tenderloin

https://rentmen.eu/TIVERIOYDAVID
I warned about these two in a previous post. They blocked me before I could post a negative RM review, but since they already had one bad review on the site, they have rebranded to get rid of that review and start clean.  They are conmen and crooks. PM me for further detail. You've been warned. 

They did not physically harm me, but: in addition to not doing during the session what was explicitly agreed beforehand, and demanding a rate increase mid-session, and ending the session after only 20 minutes (after I agreed to the increase), one of them tried to distract me while the other started exploring the apartment looking on shelves and in drawers. I then ushered them both out of my apartment. They were not even out of my building before they blocked me on RM as they knew I would post a bad review. 

Same negative experience with those two. But I was able to make a review in a rentmen. 

One small bit of karma - one of them left his watch in the bathroom.  I'll sell it back to the bastard lol

I hire you to perform a service. I pay you your rate. You do not deliver as agreed.  I should just smile and wish you a good night? 

Well, the way I see it, HE should bear it in mind.  As I said in my original post, I make it clear that cum is important for me. If he doesn't want to, or wants to try to schtuupp 20 other guys that night, he shouldn't take me on as a client because he is not willing to meet my stated expectations.  My problem is with the guys who agree, and then try to fake it. 

Well, the way I see it, HE should bear it in mind.  As I said in my original post, I make it clear that cum is important for me. If he doesn't want to, or wants to try to schtuupp 20 other guys that night, he shouldn't take me on as a client because he is not willing to meet my stated expectations.  My problem is with the guys who agree, and then try to fake it. 

Bravo @tenderloin for communicating your desires upfront. There's nothing wrong with asking for what you want. I wish more clients would do the same. If the provider can't deliver, he shouldn't agree to meet you. Faking it is no substitute. Pressuring the provider is not going to get you what you want either. I concur with:
I factor in cum. That's why I take fewer escort clients. I can only shoot a load so many times in a given day and I want it to be special for the clients who are specifically hiring me for the service. For some, it's important that I cum for them one (or more) times (usually once), and I make sure I can deliver according to their desires by spacing out clients and limiting how many I take. I can't guarantee cum by any means, but nearly all such requests I am able to fulfill.
I confess once in a great while I fake it, but not because I am trying to save up for another client. Although I don't force cum if it's unimportant to the client. Sometimes what they want doesn't require me to cum at all and they are perfectly happy without it. In that case, I'm not going to blow a load unless I personally want to. Even then, I would probably hold off to save myself the maximum mojo I can muster for a known or potential client later.
One particular client comes to mind. He wants me to cum "on command" when I am inside him. I can't do that every time, although I try. I spend a good deal of energy NOT reaching orgasm so that I can pleasure him for as long as he wants. Then suddenly he wants to snap his fingers and make me explode. I can sometimes, or at least in short order. Other times, I have to fake it because it would take me too long to get back up to that point of no return. It's more important and more hot for him to perceive that I came at his command. He's bi-curious and has very little experience with men, pretty much only me as far as I know. I like to think he doesn't know better. He's never called me out on the O, and I like to think I am quite convincing when it counts. I don't make a habit of faking it. Sometimes, you have to for the sake of the client. Most clients know better, so I won't even go there.
Side note, one of my clients likes to pay more "per additional load". It's part of his pay pig kink but also just because cum is hot and exciting to him. This dynamic was particularly fun (and motivating!) when he hired me to bring in two other working guys where we all three coat him with load after load toward the end of the session. We delivered more than one each. I think for me it was three. For him, part of the thrill was the cha-ching sounds in his own head when we kept earning more and more fee. That was a good payout. And man, did that client have the time of his life! Sometimes paying more for more cum can be a good incentive. I realize the pay pig thing is a niche interest and not for everyone. Still a fun thing to try, even on a smaller scale.

I don't think you really get the whole "market/supply-demand" thing.  It's not the vagaries of your personal preferences that matter to me. It's what matters to the provider: if he thinks there are enough people willing to pay $350 to get him in the sack, that will influence his pricing strategy.  For most providers, their only vagary is $$.  So those "useless" data points actually matter.  

I've literally encountered this everywhere across the globe. It happened and it's frustrating, because one feels cheated that they didn't live up to their end of the bargain! However, one can't oblige somebody to cum if they can't or just don't for whatever reason, especially if they fake it. I've handled this the same way I handle the last minute up sales; I don't repeat ever again! And if they ask as several have when I've cum across them again, I tell them why! And dismiss them and there is no second chances for me. Hopefully they learn a lesson and learn it's good business practices to give the customer what he asked and paid for and make him happy. After all, what else can one do? Have a fight? Beat the cum out of him? Call the police? Report him to the Better Business Bureau? That is why reviews are so important to spread the news, so they don't get the business. Hit them where it hurt, in their pocket!  😉

I hire you to perform a service. I pay you your rate. You do not deliver as agreed.  I should just smile and wish you a good night? 

I hire you to perform a service. I pay you your rate. You do not deliver as agreed.  I should just smile and wish you a good night? 

When I hire, I make clear that I enjoy cum and am looking for him to pop at some point during our meeting. I even say that if he isn't willing to cum in our session, I would rather not hire.  Lately I have noticed a few times when, through a variety of means (Some use a lot of saliva and/or lube to create a "wet" environment, etc... use your imagination) they put on a great act but don't actually nut. 

My question is how to respond. I understand that they are not robots, but I also know that some just want to hold off as long as possible for second or third clients. And this is something I have made clear is important to me. 
How would you react? 

Sometimes you feel like a nut...

I have mentioned this elsewhere on this site, but will repeat -- if there is anything you can do short of surgery to treat your 'roids, do it.  I had surgery last year and it was the most god-awful painful and gross thing I have ever been through. Even with opioids, the experience was an agony that is impossible to exaggerate.  
Now I've done my community duty.....

Cash transfer services have made it much easier to send someone cash - and has increase scams. A lot of this was learned "the hard way" but I have come up with various policies toward escort deposits that may prevent someone out there from losing money.
1) There is no reason for a deposit for same-day or even next day appointments - especially for an escort who is local.
2) New escorts with no reviews (or no recent reviews or photos) should not receive deposits unless there is a face-to-face video call beforehand.
3) No deposit should be sent unless the escort sends his full legal name.
4) Pre-appointment deposits should not exceed 20% or $500 - whatever is less. When the deposit is sent, it should include a note that no additional deposit is available.
5)  If you are furnishing transportation, that is considered part of the deposit.
6) "Emergency" requests for pre-appointment money should be denied. Doesn't the escort have other resources that a client they have never met or only met once.
7) Negotiations for deposits should be done on the Escort site (Rentmen or whatever) if at all possible. If the client suspects a scam, the escort should be reported to the site - as well as to the cash transfer service. 

Any additional thoughts on this?
 

1 rule:  Just don't do it.

One small bit of karma - one of them left his watch in the bathroom.  I'll sell it back to the bastard lol

One small bit of karma - one of them left his watch in the bathroom.  I'll sell it back to the bastard lol

One small bit of karma - one of them left his watch in the bathroom.  I'll sell it back to the bastard lol

As usual I let my little head do the thinking, and I regretted it with these two.   I was very clear as to what I was looking for in my RM exchange. All there in writing.
https://rent.men/JuanYJoseLatinos
On the positive side, I will say that they do indeed look like their pictures - they are gorgeous, with flawless bodies and while not as hung as they claim, nice equipment.
On the downside:
1. There was absolutely no foreplay. They were stripping down before we even got to the bedroom. They went right to the overture while I was warming up. 
2. There was little chemistry between them. I had to coach them with each move. 
3. As soon as things did start to warm up just a little, one of them refused to go further unless I increased the rate. I reluctantly agreed to a small increase given that I was just hoping to salvage something from my investment ("in for a penny..."). 
4. They each came in about 10 minutes. Or at least one of them did, the other I think just did some Joan Crawford-style overacting.  
5. They were out the door less than 30 minutes after they showed up, and that timing included showers for both. 
6. They were not even out of the building before they blocked me on RM so I cannot leave a bad review. 
Feel free to message me with questions.  Stay away from these two. Bitter lesson learned. 
 
 
 

One small bit of karma - one of them left his watch in the bathroom.  I'll sell it back to the bastard lol

One small bit of karma - one of them left his watch in the bathroom.  I'll sell it back to the bastard lol

As usual I let my little head do the thinking, and I regretted it with these two.   I was very clear as to what I was looking for in my RM exchange. All there in writing.
https://rent.men/JuanYJoseLatinos
On the positive side, I will say that they do indeed look like their pictures - they are gorgeous, with flawless bodies and while not as hung as they claim, nice equipment.
On the downside:
1. There was absolutely no foreplay. They were stripping down before we even got to the bedroom. They went right to the overture while I was warming up. 
2. There was little chemistry between them. I had to coach them with each move. 
3. As soon as things did start to warm up just a little, one of them refused to go further unless I increased the rate. I reluctantly agreed to a small increase given that I was just hoping to salvage something from my investment ("in for a penny..."). 
4. They each came in about 10 minutes. Or at least one of them did, the other I think just did some Joan Crawford-style overacting.  
5. They were out the door less than 30 minutes after they showed up, and that timing included showers for both. 
6. They were not even out of the building before they blocked me on RM so I cannot leave a bad review. 
Feel free to message me with questions.  Stay away from these two. Bitter lesson learned. 
 
 
 

One small bit of karma - one of them left his watch in the bathroom.  I'll sell it back to the bastard lol