Storm4U

I'm a masseur...and while I do offer longer sessions, I also completely understand those who don't. I can't speak for the masseur that you were trying to hire, but it may be that he simply doesn't have the energy or stamina to do sessions that are longer than an hour at a time. Good massages are extremely physical, and not everyone has the energy for extended sessions.

While you hire and are free to do this, most STDs take longer than 3 days to show antibodies - usually 7-10 days. That’s why they say if you feel like you’ve caught something, to not get tested immediately and wait a few days after. So if you want to do this, 3 days may not be a big enough window.
 
and while it may calm your nerves, the only way this is really foolproof is if you require the boys you hire to abstain from sex from the time they get tested until the trip. That may be the harder part.

You hire. You dictate the rules.
As long as they are clear and given well in advance before hiring I don’t see a problem. They can also decline or accept your proposal.

I'm a masseur...and while I do offer longer sessions, I also completely understand those who don't. I can't speak for the masseur that you were trying to hire, but it may be that he simply doesn't have the energy or stamina to do sessions that are longer than an hour at a time. Good massages are extremely physical, and not everyone has the energy for extended sessions.

I'm a masseur...and while I do offer longer sessions, I also completely understand those who don't. I can't speak for the masseur that you were trying to hire, but it may be that he simply doesn't have the energy or stamina to do sessions that are longer than an hour at a time. Good massages are extremely physical, and not everyone has the energy for extended sessions.

I agree with you 100%.... I myself offer 30mins to 2hrs sessions...

Being held and cuddled is truly an amazing thing.

Well all of your Forum buddies are safe - we're virtual. Allow yourself some diversion. I've recently posted about my very limited massages since the lockdown. I believe it can be done safely but everyone has a different comfort level from complete abstinence to going to spas. I haven't seen anyone share an experience on the Forum of getting COVID from a massage. Let's hope the trend continues. The masseur has to earn a living but doesn't want to get sick either. I seek a massage for relaxation and human touch. If I have to be uncomfortable mounting the table and then start a 14-day countdown to COVID, I may as well stay home and not get one.

You don't have the professional background to be providing in depth pre-purchase advice. Unless u have a real estate license

If I bottom i prefer missionary, If I top, then missionary or doggy

I prefer a text message

I prefer longer emails, but I'm older. I think most prefer very very very very short messages/texts these days.

My point was that by going prep-no condom you're knowingly exposing yourself to other STIs besides HIV. It's pretty jarring to say that you're fine with STIs as long as there's a cure.

This is why I'll never understand the prep bareback crowd.

You are not wrong. It wouldn’t even occur to me to ask for a photo.

My prostate and penis will be first in line for a massage after injected.

You are not wrong. It wouldn’t even occur to me to ask for a photo.

I think you should ask if they mind first. Depending on when you do it. If you’re talking about when you’re being intimate then it’s probably fine but if not, then you may want to ask because some may love it and some may not.

I think you should ask if they mind first. Depending on when you do it. If you’re talking about when you’re being intimate then it’s probably fine but if not, then you may want to ask because some may love it and some may not.

From what I see, fucking is the be all end all. Personally, I don't get it. With that said are there any muscled escorts out there that like to just kickback for some serious head? You just lie there and let me and my mouth do all the work. Anyone?

On the flip side, would you have rather he'd gone through with it begrudgingly? It's a shame he couldn't accommodate, but I'd rather someone tell me that upfront than put the both of us through an unpleasant experience.
 
Kevin Slater

I have mild cerebral palsy, affecting the way I walk. I hired escorts for a long time and was never made to feel uncomfortable. Please know I appreciate the compassion and understanding bestowed upon me by escorts and masseurs.

It all depends what you work out with your guy. Typically, an overnight will start early evening and go until morning. The exact times, what you do, what you want, his expectations for sleep, etc., should be clearly communicated with the provider before you schedule.
 
I do overnights with a regular because I hate feeling rushed. Mine usually start around 6PM, we have a glass of wine, make out, have some fun in the bedroom, shower, eat, more making out and fun, sleep, wake to some more fun, shower, breakfast, and he leaves.
 
Again, each provider is different and has his own idea of how many hours defines an overnight. If you want an entire night of “fun” you need to communicate that as well upfront.

Sometimes providers hold off on telling you their ON rate til they hear what you’re looking for. It’s good to communicate.

I also love Noahs Arc: Jumping The Broom!!!