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I think this is more the norm. Meet the provider first in person and see if there's chemistry etc. Once you know that provider is amazing, then arrange something else like a trip, etc. I don't know of any friends who have blindly flown a provider without meeting him in person first but am sure there are others who have done this.

Was it similar to the massage vids of his found online?

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Just catching up. There will definitely be jail time but I guess we'll know on Sept 9th on how many years. Some folks on here thought he was taking steroids so if he did, I'd imagine he probably looks thinner/smalller nowadays.

Loved your report! I go to Brazil every year and I prefer Rio over SP. My experience in SP was similar to your Rio experience. The garotos I met in SP were all upcharging me and they spoke really good English. I speak a little Portuguese and I love the food there. Very fresh and natural. I hope you go back and explore more of Brazil.

Thx. The full video was in his OF but sadly no longer there. On pornhub I found a trailer clip of the scene. Pornhub WWW.PORNHUB.COM

Thank you for saving me $8. I'll admit though that I don't mind subscribing to someone's OF for a month if it's less than $10/month. I see it as the same cost of buying him a drink at a bar if I go up and flirt with him. lol.

Looks like his OF is deactivated too. He looked like he was in his late 20s or early 30s. Young guy.

I used to subscribe to his OF and I recall he gave up his hole to his dream guy. May he rest in peace. I enjoyed watching his videos yet somehow I don't htink he was ever on rentmassue or MF.

I live in NYC area and can somehow relate in the sense that dating here is hard. I haven't had the best luck in the dating apps but I still try to put myself out there. However, I do have friends in healthy relationships so I know it is possible and out of the pool of thousands of men, I just need one to click with. At the same time, I've accepted being single is also ok.

For some reason I thought vaccines were for viruses? Isn't gonorrhea a bacteria?

I just heard of his passing and saw it happened while hiking Goat Trails near Palm Springs. He was so hot.

You're probably new. The Palm Springs weekend getaway is a way for folks here to meet in person in a safe setting. I went back in 2021 and enjoyed the experience. People also go to the award weekends (i.e. grabby or gayvn awards) as audience members and would go to afterparties, etc.

Just a moment... WWW.GAYFORIT.EU does anyone know who the actors are?

I recently just watched CONCLAVE and that was some great acting! I liked how its themes also dealt with idea of certainty/doubt amongst the faithfuls, even at the high level of Cardinal. Parts of the story reminded me of the movie Doubt starring Meryl Streep.

I don't remember any private dance area. If there was one I must have missed it. There was a lounge that served as a casual meet/greet area for audience members and dancers (after their shift). That's where negotiations happen before going to a nearby hotel. When I went in early 2000s, the going rate was $200 cash.

Sorry your friend got fired but at the same time, I recall folks normally negotiated all that stuff in the Gaiety lounge before leaving the theater.

That's smart. Sometimes a dancer will tell you it's $20 per song but then have an iPhone timer on and charge you $20 for every 3 minutes (even though in reality a song can last 4-5 minutes) so just be aware of this.

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I remember it was right next to BEAUTY & THE BEAST musical (Lunt-Fontanne theater) and you had to go up the stairs. I went back in 2004 for the first time and sat at the back since I was too nervous to sit front row. It was amazing. That meet/greet area was also very new to me at the time and of course everything was done in cash. I recall there was a bank of america ATM across the street. I was never in the mailing list so I missed out on seeing the biggest gay pornstars strip at the Gaiety but the ones I saw were all very handsome muscle guys with big packages.

I thought the bottom offered to have the top takeoff the condom because he wanted the top to breed him?

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Doing the transatlantic on QM2 is a bucketlist item for me too. I still remember back in 2007 when RSVP cruises had a gay QM2 transatlantic crossing over Memorial Day week. I didn't have $$$ back then so I was unable to go. Oddly enough RSVP/Atlantis never hosted another QM2 transatlantic crossing so perhaps something occurred and it didn't go well. At the moment, I'm thinking of August/September next year. I also wonder if the internet is strong enough that I can perhaps work remote for 1-2 days.

I concur that telling coworkers you're going to Puerto Vallarta won't out you. I live in NYC area and going to BCN takes roughly the same time as going to PVR. Between the two, I like both in different ways. It's easier to work remote in PVR given the time difference with USA. However, for a more relaxed stay, I say go to Sitges. My local friends in Spain tells me that Sitges is becoming more expensive nowadays and if you want a cheaper and more local feel, go to Torremolinos near Malaga, Spain.

Through the years I know of masseurs who changed careers and stoped advertising as masseurs but continued providing massages to existing clients.