Is it tacky to ask an escort if he has friends he recommends?

[jtaq1295]

Curious on everyone's professional opinion. I have a great regular but I'm curious if he has any friends who are also looking to escort.

 

Is it tacky/rude to ask if he has friends he would recommend? Not as a replacement, but as a supplement?

 

Thanks all!

 

JT

[EastbayMike]

Yes.

[+ OliverSaks]

I don’t think it is problematic.

[marylander1940]

I don’t think it is problematic.

 

Compared to the shit you guys have to keep up.... that's by any means tacky at all.

[BabyBoomer]

but I'm curious if he has any friends who are also looking to escort.

 

 

Friends that escort under the radar? Or, friends that advertise?

 

~Boomer~

[jtaq1295]

Probably mostly to capture the guys who don’t advertise or advertise yet.

[GTMike]

Curious on everyone's professional opinion. I have a great regular but I'm curious if he has any friends who are also looking to escort.

 

Is it tacky/rude to ask if he has friends he would recommend? Not as a replacement, but as a supplement?

 

Thanks all!

 

JT

I think that's a really good question and have wondered about it personally as well how to handle in a similar situation. I've concluded that at the end of the day, I think it really depends primarily on everyone's own unique relationship and situation with that escort and unfortunately therefore there is no "general" answer that is "right" ( right in terms of the right or wrong way to handle it to correctly and accurately guess what the escort's reaction will be) and therefore fits all of our individual and specific experience.

[Edward]

If you are doing a threesome I think it is appropriate.

[Smurof]

Um no. The only way to ask with tact is if he ever works in tandem with anyone. Otherwise, it's inquiring about competition, which is stupid rude.

[GTMike]

Probably mostly to capture the guys who don’t advertise or advertise yet.

Again depends on situation. For example, I have a great "regular" but he lives >2,500 miles away and we meet up every 3 months or so and he wouldn't be offended by the question but i know his network of potential escort friends doesn't extend close to me geographically either.

 

Not only that, don't many of us happy and satisfied "regular" clients openly and gladly provide positive public and private reviews encouraging others to meet escorts we know and like? Really just thinking out loud, but again if you're asking to figure out in advance how your friend might respond, my opinion is still it's most likely really gonna depend on your unique situation.

[+ ArVaGuy]

Recently. one of my favorite guys mentioned on Twitter that a client asked him for recommendations in another city the client planned to visit. The escort recommended three guys he should consider. None of the three followed through with the client. The escort noted that such bad behavior is why he’s reluctant to make referrals.

[TruHart1]

This topic brings back a memory of the time I asked a regular and highly trusted escort who had previously been based in a city to which I had a trip planned, for an escort recommendation in his former area. He recommended an escort I spent a few weeks trying to set up a session with, but who ultimately (the day of!!!) cancelled our appointment. That same trusted regular "warned" me about two specific providers I should be careful to avoid, one because he'd travelled for a while with two other escorts and my regular had heard some questionable rumors about him, and the other (with whom my regular guy had done threesomes) had, according to a client, gained weight and become out of shape.

 

I had been thinking about hiring the guy who had become "out of shape" until his warning. After the man he'd recommended flaked on me though, I decided it might be worth it to take a chance that his client was either exaggerating or misinformed, so I hired him. I still see the "out of shape" guy and we continue to have wonderful times with each other on a regular basis, both in the bedroom and out in public social settings. The man with questionable "rumors" came through my city, so even though I had been warned, I decided to take another chance on him, too. I never regretted that decision either, and saw him regularly for years until he chose to retire!

 

So even if you were to ask one of your trusted escorts for recommendations and the question was not considered rude, there is no guarantee you would be happy with the provider he recommends! It probably helped that I was traveling to another city where my regular had previously lived, since there should have been no competitiveness. I do wonder, though, if he'd warned me against the two guys who became two of my favorite regulars because of his personal or petty dislike of those particular escorts when he'd lived in their area!

 

TruHart1

[+ José Soplanucas]

Curious on everyone's professional opinion. I have a great regular but I'm curious if he has any friends who are also looking to escort.Is it tacky/rude to ask if he has friends he would recommend? Not as a replacement, but as a supplement?

Thanks all!JT

 

Recently. one of my favorite guys mentioned on Twitter that a client asked him for recommendations in another city the client planned to visit. The escort recommended three guys he should consider. None of the three followed through with the client. The escort noted that such bad behavior is why he’s reluctant to make referrals.

 

I think it is a perfectly legitimate question.

However, because what ArVaGuy shared, do not be disappointed if your regular does not come up with a recommendation.

[+ GregM]

I've been asked about people that I know of and met have never been offended. I always give my honest opinion. Sometimes a client wants to switch it up or he might be traveling and needs a good suggestion. I dont think it's not that much different than asking for a good coffee shop or place to eat lol.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ poolboy48220]

I dont think it's not that much different than asking for a good coffee shop or place to eat lol.

Unless you run a coffee shop or restaurant yourself. :-)

[MartyB]

I would never ask an escort for a recommendation from an escort for another escort whether it's a regular or have seen a few times. I would ask if I wanted a 3some because then you are expanding it and including him.

[+ GregM]

Unless you run a coffee shop or restaurant yourself.

 

I prefer to work with my fellow hookers than against them....most of the time.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[Chad Constantine]

Yea I tried that and it didn't go well. I assumed since they were roommates and fiends on Instagram it would be simple but apparently not since he got upset with me for bring it up.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I prefer to work with my fellow hookers than against them....most of the time.

 

Hugs,

Greg

 

It looks like some of us have quite shitty relationships with our providers.

[realeasymoney]

I've had some good experiences using this technique. Finder's fee always helps.

[David1024]

Curious on everyone's professional opinion. I have a great regular but I'm curious if he has any friends who are also looking to escort.

 

Is it tacky/rude to ask if he has friends he would recommend? Not as a replacement, but as a supplement?

 

Thanks all!

 

JT

 

How about doing a threesome? Tell your regular guy that you’d like to do that and ask if he has a friend that he would recommend. Of course you’ll need to pay both escorts, but you’d get two guys together and you would meet someone else that you could also see from tune to time. Best part about this strategy is that most escorts when asked will bring someone they know and like and there will already be a chemistry between them. Your regular guy would likely be happy to help if he enjoys threesomes himself.

[jtaq1295]

Thanks all!

 

Update: I asked about a three way with a buddy. Good and bad: the good- he was not offended. The bad- he does not have anyone to recommend.

 

Thanks for all your input!

[+ Pensant]

Not than an unusual a request, really. I see nothing wrong with it and have done it before. Even met with a regular’s bf, together and separately.

[+ VictorPowers]

I receive this question every now and then. I always answer “No, I don’t know anybody”. I used to refer local inquiries to a couple Tops if I found a client was looking for that. I have since stopped doing that since I didn’t know them personally and I couldn’t comment on the caliber of their services.

[Cannon]

I would never ask an escort for a recommendation from an escort for another escort whether it's a regular or have seen a few times. I would ask if I wanted a 3some because then you are expanding it and including him.

 

That is because you have class.