Escorts that only receive oral with condom on.

[caramelsub]

Am I the only one who is completely turned off by this? I’m an oral submissive, and more and more I’ve found escorts don't receive oral without a condom on. I don’t mind if they tell me this before hand, then I can just cross them off my list. But on a couple of encounters I have had, they don’t tell me until after I have paid upfront. I feel cheated when this happens. I know it is best never to pay upfront, but when they ask for it, I’m not going to argue with them.

[+ Avalon]

When you set up the appointment ask them.

[+ 7829V]

Am I the only one who is completely turned off by this? I’m an oral submissive, and more and more I’ve found escorts don't receive oral without a condom on. I don’t mind if they tell me this before hand, then I can just cross them off my list. But on a couple of encounters I have had, they don’t tell me until after I have paid upfront. I feel cheated when this happens. I know it is best never to pay upfront, but when they ask for it, I’m not going to argue with them.

Wow. If they can’t stand the heat, they should get out of the kitchen.

[caliguy]

Am I the only one who is completely turned off by this? I’m an oral submissive, and more and more I’ve found escorts don't receive oral without a condom on. I don’t mind if they tell me this before hand, then I can just cross them off my list. But on a couple of encounters I have had, they don’t tell me until after I have paid upfront. I feel cheated when this happens. I know it is best never to pay upfront, but when they ask for it, I’m not going to argue with them.

It's one of the perks of being hot. An average person would get laughed out of the room.

[LJNYC83]

I used to hook up with a guy in my non-pro life who insisted on condoms for oral and it really just wasn’t my thing.

[+ JEC]

Non starter

[+ Topseed]

Hard pass.

[LookingAround]

Never had this happen.

[JayCeeKy]

Happened to me recently in ATL - just as we were face-to-nuts he whips out a papa-stopper and wraps his dong. A total turn-off. Like munching on a candy bar with the wrapper still on.

[+ poolboy48220]

Just once. It was a repeat of one of my earliest hires, late 80's I'd say. He'd moved away but was back for a visit; the second time he insisted on the condom.

[Chuckball]

I usually tell a hot escort that it's ok to cum in my mouth. That is my choice. But even though virtually all escorts have sucked my dick, I have never had one go to completion. I've never pressed anyone to do so. That is their choice. Never had anyone demand condoms though.

[marylander1940]

Weird!

[+ Keith30309]

I think that everyone should define their own limits for whatever they are comfortable doing.

“Safer sex” means different things to different people and if someone has made a decision that they aren’t comfortable with uncovered oral then that’s quite alright.

 

The problem I would have is in not disclosing that in advance. Theoretically I could decide that my risk tolerance is very low and I’m only comfortable sitting across the room while someone J/O’s. If someone’s preferences differ significantly from the norm (granted that’s subjective) I would appreciate a heads-up in a profile along the lines of “ask me about my limits” to start a dialogue and make everyone happy. That way there’s no hard feelings about a perceived bait-and-switch.

[+ Pensant]

I would gag just from the latex. Ugh.

[Kenny]

If you keep a spermicidal lubricated condom in your mouth for too long, your tongue will go numb. Say no to N-9.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

This thread should be retitled Escorts Who Never Get Repeat Appointments

[+ freecahill1965]

In the early days(last year) , I had canceled a few appointments because I found out they required a condom for oral. Those escorts fake you out by saying they play safe when if fact the mean no blowing without a condom. They do not say upfront because they know they would not get hired.

[+ sniper]

Given the rise of head and neck cancers and penile cancer attributed to HPV I'm kind of regretting NOT having used one more.

[LookingAround]

Given the rise of head and neck cancers and penile cancer attributed to HPV I'm kind of regretting NOT having used one more.

You believe you can get head or neck cancer because of blow jobs?

[caliguy]

You believe you can get head or neck cancer because of blow jobs?

Oral is a great way to give HPV. The risk of tongue and throat cancer is increased to 80% if you get it. Michael Douglas was treated for it a few years ago.

[+ FrankR]

You believe you can get head or neck cancer because of blow jobs?

Dont want to alarm anybody and I am not a medical professional, however it is pretty well documented that HPV can be passed on via oral sex (oral sex with male and female) and have been linked to cancer in the throat and neck...

[caliguy]

Dont want to alarm anybody and I am not a medical professional, however it is pretty well documented that HPV can be passed on via oral sex (oral sex with male and female) and have been linked to cancer in the throat and neck...

I think it comes down to what kind of slut you are. Not that there's anything wrong with that. Just that if you like to trade sex partners at say a sex club or orgy you can't always take the time to inspect things properly. If someone has HPV on their cock I would assume there's going to be some kind of sign. Anal sex is more problematic though.

[+ JEC]

I think it comes down to what kind of slut you are. Not that there's anything wrong with that. Just that if you like to trade sex partners at say a sex club or orgy you can't always take the time to inspect things properly. If someone has HPV on their cock I would assume there's going to be some kind of sign. Anal sex is more problematic though.

HPV is a virus. it's invisible. Most of the population have some form of HPV (there are hundreds of strains). About a dozen of those strains are associated with cancers including anal for men (and cervical for women). It doesn't matter what kind of slut you are - its really a numbers game, more playmates = more contact. There is a vaccine for HPV - most insurance wont cover unless you are under 17 but worth getting vaccinated (self pay, or find a free clinic willing) if you are going to play in this space.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

There is a vaccine for HPV - most insurance wont cover unless you are under 17 but worth getting vaccinated (self pay, or find a free clinic willing) if you are going to play in this space.

 

Agreed, wholeheartedly. And while my insurance didn't cover it, I did get it before their suggested age cutoff (26).

[caliguy]

HPV is a virus. it's invisible. Most of the population have some form of HPV (there are hundreds of strains). About a dozen of those strains are associated with cancers including anal for men (and cervical for women). It doesn't matter what kind of slut you are - its really a numbers game, more playmates = more contact. There is a vaccine for HPV - most insurance wont cover unless you are under 17 but worth getting vaccinated (self pay, or find a free clinic willing) if you are going to play in this space.

HPV on a mans penis is something you can see though. Bumps, rashes, warts or any raised surface.