolutely love is all the guys who hate my post or trash me for it cuz I dare expose their lowballing sex needs. Hiarious that one is proud to be has sexually mature as a 12 year olds... I know there's lots of you and I out there, way more than these idiots who just want to look at the model as he indressed and jerk off. Someone needed to remind these escorts that they are sex workers

 

Your post is fine. To hate something, I'd first have to care about the poster.

 

Your spelling and grammar on the other hand... That deserves ridicule.

[+ SundayZip]

What I absolutely love is all the guys who hate my post or trash me for it cuz I dare expose their lowballing sex needs. Hiarious that one is proud to be has sexually mature as a 12 year olds... I know there's lots of you and I out there, way more than these idiots who just want to look at the model as he indressed and jerk off. Someone needed to remind these escorts that they are sex workers

 

Huh? Are you seriously judging others whose sexual needs don't conform to your very specific and formuliac standards? We've got the likes of Jerry Falwell and Franklin Graham on one side and you on the other. WTF?

[mike carey]

I knew there would be providers (and clients) far more able than I to debunk this apparent New Theory of Sex to which all escorts needed to adhere. Thank you @hypothetically, @Benjamin_Nicholas and @SundayZip for stepping up to the plate.

[+ sync]

Hamlet:

Madam, how like you this play?

 

Queen:

The lady doth protest too much, methinks.

 

Hamlet Act 3, Scene 2

[Monarchy79]

Basic sex: if I hire you, you kiss you suck you swallow your rim and you get loaded: basic sex! Aything less means you're a12 year old having sex in your parents basement. I don't know when things got so wrong but it seems that asking for basic sex is asking for the fukn Moon. This one sucks but doesn't get fucke, or this one kiss but doesn't rim, and so on... Are these guys sex workers? or glorified waiters at the "half ass buffet"

 

I blame clients! I blame all these guys paying for practically nothing which inflates the narcissism of the escort who's in shock when someone ask him to do more than just show up

 

Basic sex: you know the thing you've seen in the millions of porn film: kiss suck swallow rim fuck get fucked..

but I guess basic sex is on the verge of Extinction

 

The entire vibe I get from your post makes me cringe....

“Basic sex” does not have a definition. That is YOUR interpretation.

 

You come off as if an escort isn’t even a person, which I find to be offensive and disturbing. Just because you are hiring someone to perform a set of services, doesn’t entitle you to objectify someone in a manner that puts them in a place of an “orifice”, of gratification. If you want that, maybe you should indulge in a flesh light.

 

The escorts aren’t the problem, YOU are. And if you worked on that “involuntarily celibate”, sexually sociopathic behavior, and vile personality maybe you would have “good sex”.

 

If I were an escort and met you, I’d PAY YOU to put your clothes on and immediately LEAVE.

 

I bet you’re just an entitled asswipe of a customer in every realm.... from restaurants, to escorts, to even being a customer in a store.

 

The only “wisdom”, you’ve provided here is that the customer is NOT always right!!!

??

[studchaser]

Basic sex: if I hire you, you kiss you suck you swallow your rim and you get loaded: basic sex! Aything less means you're a12 year old having sex in your parents basement. I don't know when things got so wrong but it seems that asking for basic sex is asking for the fukn Moon. This one sucks but doesn't get fucke, or this one kiss but doesn't rim, and so on... Are these guys sex workers? or glorified waiters at the "half ass buffet"

 

I blame clients! I blame all these guys paying for practically nothing which inflates the narcissism of the escort who's in shock when someone ask him to do more than just show up

 

Basic sex: you know the thing you've seen in the millions of porn film: kiss suck swallow rim fuck get fucked..

but I guess basic sex is on the verge of Extinction

 

There are many gay guys who dont even do anal thats the first thing. Alot of men also consider the potential of stds which might change what they request.

 

I blame outta town gentrifiers for making nyc expensive but its just the way it is. You adapt or bow out the game.

[studchaser]

What I absolutely love is all the guys who hate my post or trash me for it cuz I dare expose their lowballing sex needs. Hiarious that one is proud to be has sexually mature as a 12 year olds... I know there's lots of you and I out there, way more than these idiots who just want to look at the model as he indressed and jerk off. Someone needed to remind these escorts that they are sex workers

 

I pray to god that is not how you envision 12 yr olds cause that is saying alot. Maybe you need to find a committed relationship where you can be on the same page with someone interested in all you arr into. Thats grown up business.

[marylander1940]

The entire vibe I get from your post makes me cringe....

“Basic sex” does not have a definition. That is YOUR interpretation.

 

You come off as if an escort isn’t even a person, which I find to be offensive and disturbing. Just because you are hiring someone to perform a set of services, doesn’t entitle you to objectify someone in a manner that puts them in a place of an “orifice”, of gratification. If you want that, maybe you should indulge in a flesh light.

 

The escorts aren’t the problem, YOU are. And if you worked on that “involuntarily celibate”, sexually sociopathic behavior, and vile personality maybe you would have “good sex”.

 

If I were an escort and met you, I’d PAY YOU to put your clothes on and immediately LEAVE.

 

I bet you’re just an entitled asswipe of a customer in every realm.... from restaurants, to escorts, to even being a customer in a store.

 

The only “wisdom”, you’ve provided here is that the customer is NOT always right!!!

??

 

He @muscmtl suggested a site where clients would post a request and a price. For example: outcall, 18-25, $100. That's no way to deal with escorts in respectful way but I know for sure about guys on here who love to brag about getting the cheapest hire after they bargained.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Basic sex: if I hire you, you kiss you suck you swallow your rim and you get loaded: basic sex! Aything less means you're a12 year old having sex in your parents basement. I don't know when things got so wrong but it seems that asking for basic sex is asking for the fukn Moon. This one sucks but doesn't get fucke, or this one kiss but doesn't rim, and so on... Are these guys sex workers? or glorified waiters at the "half ass buffet"

 

I blame clients! I blame all these guys paying for practically nothing which inflates the narcissism of the escort who's in shock when someone ask him to do more than just show up

 

Basic sex: you know the thing you've seen in the millions of porn film: kiss suck swallow rim fuck get fucked..

but I guess basic sex is on the verge of Extinction

 

I do not know whether or not I would call it "basic sex", but what you describe is what I get from the many guys I hire. Check my reviews. I am sorry you have not been lucky.

[+ ArVaGuy]

Basic sex: if I hire you, you kiss you suck you swallow your rim and you get loaded: basic sex! Aything less means you're a12 year old having sex in your parents basement. I don't know when things got so wrong but it seems that asking for basic sex is asking for the fukn Moon. This one sucks but doesn't get fucke, or this one kiss but doesn't rim, and so on... Are these guys sex workers? or glorified waiters at the "half ass buffet"

 

I blame clients! I blame all these guys paying for practically nothing which inflates the narcissism of the escort who's in shock when someone ask him to do more than just show up

 

Basic sex: you know the thing you've seen in the millions of porn film: kiss suck swallow rim fuck get fucked..

but I guess basic sex is on the verge of Extinction

What I absolutely love is all the guys who hate my post or trash me for it cuz I dare expose their lowballing sex needs. Hiarious that one is proud to be has sexually mature as a 12 year olds... I know there's lots of you and I out there, way more than these idiots who just want to look at the model as he indressed and jerk off. Someone needed to remind these escorts that they are sex workers

 

 

WOW!

 

“[R]emind these escorts that they are sex workers” with an attitude like that no wonder you have lousy experiences. The guys you hire must be glad to leave your presence as soon as the appointment ends. (After they count the money to make sure you didn’t shortchange them.)

 

You want respect from a “sex worker” then you had better treat the “sex worker” with respect or suffer the indignity of being treated little better than an ATM.

[+ Summerson]

What I absolutely love is all the guys who hate my post or trash me for it cuz I dare expose their lowballing sex needs. Hiarious that one is proud to be has sexually mature as a 12 year olds... I know there's lots of you and I out there, way more than these idiots who just want to look at the model as he indressed and jerk off. Someone needed to remind these escorts that they are sex workers

 

Many of my favorite selections from the sexual repertoire don't align with yours, but then I've always been the unconventionally creative type. If my preferences are common among contemporary twelve year olds, I think we should all be very excited about the future. (Or slightly terrified. As each of us may be inclined.)

[LivingnLA]

This is why we cannot have nice things. People get greedy or selfish, usually because of grossly unrealistic expectations created by excessive media exposure, and then dehumanization occurs which breaks down communication, trust, and relationships.

 

Much of porn is fantasy. It does not exist in the real world where sexually transmitted diseases and infections are real. Nor does it take personalities or emotions into account. Or the reality of hygiene. Sometimes we just don't feel clean enough for things like rimming. Porn is about presenting a fantasy for masturbation. Porn creators often don't care about anything but cheaply creating porn, which is why the porn industry is so destructive to those who work in it.

 

Escorts are human beings. They have their own emotions, personality, and preferences. I have no doubt that some escorts would be completely willing to do what the OP calls "basic sex." Hell, I have no doubt that some are even kinky enough to get into the arrogance, dismissiveness, and objectification implicit in the OP's posts. But, they are still human beings and if they feel disrespected or uncomfortable then they will become more defensive and protective which will increase their limits.

[+ FrankR]

What I absolutely love is all the guys who hate my post or trash me for it cuz I dare expose their lowballing sex needs. Hiarious that one is proud to be has sexually mature as a 12 year olds... I know there's lots of you and I out there, way more than these idiots who just want to look at the model as he indressed and jerk off. Someone needed to remind these escorts that they are sex workers

[+ WilliamM]

So strange to read about people discovering barebacking now, in 2018. I have been barebacking since ever, having bareback orgies for over 30 years, which means that like me thousands and thousands of gay guys have have been doing the same. Within a month of its launch around 2000, BBRT had reached 100,000 members.

 

My problem as a client is that there too few escorts that bb to bother (anything goes). It's, 2018 and 'safe only" escort should be such a rarity that you have to pay extra if you want "unatural sex'

 

post from 2018 by muscmtl

Edited May 4, 2019 by WilliamM

[marylander1940]

So strange to read about people discovering barebacking now, in 2018. I have been barebacking since ever, having bareback orgies for over 30 years, which means that like me thousands and thousands of gay guys have have been doing the same. Within a month of its launch around 2000, BBRT had reached 100,000 members.

My problem as a client is that there too few escorts that bb to bother (anything goes). It's, 2018 and 'safe only" escort should be such a rarity that you have to pay extra if you want "unatural sex'

 

post from 2018 by muscmtl

 

Damn.... Do you @muscmtl think HIV is/was a conspiracy theory to force have unnatural anal sex with an unnatural condom?