Hiring a bottom

[+ Mplsgymguy]

Hypothetical situation: I find an escort on Rentmen who is very appealing and that I’d like to meet. He lists a number of services (massage, BF experience, etc), and also identifies himself as a bottom or versatile/bottom, with photos to match. When contacting him, just so we’re on the same page, should I tell him, “You have a beautiful ass, I’d love to top you”? so he knows I’m looking for more than, say, muscle worship. Unless I say something to the contrary, will the provider expect to bottom as part of our date? Despite having had many massages that have turned into sex, I’m not very experienced in hiring an escort.

[big-n-tall]

You can just say/state your preference when you introduce yourself. Something as simple as, “I’m a top.” Most escorts want to know your preferences, but some just want an a simple intro with no overtly explicit talk with someone they haven’t met. So try to keep the language as pg as possible... unless your potential hire indicates otherwise.

 

If you search the forum there are a number of posts about how to introduce yourself to a working guy.

 

Most of all, don’t over think it. It will make you nervous. Happy hunting.

[+ Keith30309]

I list "top" in my profile. If I'm unclear on someone's preference my intro message will include something like "In the past I have enjoy meeting guys who like to bottom. Please let me know if you think we are a good match". Same for kissing.

[+ nycman]

So try to keep the language as pg as possible... unless your potential hire indicates otherwise.

I respectfully disagree.

I keep it PG rated no matter what.

Entrapment is real.

“I’m a top” is all I say.

Nothing more.

[+ tassojunior]

I respectfully disagree.

I keep it PG rated no matter what.

Entrapment is real.

“I’m a top” is all I say.

Nothing more.

 

Same here. I'm a top In English or I am active in Europe or Latin America.

[Ryan Roman]

I agree with what's been said. Just simply state "I'm a top" when contacting an escort. It's really helpful for us to know what a client is into.

[hypothetically]

Hypothetical situation: I find an escort on Rentmen who is very appealing and that I’d like to meet. He lists a number of services (massage, BF experience, etc), and also identifies himself as a bottom or versatile/bottom, with photos to match. When contacting him, just so we’re on the same page, should I tell him, “You have a beautiful ass, I’d love to top you”? so he knows I’m looking for more than, say, muscle worship. Unless I say something to the contrary, will the provider expect to bottom as part of our date? Despite having had many massages that have turned into sex, I’m not very experienced in hiring an escort.

 

“Hi. I’m a top looking for....” will do just fine.

[+ JEC]

Generally I get pretty direct, not overly detailed but also complete with what I am looking for so there is no misunderstanding. There are lots of posts on this forum about how to protect your privacy and also try to sense and avoid "traps".....nothing is guaranteed at this game tho'.

[MscleLovr]

I agree with @JEC - remain polite but be direct.

 

My approach over several years has been to state "I'm a top only. I enjoy kissing a lot and getting serviced orally. Are we compatible?" If the man responds well, I describe how I like the date to go and I emphasise what is important to me.

[Chuckball]

When I first meet an escort I like to have a brief chat that is open and honest. I hire based on rent men profile. If in our chat it appears I am not going to get want I am willing to pay for, I cant imagine an escort would want to proceed. Only once did I get a surprise: The escort stated up front, "I've got a really big cock." But that didn't become a deal breaker.