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I personally believe that kissing is essential in the profession. If I am meeting someone especially for a boyfriend type of experience then kissing is a non negotiable. I think that some escorts don't feel comfortable kissing because it can be a vulnerable thing and some people don't like to show that side but if you are not willing to kiss then it should be said upfront so there are no disappointments. Some people are fine with no kissing which is fine but for most I'd say that it is an essential when making someone feel comfortable and appreciated.

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I personally believe that kissing is essential in the profession. If I am meeting someone especially for a boyfriend type of experience then kissing is a non negotiable. I think that some escorts don't feel comfortable kissing because it can be a vulnerable thing and some people don't like to show that side but if you are not willing to kiss then it should be said upfront so there are no disappointments. Some people are fine with no kissing which is fine but for most I'd say that it is an essential when making someone feel comfortable and appreciated.

 

No kissing is a deal breaker for me.

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the mouth has a large percentage of the sensory cortex so we get a tremendous amout of input from kissing, much more than from the genitals. If you google sensory homunculus , sorry I could not download the picture, you can see the proportion of sensory input from the various parts of the body: genitals are a small part in the scheme of things. If you are looking just to bust a nut, then I guess not kissing or hugging or any body contact will work for you, but for me, looking for an all over physical experience, where the nut is the dessert at the end of a total "meal" kissing is essential. I need the connection.

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Thanks for sharing, @arnie. I didn’t know the scientific facts, but I‘ve always known that my lips, my tongue, and the inside of my mouth are extremely, overly sensitive. You just need to gently -or bettter still, passionately- run your tongue on them to get me turned on like nothing else does. Full disclosure: my nipples come next. ??

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I wonder how many clients show up to their appointments with bad hygiene. I guess that must be an escort’s biggest fear with a new client.

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Thanks for sharing, @arnie. I didn’t know the scientific facts, but I‘ve always known that my lips, my tongue, and the inside of my mouth are extremely, overly sensitive. You just need to gently -or bettter still, passionately- run your tongue on them to get me turned on like nothing else does. Full disclosure: my nipples come next. ??

Can I have a go for the experience? Your description alone is ??? and to the guy on your other end, all I can ask is, can we trade places? ?

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I was wondering what are the stipulation for kissing for you guys?

 

I know some escorts dont do it at all,some dont mind kissing,and others are open to kissing after getting comfortable with a client.

 

I was just wondering cause kissing is a big one for me. I have a hard time maintaining a hard on with out kissing.

I am very open to kissing/making out with clients I meet. I especially enjoy it when the client I'm with happens to be a good kisser too! I agree, kissing is a big part of the overall experience so that's why I choose to do it. :)

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Remember the first time you saw two guys kissing? How amazing that was. Did you pause the movie and move closer to the screen?

It was the UK film Maurice with Hugh Grant, James Wilby and Rupert Graves. The movie was being broadcast on cable late at night. Made special effort to stay up late and watch alone :) Ah, memories! Even today, it stands as a very authentic depiction of romance, not just the hanky panky. No other movies made after or recently comes close.

Of note are the scenes

- in the British Museum and afterwards, then

- when Maurice goes to the harbour to see off Scudder and when Scudder does not show up and

- then of course, the final scene when the lovers are united ("We shall never be parted, it's finished"). How it set aflame the heart of a shy, introverted, gay lonely teenager!

 

P.S. Sorry if posted in wrong thread. Will also post in appropriate thread.

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It was the UK film Maurice with Hugh Grant, James Wilby and Rupert Graves. The movie was being broadcast on cable late at night. Made special effort to stay up late and watch alone :) Ah, memories! Even today, it stands as a very authentic depiction of romance, not just the hanky panky. No other movies made after or recently comes close.

Of note are the scenes

- in the British Museum and afterwards, then

- when Maurice goes to the harbour to see off Scudder and when Scudder does not show up and

- then of course, the final scene when the lovers are united ("We shall never be parted, it's finished"). How it set aflame the heart of a shy, introverted, gay lonely teenager!

 

P.S. Sorry if posted in wrong thread. Will also post in appropriate thread.

One of my all-time favorite movies. E.M. Forster was on his game when he wrote Maurice.

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Yes personally I’m very open to kissing and am a great kisser. I do enjoy connecting with clients however I’d certainly like to know that’s what you’d like to do in the session before hand as I do not kiss every client and it’s an additional fee. Totally worth it!

 

It seems this particular poster moved on since, but...regardless of whether people disagreed with him, it may become an increasing new norm post C-19. And that’s assuming providers will be offering it.

 

That said, if I can be transparent: at times the guys who are adamant, mandatory about kissing, tend to overdo it. Like someone previously mentioned, I don’t want to feel like someone is diving for lobsters in my mouth.

 

Kissing is a wonderful, erotic thing...it’s like kindling to a fire. It’s all part of the “package”. And I especially like it when a guy is real shy seeming about kissing. Maybe they don’t always, but they get into it.

 

But I also have a thing about extended “making out” (not just kissing) in nightclubs. Some guys do it very publicly when they first meet a guy, so I feel in some ways making out can be like a handshake to some. It’s cute, but I don’t like being seen in that capacity. I’ve done it, and it tends to make me uncomfortable being seen out in public lipped locked with someone I barely know, in front of other people (some people get jealous, or feel inappropriate).

 

That said, a quick kiss on the lips as a greeting among fellow gays is fairly common and welcome (then again we don’t know how things may become after all of “this” ? stuff).

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