kingart828

I thought the old app was fine,   the new one isn't as user friendly in many ways.

I just did this today: a recall a hot client I met with over Labor Day. I reached out but he said he was low on funds. I offered a promotion if he books in the next couple weeks (and not because he’s hot, but because he’s nearby and biz has been slow all week)…but with the holidays looming, idk if it’ll happen.

As a client, I find it endearing when an escort occasionally sends a text to find out how I’m doing. I would rather see repeat escorts who at least have an interest in seeing me. There is definitely a fine line though between interest and being a pest….

As a provider I get where he’s coming from. If he’s a regular at this point, I think communication is always key to getting things across. Try letting him know you enjoy seeing him and you’ll contact him when you’re ready to meet. It’s no harm, cause you’re not rejecting him you’re simply letting him know you’ll be in touch. 

I have one who generally will text with “I miss you, Babe”, every few months. He’s a hottie and we’ve spent 4 overnights together but he’s not kinky enough for me, although I do enjoy chatting with him and his rate is quite fair. I’m not sure I want to see him again, but feel compelled to answer his texts. When he was in NYC, he was very busy, but now I think it’s more hit and miss. Generally, I prefer to be the one reaching out.a

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Kevin Slater

Here is my standard reply: "Thank you for your message - work keeps me busy so I hardly ever respond to texts. I do enjoy hanging out with you so be assured I will reach out when next I can meet. 🙂 "  Then I just ignore all text until I am good and ready to meet. 

I think this is fairly common especially with maybe escorts that are still kinda getting their careers together or maybe are just in a bit of a slump. We have to remember, we are their income and if they're not making what they need, of course they are going to reach out to us if we've been a regular source of income before.
I think it does warrant a bit of tact especially if you are wanting to meet with him again. I've often said that I am saving up to hire again in the future and I'll reach out when I'm able to meet. Or that I've just gotten back from a big trip and don't have anything currently left to hire. Gives the impression that you're still interested but also that there really isn't any reason to be pushy since you honestly cannot afford to hire. 
Obviously  if he is being aggressively pushy it can come to the point where you don't want to hire him again and then I would just say so. But if it's just in the slightly annoying range, being tactful is the best bet in my opinion. 

Just gently telling him to stop texting you and you’ll reach out when you’re ready lmao. 
 
But seriously you’re running into a problem a lot of us have had at least once. I had one guy that hit me up all the time and it got annoying. Honestly I think I was the one being used for sex but I was the one paying. I had to just tell him I wasn’t interested anymore. Try just telling him you’d rather be the one reaching out. Some providers I’ve seen may send me a text every now and then just to say hello or tell me their travel plans just so they’re on my radar which is ok with me.  Remember this is a business for them and It’s another way they advertise and keep you interested. However you have to do what’s comfortable for you. If you prefer to do the contacting let him know.

I use a Google Voice number for this reason.  The risk is that I may miss a text, but I can live with that.

I once had sex with a priest but I met him in a gay bar and he was in regular clothes. He only told me after the dirty deed had been done. I felt weird about it.

Took the plunge. I think he used to go by Jake. Had tried in the past to meet but schedules never worked out. Finally met. Would not recommend not repeat. DM me for details.

God bless this man!!

God bless this man!!

A sometimes-escort, sometimes-just-fuck-buddy told me he often would do "pro bono" work at the bathhouse, find some guy who wasn't getting any action, and give him some.

I spent $700 for about 5 hours of "companionship." No plans on doing that again.

Yes, he does and it IS charming. Especially the choice of words "mate" for pal, "grand" (as in "jack, would you like some water" - "yes that would be grand!"). He has a bit of a musky taste which is NOT to my liking but I know is to most men. He's a great top, great kisser, great oralist and cuddler and very friendly. My only complaint is well, he needs to definitely clip his toenails more often. I will admit that is one thing that REALLY grosses me out. But I know that I am weird in some of my hygiene hangups.

Give him a bad review since he could not perform . Good Reviews are giving by merit and since he could not maintain he should've give you a discount