Escort won't show or send dick pics

[Wolfer]

I've seen more and more ads popping up lately that have no fully nude or dick pics in their profile and in their ad text it says: "Do not ask for dick/XXX pics, I do not send these".

 

It makes me wonder... These guys realize that their dick and being nude is part of the service, right? Sure, sure, there are no rules and guarantees but... Let's not kid ourselves, a lot of clients are looking to get nude.

 

Personally for me it doesn't matter whether I get to see their dicks in advance since for me the body, face and chemistry is so much more important (and their butt, hahaha).

 

But unwilling to send ANY nudes? Or post them? As an escort? I find it interesting/strange, to say the least.

[+ tassojunior]

I've seen more and more ads popping up lately that have no fully nude or dick pics in their profile and in their ad text it says: "Do not ask for dick/XXX pics, I do not send these".

 

It makes me wonder... These guys realize that their dick and being nude is part of the service, right? Sure, sure, there are no rules and guarantees but... Let's not kid ourselves, a lot of clients are looking to get nude.

 

Personally for me it doesn't matter whether I get to see their dicks in advance since for me the body, face and chemistry is so much more important (and their butt, hahaha).

 

But unwilling to send ANY nudes? Or post them? As an escort? I find it interesting/strange, to say the least.

 

Providers are constantly getting requests for pics from guys who will never be clients. It is a nuisance and they have to flat out tell everyone "no" to dick pics to discourage those requests.

Edited August 20, 2018 by tassojunior

[thickornotatall]

I find it a deal breaker. I want too see what's happening before anything happens. If an escort says he has 9" and arrives with 6" there will be a problem. They can avoid being asked by posting a few nude pics.. I love big cock and that's not a secret. By advertising 9" that's what is expected. Last month I had a request for a face pic and an age proof by a well known escort. I had said I was an older guy and very much inshape. Not enough for him.. "The times they are a changing" so I hired someone else. Then had a text that he was just curious. I never answered.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Tasso is exactly right. For every real client, they get 10 requests for dick pics from people who just wank over their pictures and never hire them.

[+ JEC]

Tasso is exactly right. For every real client, they get 10 requests for dick pics from people who just wank over their pictures and never hire them.

I'd be willing to bet the ratio is much more than 10:1 - time wasters

[nynakedtop]

Sorry but if you are expecting people to pay $2-300 an hour, sending a dick pic is jusr the cost of doing business.

 

#nosympathy

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Sorry but if you are expecting people to pay $2-300 an hour, sending a dick pic is jusr the cost of doing business.

 

#nosympathy

Except they might have enough business as it is, so why bother?

[Wolfer]

Tasso is exactly right. For every real client, they get 10 requests for dick pics from people who just wank over their pictures and never hire them.

I get that sending dick pics individually might be a waste of time so why not post a couple up on their profile?

 

I understand @thickornotatall 's wish to see the good before hiring. It is part of the service, Big dicks isn't an interest of mine so I don't really care either way, though I do appreciate having some nude pics of the escort, if only to enjoy the nice memories after our date.

[DMICS]

Both sides are right in this debate.

[down_to_business]

Except they might have enough business as it is, so why bother?

 

Maybe, maybe not. It is not a sustainable model to drive away potential clients(i.e. deposits/prepays, applications, refusal to post pics or provide information). Short term they will be fine, sure, but long-term-- every time one of those existing clients moves on???

 

Anyhow, a dic pic isn't a personal necessity for me-- I am much more interested in seeing the face and body... but just as that isn't important to me.. it is very important to others. An escort will likely minimize unwanted requests if they post face, body, dick, ass, legs, hands, feet etc. in their advertising. This also plays into their self-fulfilling prophecies when they are not hired after sending this picture. Maybe they just didn't like what they saw.

 

A potential client is no more a time-waster who is forced to ask for a picture to see what is important to them (i.e. that advertised 9" cock that is really 6") then an escort a time-waster that doesn't provide adequate information to potential clients to make hiring decisions.

[Epigonos]

We have had various forms of this discussion innumerable times on this site. In the end we all usually agree that an escort has the right to operate his business in any manner he wishes. If a potential client doesn't like the way an escorts present himself the client doesn't have to hire him. I was recently taken aback when I say a rentman ad that did not have even one photograph. I was curious enough that I took the time to read the escort's ad. It was nothing out of the ordinary but, speaking for myself, there is no way I would hire the guy.

Edited August 21, 2018 by Epigonos

[Nvr2Thick]

We have had various forms of this discussion innumerable times on this site. In the end we all usually agree that an escort has the right to operate his business in any manner he wishes. If a potential client doesn't like the was an escorts present himself the client doesn't have to hire him. I was recently taken aback when I say a rentman ad that did not have even one photograph. I was curious enough that I took the time to read the escort's ad. It was nothing out of the ordinary but, speaking for myself, there is no way I would hire the guy.

 

Coming soon: an escort who calls him(?)self "Ask Me" and has a profile with no info, no description, no pictures.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

I get that sending dick pics individually might be a waste of time so why not post a couple up on their profile?

Yeah, if he wants to. Or not, if he doesn’t.

[+ StLouisOct]

What’s on the page, rather than requesting dick shots, was the emphasis at the beginning of the thread. I’ve come to the conclusion that those who market themselves well are the best ones to concentrate on. I can understand why an escort wouldn’t have face shots on his page, but including nudes and dick are just good marketing. Thus, I’ve never had to ask for additional photos.

[bnm73]

I find it a deal breaker. I want too see what's happening before anything happens. If an escort says he has 9" and arrives with 6" there will be a problem. They can avoid being asked by posting a few nude pics.. I love big cock and that's not a secret. By advertising 9" that's what is expected. Last month I had a request for a face pic and an age proof by a well known escort. I had said I was an older guy and very much inshape. Not enough for him.. "The times they are a changing" so I hired someone else. Then had a text that he was just curious. I never answered.

 

"You say you have a 9" dick. You realize that if we meet and your dick is NOT 9", then I'm sending you away and not paying you, right?"

 

(Always a fun conversation to see....)

[Tonyko]

"I" think refusal to send a dick pick "often" means they CAN'T bc a dick pick doesn't EXIST bc the hot guy on I.G. who's pix they're using never posts one:rolleyes:

[+ HornyRetiree]

I expect to see cock pictures before I book! I prefer average size cocks:), don't care if cut or uncut, and I do not like severe curves down or to right or left - Slight curve up is fine.

 

Easy enough to have them locked on profile

[David1024]

I've seen more and more ads popping up lately that have no fully nude or dick pics in their profile and in their ad text it says: "Do not ask for dick/XXX pics, I do not send these".

 

It makes me wonder... These guys realize that their dick and being nude is part of the service, right? Sure, sure, there are no rules and guarantees but... Let's not kid ourselves, a lot of clients are looking to get nude.

 

Personally for me it doesn't matter whether I get to see their dicks in advance since for me the body, face and chemistry is so much more important (and their butt, hahaha).

 

But unwilling to send ANY nudes? Or post them? As an escort? I find it interesting/strange, to say the least.

Looks to me like there are some escorts that are starting to use sites like Rentmen as if it were Grindr. Asking a potential client for a face pic, sounds like someone is looking for a Grindr hookup and just hoping to get paid for it. I do sympathize with escorts that have to deal with time wasters, but I would think that the best way of deflecting such people is posting a good selection of pictures and telling them "you can find everything you need on my Rentmen ad"

[+ tassojunior]

X rated pics are behind the Rentmen paywall anyway so it brings more $ to RM and it gets more/better clients. And the escort just says "X rated pics in members area."

[+ freecahill1965]

Looks to me like there are some escorts that are starting to use sites like Rentmen as if it were Grindr. Asking a potential client for a face pic, sounds like someone is looking for a Grindr hookup and just hoping to get paid for it. I do sympathize with escorts that have to deal with time wasters, but I would think that the best way of deflecting such people is posting a good selection of pictures and telling them "you can find everything you need on my Rentmen ad"

There are so many guys on RM. I just pass on the ones with crazy requests that are not acceptable to me.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

There are several escorts who choose not to post or send dick pics and that's fine with me. I can think of a ton of valid reasons not to post them. (I won't list all 2,000, but....)

 

1. Escort is a bottom. (Dick pics often imply that the escort will top.)

2. Escort has another career and identifiable nude pics would not be good for that career.

3. Escort has really hot photos in his underwear that leave only a little to the imagination.

4. Escort prefers to provide extended hiring sessions which includes time in clothes. For those clients, it isn't all about the cock.

5. Escort has identifiable ink doesn't want nude pics being shared.

6. Escort has a five inch penis of average girth as stated in the ad.

7. Even after sending them a while ago, the escort received more questions about whether they were photoshopped.

9. Escort is a master and the leather cod piece and chaps says it all.

10. Escort is a frequent reader of this forum and feels things have been too quiet and wants to stir the pot.

Edited August 21, 2018 by sam.fitzpatrick

[rvwnsd]

I understand staying away from posting dick pics in an ad, but refusing to send is a different matter. When a guy states he is 6" or 6.5" I'm less apt to call bullshit than when he advertises 9".