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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from Mydavid in Clients/Providers: Have either side ever "fallen" for someone?   
    I think this kind of thing is inevitable, afterall a good escort will want their client to feel amazing. Plus sex is a gateway to deeper connection.
     
    But this is also where I think being business-headed is important - afterall its a transaction for a service. Sometimes the escort may be giving it their “all” and isn’t like that normally. Or an escort could be blinded by money, since its heavily linked with feelings of caretaking. So basically in my opinion, boundaries are important!
     
    I actually love escorting because I can put in 100% intimacy and I know the session has an end. Whereas I have to be careful with hookups because people can get attached quickly when neither party means to.
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from + Lucky in Your enjoyment?   
    SO important! Sex and intimacy is a dance. Obviously I prioritize my clients’ pleasure but truth is obvious and I know my clients will have a much better time if I’m also happy and enjoying myself.
     
    Like others have said, communication is so important, in sex in general!
     
    I think part of the service I provide isn’t just the sex or intimacy but a capacity to be attracted to and have fun with a wide range of men.
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from xyz48B in Your enjoyment?   
    SO important! Sex and intimacy is a dance. Obviously I prioritize my clients’ pleasure but truth is obvious and I know my clients will have a much better time if I’m also happy and enjoying myself.
     
    Like others have said, communication is so important, in sex in general!
     
    I think part of the service I provide isn’t just the sex or intimacy but a capacity to be attracted to and have fun with a wide range of men.
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from + RJD in Your enjoyment?   
    SO important! Sex and intimacy is a dance. Obviously I prioritize my clients’ pleasure but truth is obvious and I know my clients will have a much better time if I’m also happy and enjoying myself.
     
    Like others have said, communication is so important, in sex in general!
     
    I think part of the service I provide isn’t just the sex or intimacy but a capacity to be attracted to and have fun with a wide range of men.
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from + RJD in Clients/Providers: Have either side ever "fallen" for someone?   
    I think this kind of thing is inevitable, afterall a good escort will want their client to feel amazing. Plus sex is a gateway to deeper connection.
     
    But this is also where I think being business-headed is important - afterall its a transaction for a service. Sometimes the escort may be giving it their “all” and isn’t like that normally. Or an escort could be blinded by money, since its heavily linked with feelings of caretaking. So basically in my opinion, boundaries are important!
     
    I actually love escorting because I can put in 100% intimacy and I know the session has an end. Whereas I have to be careful with hookups because people can get attached quickly when neither party means to.
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from MikeBiDude in Clients/Providers: Have either side ever "fallen" for someone?   
    I think this kind of thing is inevitable, afterall a good escort will want their client to feel amazing. Plus sex is a gateway to deeper connection.
     
    But this is also where I think being business-headed is important - afterall its a transaction for a service. Sometimes the escort may be giving it their “all” and isn’t like that normally. Or an escort could be blinded by money, since its heavily linked with feelings of caretaking. So basically in my opinion, boundaries are important!
     
    I actually love escorting because I can put in 100% intimacy and I know the session has an end. Whereas I have to be careful with hookups because people can get attached quickly when neither party means to.
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from marylander1940 in Viagra or Cialis ?   
    I take Cialis daily, 2.5mg just to help with spontaneity (some tops like to see their bottom hard!)
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from marylander1940 in Places you've never seen pornsex filmed   
    A picturesque nature scene with a view... maybe on top of a mountain somewhere
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from thomas in Today I feel like having Asian...   
    @marylander1940 Oh if you insist ?
     
    Here's me guys! (And then check out my link in my signature, I compel you! ?)
     


    https://i.postimg.cc/tJN9wdZV/IMG-0035.jpg

     
    Xoxo
    Aaron ?
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Today I feel like having Asian...   
    @marylander1940 Oh if you insist ?
     
    Here's me guys! (And then check out my link in my signature, I compel you! ?)
     


    https://i.postimg.cc/tJN9wdZV/IMG-0035.jpg

     
    Xoxo
    Aaron ?
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from thedanNYC in Would you go out with a trans man?   
    I mean that any relationship is work, trans or not. Being trans certainly comes with its unique set of baggage and insecurities, that you have to remember are not yours to fix.
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from nate_sf in 2021 Palm Springs Weekend   
    I'll be there! Seeing as I live in the neighborhood. ? I was hoping to be there this year as a way to kick off my career, but of course circumstances didn't allow. Very excited for next years gathering!
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from + robear in Would you go out with a trans man?   
    I mean that any relationship is work, trans or not. Being trans certainly comes with its unique set of baggage and insecurities, that you have to remember are not yours to fix.
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    asianmusclebttm reacted to Smurof in Client best practices   
    A biggie that gets overlooked - DON"T BE EARLY!! I've had one who I really enjoyed prevent me from a repeat visit for being early, which set a terrible tone for the session. Also, by being early with a different provider I was able to see his prior hire - not something either one of us wanted to experience. It's happened to me the other way as well with someone else being early that it spoiled the end of my session.
     
    For my defense, I live in a rural area where it takes me hours to get to my hires, and I don't want to be late. I know now to drive around the block a time or two or find an errand to run to avoid this from happening.
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from + RJD in Would you go out with a trans man?   
    I mean that any relationship is work, trans or not. Being trans certainly comes with its unique set of baggage and insecurities, that you have to remember are not yours to fix.
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from + RJD in Working Stiff - My Semi Retirement   
    Probably in spirit ? confident bottoms!
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from rn901 in Client best practices   
    Communication!!! Probably the most key factor. Good communication in setting up the appointment and discussing expectations / likes / things to avoid - makes for a much easier and comfortable session. Eliminates guess work! Then the escort AND the client are more at ease and happier.
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from + Charlie in Would you go out with a trans man?   
    I mean that any relationship is work, trans or not. Being trans certainly comes with its unique set of baggage and insecurities, that you have to remember are not yours to fix.
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from + WilliamM in Would you go out with a trans man?   
    I mean that any relationship is work, trans or not. Being trans certainly comes with its unique set of baggage and insecurities, that you have to remember are not yours to fix.
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from + honcho in Viagra or Cialis ?   
    I take Cialis daily, 2.5mg just to help with spontaneity (some tops like to see their bottom hard!)
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    asianmusclebttm reacted to xyz48B in What's with the runway models in D.C.   
    Another reason why I bristle at the notion that communicating with a provider before meeting up is a waste of time. It doesn’t take long communicating with a possible provider to get a sense if he’s a fake or not. But some level of communication is needed for that.
     
    I also am very skeptical of providers who have photo sets that are too perfect. I get having some professional photos, but unless you’re a professional porn star, it seems unlikely that your naked pictures are going to be photo shoot exquisite.
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from harlow in Client best practices   
    Communication!!! Probably the most key factor. Good communication in setting up the appointment and discussing expectations / likes / things to avoid - makes for a much easier and comfortable session. Eliminates guess work! Then the escort AND the client are more at ease and happier.
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from marylander1940 in Working Stiff - My Semi Retirement   
    Probably in spirit ? confident bottoms!
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    asianmusclebttm reacted to + StLouisOct in Client best practices   
    T

    Treat him like a good friend who has your respect.
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    asianmusclebttm got a reaction from + WilliamM in Would you go out with a trans man?   
    I think like everyone else has said, personality is a big factor. Theres got to be an energetic connection there.
     
    If its a fantasy then already half the equation is solved, the only other factor is whether or you can make a relationship work. Because they sure are a hell of a lot of work!
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