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My 2 cents: massage was good (B or B+). He stressed importance of breathwork, which I knew from other experiences with tantra, but was somewhat taskmaster-ish about my doing so. I kept it up but by the end, the pressure to breath at the level he kept monitoring (by the sound of my exhales?) really cut into the pleasure of the massage itself. 
YMMV: you may not get stressed by his requests/demands, but I did.  I haven't repeated. 

That's an act.  I've met him in person (in a non-sexual situation) and he's a totally normal, well-educated, twenty-something guy.  I suppose if someone wants to hire him as a surfer dude, he'll put on that persona for you. 

That's an act.  I've met him in person (in a non-sexual situation) and he's a totally normal, well-educated, twenty-something guy.  I suppose if someone wants to hire him as a surfer dude, he'll put on that persona for you. 

That's an act.  I've met him in person (in a non-sexual situation) and he's a totally normal, well-educated, twenty-something guy.  I suppose if someone wants to hire him as a surfer dude, he'll put on that persona for you. 

After some confusion with providers over this, I’ve learned to get around it by including some seemingly unnecessay language like: “Would you like to do an outcall at my hotel in Chelsea?” Or: “Can we do an incall at your place? You’re in midtown, right?”

I'm putting together a similar group this month, as a birthday present to myself. Three providers + me.  I've done 3 somes before, always with my most regular provider. He and I started planning the evening earlier this summer by discussing whom else I might want for the birthday. I sort of gave him veto power, as I've run my choices by him.  I have guy no. 2 on board (another semi-regular hire of mine) and soon to close the deal (I hope) with provider #3 (who'll be new to me, and to #1 and #2 as well).
What's different from the OP is that I've hiring for different times: #3 for 1.5 hours, #1 for 4-5, and #2 for overnight.  So sometimes I'll be having a one-on-one, sometimes playing with 2, and sometimes with all 3.  

I'm putting together a similar group this month, as a birthday present to myself. Three providers + me.  I've done 3 somes before, always with my most regular provider. He and I started planning the evening earlier this summer by discussing whom else I might want for the birthday. I sort of gave him veto power, as I've run my choices by him.  I have guy no. 2 on board (another semi-regular hire of mine) and soon to close the deal (I hope) with provider #3 (who'll be new to me, and to #1 and #2 as well).
What's different from the OP is that I've hiring for different times: #3 for 1.5 hours, #1 for 4-5, and #2 for overnight.  So sometimes I'll be having a one-on-one, sometimes playing with 2, and sometimes with all 3.  

My father was a very successful homophobic asshole.  I enjoy spending the money I was left on escorts.  

I'm putting together a similar group this month, as a birthday present to myself. Three providers + me.  I've done 3 somes before, always with my most regular provider. He and I started planning the evening earlier this summer by discussing whom else I might want for the birthday. I sort of gave him veto power, as I've run my choices by him.  I have guy no. 2 on board (another semi-regular hire of mine) and soon to close the deal (I hope) with provider #3 (who'll be new to me, and to #1 and #2 as well).
What's different from the OP is that I've hiring for different times: #3 for 1.5 hours, #1 for 4-5, and #2 for overnight.  So sometimes I'll be having a one-on-one, sometimes playing with 2, and sometimes with all 3.  

For an hour?  That seems like a lot for just a massage, even with massage+

Same, when I book a massage, it's because I want a massage. 
I enjoy lying there naked and often hard and having that touch whether it be a proper deep tissue/sports massage or something with more sensual strokes. 
If some light play happens as well then great. One of my best massage regulars was a guy who also got naked from the start so there was some nice body to body and mutual touch but it rarely got more intense than that. 
I generally avoid the escort end of rentmasseur as I'm not really looking for that level of erotic. In fact I rarely use it at all because, in London, most of the properly trained masseurs who are also open to more aren't on there.

When I hire from rentmasseur I don't expect full on penetrative sex at all. I enjoy massages when I'm able to be naked because I HATE the feeling of the sheet they use to cover you and the lotion on my skin making contact. It feels like you have slimy clothes on. Also so I don't have to worry about whether I get a hard on or not.
On the erotic side I just expect release and if I can suck them a bit that's a sexy bonus.

Unless he's raised his rates recently, a very reasonable $140 for therapeutic, $180 for sensual. 

Unless he's raised his rates recently, a very reasonable $140 for therapeutic, $180 for sensual. 

This is a fairly common occurrence on R.M. They respond ONLY becasue they can see you browsing their profile. They can NOT see your notes or that you've buddylisted them.
Its a practical technique to follow up with someone browsing, as some potential clients can be shy, closeted, or lazy about reaching out. When a provider contacts you, it can feel like they're flirting which gives some men the confidence they need to "seal the deal" and schedule a meet.

I've seen him several times and contributed to that closed threat the OP refers to. I've seen him recently, and I stand by my earlier praise. His massage space is well equipped and very comfortable. 

I've seen him several times and contributed to that closed threat the OP refers to. I've seen him recently, and I stand by my earlier praise. His massage space is well equipped and very comfortable. 

The best rimmers let you sit on their face while you jack off. I’ve had many an orgasm from skilled NYC guys who did that.

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I may be elderly physically but not mentally, emotionally, or sexually.

At 79 my winter so far has been cosy fires and steamy sex.

I wouldn't kick either one out of bed.

For those wondering, he is still in Hudson yards.
I love every minute of my time with him, what a star! 
The muscle mass is so sexy, and he really knows what he is doing. Super clean, very gentle, very accommodating. 

I've said before, I'll say it again;  there should be a topic titled "masseur = male / masseuse = female" that is PINNED at the top of the Spa forum.
 
 

I like to book massages, mostly via Rentmasseur, mainly because I really enjoy a good massage - therapeutic or otherwise.  If it is my first or even the second time meeting a new masseur, I go in without expectations and let the masseur take the initiative.  If he does take an initiative, I encourage it put don't push anything.  By letting the guy work his magic, it often goes well above and beyond what my expectations are.
My 3 regulars in NYC have known me for a few years in some cases.  We have a good understanding of how far the session will go <grin> 
In all cases, I tip well.