NikoLeto

If you browse Onlyfans or Justforfans, there are only a small number of guys who maintain their sites in ways that would make it a primary source of income. You have to keep subscribers interested and produce a steady stream of updates, which does take work. It's also clear that there are a small number of geographically defined clusters of guys who basically fuck each other and account for a lot of the non-solo content. Basically its a recreation of the studio system without the studio overhead, although a lot of the guys are essentially building on or trying add life to studio careers. OF and JFF play a minimal role in altering the escort market. The number of guys in even third tier cities was continuing to increase before COVID and has been picking up once more.

You should think of writing for Penthouse.

The scene described sounds so fucking hot. Thank you for that gem.

Maybe the client can help the escort get it up again and this time keeping it.
 
PrEP certainly has changed things but I remember putting on a condom and have the guy wondering around the room looking for "poppers", etc.
 
Sometimes it's not the escort's fault, some clients are just more difficult and also some positions are difficult.
 
Would yinz allow a 300lbs guy sit on your cock or would you rather take him in a different position?
 

 
let's take into account how the client looks, his expectation, behavior, etc.
 

 
exactly!
 
PNP?
 
at least he had his cock hard for half the session maybe he can help the client get off doing something else. It takes 2 to tango...

There are too many variables that could explain the inability to maintain an erection, some of which may not be the escort's "fault" -- did the client ply him with wine/alcohol for example. In any event, unless the escort had reason to know, before meeting up, that he'd run into the problem, he still showed up for the meeting and blocked out the time.

There could be a number of reasons for him going limp on you. Unless he was a super-skilled oralist, I’d say it would have been reasonable to terminate immediately at the midpoint and pay half what was agreed.

i am afraid you are right more times than not. natural chemistry has to take over even if a valiant effort is taken to include the older hirer or the less attractive of the three. i have a play toy that i would love to either do a MMF, MMM or MFTMM scene with. he seems down but again, if a female is involved (he is a total breeder) then i may get relegated to watching in the corner, if a MMM scene comes about i want him to totally dominate a straighter bodybuilder, he may not be able to get it up or stay hard and same thing with a MFTMM scene. awkwardness may endure when just getting together as a twosome again. if it aint broke dont fix it!
 
in my experiences 3 way fun is usually better left off to the imagination or watching on screen. if all the parties are equally attracted to each other..... perfect. if you can get it to work like you see in a hot porn scene then more power to ya!

I take Cialis, but I do that for for-fun hookups, as well. No one likes it when their dick doesn't work due to pressure to perform, or other stressors.
 
Largely, I focus on the sensations that I feel. And as the top, it's pretty rare that I don't get to guide the experience by picking the position that provides the best sensations. Outside of that, if the guy is doing something that almost feels right, I guide him to what really gets me going. If they're doing something that is distracting, I explain that as well.
 
Spoiler alert: getting rimmed and fucking are my favorite sensations (followed by having my balls played with and getting fucked), though there's something to be said for jerking off into a guy's waiting mouth. ?‍♂️
 
I think it's most about having fun. I can have fun regardless of what the guy looks like or my physical attraction to him. I mean, I could jerk off next to anyone and I'd eventually get off.

TIL. (Today I Learned)

TIL. (Today I Learned)

I take Cialis, but I do that for for-fun hookups, as well. No one likes it when their dick doesn't work due to pressure to perform, or other stressors.
 
Largely, I focus on the sensations that I feel. And as the top, it's pretty rare that I don't get to guide the experience by picking the position that provides the best sensations. Outside of that, if the guy is doing something that almost feels right, I guide him to what really gets me going. If they're doing something that is distracting, I explain that as well.
 
Spoiler alert: getting rimmed and fucking are my favorite sensations (followed by having my balls played with and getting fucked), though there's something to be said for jerking off into a guy's waiting mouth. ?‍♂️
 
I think it's most about having fun. I can have fun regardless of what the guy looks like or my physical attraction to him. I mean, I could jerk off next to anyone and I'd eventually get off.

I take Cialis, but I do that for for-fun hookups, as well. No one likes it when their dick doesn't work due to pressure to perform, or other stressors.
 
Largely, I focus on the sensations that I feel. And as the top, it's pretty rare that I don't get to guide the experience by picking the position that provides the best sensations. Outside of that, if the guy is doing something that almost feels right, I guide him to what really gets me going. If they're doing something that is distracting, I explain that as well.
 
Spoiler alert: getting rimmed and fucking are my favorite sensations (followed by having my balls played with and getting fucked), though there's something to be said for jerking off into a guy's waiting mouth. ?‍♂️
 
I think it's most about having fun. I can have fun regardless of what the guy looks like or my physical attraction to him. I mean, I could jerk off next to anyone and I'd eventually get off.

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I get off on guys sexually enjoying themselves.
 
I get off on me getting off.
 
I like being naked.
 
 
WHAT ARE, THE TRAITS YOU NEED TO BE A SUCCESSFUL MALE ESCORT, ALEX.

You're absolutely right. I haven't had another violent encounter, though I have had a handful of bizarre experiences across the years (two that jump to mind: one spiked lube with a drug and another fell completely unconscious and unresponsive in the middle of the session), basically all of them circled around drugs. Now I have a hard-no policy on any client using meth or G. Originally, I viewed them as just "other drugs", but I've found that they're not conducive to a quality experience. Best to avoid them entirely, from my perspective.

a perennial topic since Hooboy days......
 
when meeting with somebody new, I'll always say in PRE-MEET communication that I'll pay at the end of the meeting, do not want to talk $$ during the meet, and ask for their ok on that.....if they request, I'll do the ol' envelope-on-the-dresser routine for them to see upon arrival.......some have asked to just "see" the donation on arrival and I'll quickly try to accommodate that request and then put the envelope "out of reach"........despite all this, when a few have still asked for payment up front upon arrival, I'll simply say I'm an honest guy and will pay at the end as agreed to.......none have ever walked out.......
 
I certainly understand honest providers who are leery around a new client and want to avoid a racket......tough to balance this forum's "never-pay-upfront" admonitions with the occasional crooked client
 
communicate!!!

Could you PM me about that? :eek:

You have to tip him even to send him a private message.

Maybe...but surely he should have asked you ahead of time if you had Venmo; it's not like you are unacquainted? I am sure if he had asked ahead of time you could have figured it out and have been ready to accommodate him. Courtesy is a two way street. (Or it should be...it usually isn't and that is why I drink!)
 

I tried several times to come up with a meaningful response to this, but never felt like anything I said could convey the meaning. Your words helped me step into your shoes for a moment. This was deeply illuminating. I hope we all get out of this terrible time with as much as we can. Stay safe.

I wouldn't be opposed to getting a massage that was more focused on being sensual and erotic, I just don't seek them out and one has never happened to me organically (the once or twice it has happened was as a function of hooking up - guy offered to massage me first, then sex).
 
Though I've only ever booked through massagebook - which I guess is more for guys that are looking to do legitimate massages. Their price ranges indicate to me that sex is not on the table - I'm sure there's a good pun here about massage tables, but I haven't had coffee yet. I will say that I've read other posters on this forum discuss it, and I think I am sending the signals that I'm amenable to a massage evolving into more (getting unabashedly hard, I guess, being the biggest one?), but like I said, just hasn't happened yet.
 
Maybe, also, I'm not good at indicating my interest in such a massage? Maybe I'm not paying enough, or indicating that I would tip handsomely if the massage turned into something else? I dunno, outside of hiring a masseur off RentMasseur (outside of my economics), I think it's just not going to happen - though I will say, those massage videos with Tyler Saint where he's being a creepy massage dude? Huge turn-on.

I tried several times to come up with a meaningful response to this, but never felt like anything I said could convey the meaning. Your words helped me step into your shoes for a moment. This was deeply illuminating. I hope we all get out of this terrible time with as much as we can. Stay safe.

I wouldn't be opposed to getting a massage that was more focused on being sensual and erotic, I just don't seek them out and one has never happened to me organically (the once or twice it has happened was as a function of hooking up - guy offered to massage me first, then sex).
 
Though I've only ever booked through massagebook - which I guess is more for guys that are looking to do legitimate massages. Their price ranges indicate to me that sex is not on the table - I'm sure there's a good pun here about massage tables, but I haven't had coffee yet. I will say that I've read other posters on this forum discuss it, and I think I am sending the signals that I'm amenable to a massage evolving into more (getting unabashedly hard, I guess, being the biggest one?), but like I said, just hasn't happened yet.
 
Maybe, also, I'm not good at indicating my interest in such a massage? Maybe I'm not paying enough, or indicating that I would tip handsomely if the massage turned into something else? I dunno, outside of hiring a masseur off RentMasseur (outside of my economics), I think it's just not going to happen - though I will say, those massage videos with Tyler Saint where he's being a creepy massage dude? Huge turn-on.

I tried several times to come up with a meaningful response to this, but never felt like anything I said could convey the meaning. Your words helped me step into your shoes for a moment. This was deeply illuminating. I hope we all get out of this terrible time with as much as we can. Stay safe.

I tried several times to come up with a meaningful response to this, but never felt like anything I said could convey the meaning. Your words helped me step into your shoes for a moment. This was deeply illuminating. I hope we all get out of this terrible time with as much as we can. Stay safe.