RandyVue

It’s likely because it doesn’t do anything for him and the sensation may even feel uncomfortable for him. Im the same. It does nothing for me to have my pecs licked, but i like sucking on some muscle pecs if the guy is into it.

Actually no. I’ve had fabulous experiences with both. Of course the main difference is with a masseur you end up having sex on a table and with an escort the massage is on a bed. At least that is how it has happened with me.
 
With one regular masseur I engaged years ago over a several year period, his excellent massage on a table always progressed to me giving him oral and then him fucking me bent over the end of the table. And he was so hot, young and athletic. He never charged me more than the usual $100 at that time (20 years ago).
 
But he never invited me into his bedroom, which was just in the adjoining room in his apartment. It was all very professional!
 
With an escort, I only get a massage if they are good at it and it is an extended session at least two hours or more. Then it’s nice to get one and occasionally I will give one although I am just an amateur. They seem to appreciate it nonetheless.

It’s likely because it doesn’t do anything for him and the sensation may even feel uncomfortable for him. Im the same. It does nothing for me to have my pecs licked, but i like sucking on some muscle pecs if the guy is into it.

Exactly! Spot On!

I’m doubting any escort would admit they hate or even dislike their job on this forum. I personally would not hire someone if they showed disdain for what they do.

I feel like we’re dancing around the same bush over and over again.....
 
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/how-to-tell-if-a-scort-is-really-into-you-enjoying-his-work-or-if-hes-just-a-really-good-performer.161681/
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/what-not-to-do-when-hiring-a-scort.161677/#post-2024119
 
If all these threads you started yesterday are serious, I think you should reconsider pursuing this hobby.
I‘m not sure you’ve got the maturity to handle it and I honestly don’t think it’s going to end well.

VERY bad. Avoid at all costs

I really find it annoying when people compare someone not being turned on by someone who is overweight, to having racial prejudices.
 
Example: A friend of mine is Indian. He is ambiguous looking and could be greek or Italian. He is hit on by a guy on Grindr who wants to hook up with him. My friend tells the guy that he is Indian, and the guy then looses interest. So he found my friend hot when he thought he was greek, but when he learned he’s Indian, he is no longer interested. That is racism and prejudice. That is NOT THE SAME THING AS SOMEONE NOT BEING TURNED ON BY SOMEONE WHO IS OVERWEIGHT SO KNOCK IT OFF ALREADY.

I really find it annoying when people compare someone not being turned on by someone who is overweight, to having racial prejudices.
 
Example: A friend of mine is Indian. He is ambiguous looking and could be greek or Italian. He is hit on by a guy on Grindr who wants to hook up with him. My friend tells the guy that he is Indian, and the guy then looses interest. So he found my friend hot when he thought he was greek, but when he learned he’s Indian, he is no longer interested. That is racism and prejudice. That is NOT THE SAME THING AS SOMEONE NOT BEING TURNED ON BY SOMEONE WHO IS OVERWEIGHT SO KNOCK IT OFF ALREADY.

I really find it annoying when people compare someone not being turned on by someone who is overweight, to having racial prejudices.
 
Example: A friend of mine is Indian. He is ambiguous looking and could be greek or Italian. He is hit on by a guy on Grindr who wants to hook up with him. My friend tells the guy that he is Indian, and the guy then looses interest. So he found my friend hot when he thought he was greek, but when he learned he’s Indian, he is no longer interested. That is racism and prejudice. That is NOT THE SAME THING AS SOMEONE NOT BEING TURNED ON BY SOMEONE WHO IS OVERWEIGHT SO KNOCK IT OFF ALREADY.

I don't know for sure, but I have to believe escorts and masseurs are being impacted by this covid crisis. I would love to find one or two genuinely nice guys who honestly do beautifully sensual experiences, who believe in the power of connection and tenderness, who would be open to considering exploring really wonderful sensual, erotic connection by Zoom? I travel a lot in non-covid time.... and miss very much my ability to engage highly talented sensual massage practitioners or sometimes escorts. I certainly intend to compensate, by venmo or similar, for 30 or 45-min "virtual" sessions in which we can talk each other through our very sensual experience together. It may be about as beautiful as we can get right now........ I live on east coast but travel a lot (usually...) and would love nothing more than establishing the right connection now through this type of discovery and exploration, and then be able to see you when things return to "normal" -- hopefully soon! Very sincere, honest, respectful, fit, good guy here. Many thanks for considering.

I think you should simply move and the market there isn’t fruitful enough. May experience a big swing in money with a location change.

Trust your instincts
Allow people to help you
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Trust your instincts
Allow people to help you
Invest as early as you can

Trust your instincts
Allow people to help you
Invest as early as you can

Trust your instincts
Allow people to help you
Invest as early as you can

Trust your instincts
Allow people to help you
Invest as early as you can

Okay, dear. Bless your heart.

its best to not debate that it will mess with your head. If you feel you both had a good time be happy with that. A lot of guys love sex and are good at it. Most good escorts find a way to connect with the guys that hire them.
While i have become friends with some escorts when all is said and done they are conducting a business transaction. Trying to make something more of it can lead to heartbreak

I am aware of one provider whose sugar daddy turned on him, got him in tax trouble, and tried to get a relative who was a cop in trouble as well. So yes, stuff can and does happen.

Okay, dear. Bless your heart.

Okay, dear. Bless your heart.

Okay, dear. Bless your heart.

I said in my answer that I personally dealt with a lunatic and gave examples. I shouldn’t need to go into detail about how bad it was and everything that took place. Id rather not relive it by going into detail. Others who read it seem to be able to put 2 and 2 together to make 4. If you can’t, then you have bigger problems, and details wouldnt have helped you understand anyway.??‍♂️

I said in my answer that I personally dealt with a lunatic and gave examples. I shouldn’t need to go into detail about how bad it was and everything that took place. Id rather not relive it by going into detail. Others who read it seem to be able to put 2 and 2 together to make 4. If you can’t, then you have bigger problems, and details wouldnt have helped you understand anyway.??‍♂️