Jump to content

kingsley88

Members
  • Posts

    408
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Reputation Activity

  1. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from + ButchAtl in Gay hookups, better now or then?   
    I think the only thing I miss is the art of flirtation. It's better done in person versus through an app. This is why I always go to a gay friend's bday/holiday party (though I did notice in recent years that after a few hours a lot of the young guys would start discreetly checking their smartphones..)
    I started going to gay bathhouses in the early 2000s and from what I recall, if you have a nice body or a cute face, you can easily find a hookup. For others, that may not be the case.
  2. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from + Charlie in Gay hookups, better now or then?   
    I think the only thing I miss is the art of flirtation. It's better done in person versus through an app. This is why I always go to a gay friend's bday/holiday party (though I did notice in recent years that after a few hours a lot of the young guys would start discreetly checking their smartphones..)
    I started going to gay bathhouses in the early 2000s and from what I recall, if you have a nice body or a cute face, you can easily find a hookup. For others, that may not be the case.
  3. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from Danny-Darko in What are you old enough to remember?   
    Flying on a 747 plane where there is one large screen in the middle and everyone had to watch the same movie(s) throughout the flight. There were no small TVs back then in front of each seat. For other forms of entertainment, you can ask the flight attendant for a deck of cards.
     
    Having 1 landline phone number for a family of 6. We didn't have callerID back then so whenever the phone rang we always answered it! In addition, long distance domestic and international calls were $$$ (I grew up in NJ and recall some phone numbers that had the same area code were considered long distance too.)
     
    Classified ads (Personals) where you have to call a phone number and leave them a voicemail message.
  4. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from liubit in What are you old enough to remember?   
    Flying on a 747 plane where there is one large screen in the middle and everyone had to watch the same movie(s) throughout the flight. There were no small TVs back then in front of each seat. For other forms of entertainment, you can ask the flight attendant for a deck of cards.
     
    Having 1 landline phone number for a family of 6. We didn't have callerID back then so whenever the phone rang we always answered it! In addition, long distance domestic and international calls were $$$ (I grew up in NJ and recall some phone numbers that had the same area code were considered long distance too.)
     
    Classified ads (Personals) where you have to call a phone number and leave them a voicemail message.
  5. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from + sync in What are you old enough to remember?   
    Flying on a 747 plane where there is one large screen in the middle and everyone had to watch the same movie(s) throughout the flight. There were no small TVs back then in front of each seat. For other forms of entertainment, you can ask the flight attendant for a deck of cards.
     
    Having 1 landline phone number for a family of 6. We didn't have callerID back then so whenever the phone rang we always answered it! In addition, long distance domestic and international calls were $$$ (I grew up in NJ and recall some phone numbers that had the same area code were considered long distance too.)
     
    Classified ads (Personals) where you have to call a phone number and leave them a voicemail message.
  6. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from Wanderoz in So Torn! Advice Requested   
    But I thought you're paying for his time? Honestly though do you think it's because he had another client before you that day? Also, do you think he needs to use Viagra?
  7. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from SHUBEAR in So Torn! Advice Requested   
    But I thought you're paying for his time? Honestly though do you think it's because he had another client before you that day? Also, do you think he needs to use Viagra?
  8. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from orville in So Torn! Advice Requested   
    But I thought you're paying for his time? Honestly though do you think it's because he had another client before you that day? Also, do you think he needs to use Viagra?
  9. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from marylander1940 in So Torn! Advice Requested   
    But I thought you're paying for his time? Honestly though do you think it's because he had another client before you that day? Also, do you think he needs to use Viagra?
  10. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from Monarchy79 in Sexiest male news anchor?   
    Dallas Steele used to be a TV news reporter.
  11. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from + WilliamM in Chinese New Year Starts on Friday   
    happy lunar new year!!!
  12. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from + Lucky in Chinese New Year Starts on Friday   
    happy lunar new year!!!
  13. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from + Hoover42 in Grocery Shopping   
    That's smart! I live in NYC so I can just walk to the Little Pie Company in hells kitchen! YEs I agree it's best to support small businesses especially during this pandemic. Thinking more about it I should get a pie this weekend.
  14. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from handiacefailure in Grocery Shopping   
    That's smart! I live in NYC so I can just walk to the Little Pie Company in hells kitchen! YEs I agree it's best to support small businesses especially during this pandemic. Thinking more about it I should get a pie this weekend.
  15. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from + Hoover42 in Grocery Shopping   
    I love that pie company! Will admit I normally get the apple walnut sour cream pie for Thanksgiving each year.
  16. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from Mjonis in Sexiest male news anchor?   
    Dallas Steele used to be a TV news reporter.
  17. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from TruthBTold in Sexiest male news anchor?   
    Dallas Steele used to be a TV news reporter.
  18. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from + carlos45 in Sexiest male news anchor?   
    Dallas Steele used to be a TV news reporter.
  19. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from + Charlie in What was the first thing that ever made you feel “old”?   
    I'm a member of a running club and ever since I saw some members were born in year 2000 that's when I first felt old.
  20. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from + WilliamM in Bridgerton   
    Agreed! I thought Sir Henry would get him drunk or something and then make his move. I enjoyed the series but wished there was more gay scenes.
  21. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from liubit in What was the first thing that ever made you feel “old”?   
    I'm a member of a running club and ever since I saw some members were born in year 2000 that's when I first felt old.
  22. Like
    kingsley88 reacted to KrisParr in How to Realize a Fulfilled Life?   
    My grandmother gave me some wonderful advice when I graduated from college. She encouraged me to practice gratitude as if it were akin to breathing. And each day, it must become a way of life. So for some 30 years, I’ve written hundreds of cards, made dozens of phone calls every week or so to simply say “thank you” to the people in my life who’ve made me a better person. I could write a book (maybe some day) on how it’s changed me - almost as good as compound interest in a savings account. Next week‘s sermon is entitled ...
  23. Like
    kingsley88 reacted to rvwnsd in Should I open gay bar or club when Covid is over   
    Roscoe's, the venerable gay bar in Chicago, had a very popular coffee shop adjacent to the bar back in the 90's. It was awesome! They closed it to expand the bar. I fondly remember it. San Diego and Phoenix both have very active coffeehouse scenes despite the proliferation of Starbucks. They can co-exist because they serve different purposes. You don't hang out at Starbucks because it isn't comfortable to do so (despite their best efforts).
  24. Like
    kingsley88 got a reaction from CheckCar in Bridgerton   
    I wish the middle Bridgerton was gay!
  25. Like
    kingsley88 reacted to Jay DC in What have you learned from an escort?   
    I’ve learned so much. These gentlemen helped me vision what the next phase of my life was going to look like. After leaving a long time marriage that was totally monogamous I knew the future was going to be unlike my past. I’ve been so impressed how my providers take pride in their work and want to do a good job. It made sex fun, exciting and liberating—no shame, no apologies. They reminded me the value of clear, concise communication and to be comfortable in my own skin. In addition to their obvious physical attributes, it’s their generosity of spirit that proved revelatory. They made me feel like I am good at the physical part (and I know better) but more importantly they made me feel I was good at the human being part. Its now been dozens and dozens of hires over the years and while they weren’t all home runs, I don’t regret any (maybe one). I used to marvel what it would be like to have a job where everyone is glad to see you because I’m always glad to see them. They have earned my respect and gratitude.
×
×
  • Create New...