dbar123
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dbar123 got a reaction from Jacob_b in Are you into Exploration or Regularity?
Lately I’ve been giving some of my regulars an expiration date. I’ve had instances where after about 5+ encounters they start taking me for granted and the experiences are kind of ordinary.
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dbar123 reacted to + PhileasFogg in Are you into Exploration or Regularity?
That’s unfortunate. I’m on a trip right now with three guys - each of whom I’ve had 5+ trips with (sometimes with two of them together - but this is the first with all three) and I’ve felt just the opposite - knowing each other’s preferences, we all seem to be trying harder to find and capitalize on the “sweet spots” - intellectually and physically.
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dbar123 got a reaction from mtaabq in Are you into Exploration or Regularity?
Lately I’ve been giving some of my regulars an expiration date. I’ve had instances where after about 5+ encounters they start taking me for granted and the experiences are kind of ordinary.
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dbar123 got a reaction from thomas in Why did you quit?
I stopped hiring as my tastes have changed. I started wrestling and I’ve found a bunch of local guys who enjoy wrestling each other. It makes everyone a bit horny so the sexual interactions are actually more engaging and satisfying….and free. I’m spending more of my money on massage. After wrestling I really need it.
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dbar123 got a reaction from + Charlie in Why did you quit?
I stopped hiring as my tastes have changed. I started wrestling and I’ve found a bunch of local guys who enjoy wrestling each other. It makes everyone a bit horny so the sexual interactions are actually more engaging and satisfying….and free. I’m spending more of my money on massage. After wrestling I really need it.
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dbar123 got a reaction from geminibear in Why did you quit?
I stopped hiring as my tastes have changed. I started wrestling and I’ve found a bunch of local guys who enjoy wrestling each other. It makes everyone a bit horny so the sexual interactions are actually more engaging and satisfying….and free. I’m spending more of my money on massage. After wrestling I really need it.
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dbar123 got a reaction from Nightowl in Why did you quit?
I stopped hiring as my tastes have changed. I started wrestling and I’ve found a bunch of local guys who enjoy wrestling each other. It makes everyone a bit horny so the sexual interactions are actually more engaging and satisfying….and free. I’m spending more of my money on massage. After wrestling I really need it.
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dbar123 reacted to Wolfer in What would make you pay more for an escort?
One big thing I filter on these days is lucidity in their replies. If they text like they can barely comprehend or process basic communication, I will stop the conversation quite fast.
The main reasons I pay for escorts is ease of scheduling and convenience.
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dbar123 got a reaction from GymGuy in Anyone else not hiring specifically due to lack of interest?
As prices have increased, so have my standards of what I’m willing to accept.
When guys want $400/hr they better be perfect and EXACTLY what I want. That rarely happens. Ive found less expensive outlets to satisfy my urges
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dbar123 got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Kiddo in NYC
Saw him last year. He looked better than his photos
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dbar123 got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Kiddo in NYC
I've seen Kiddo a handful of times. He is a FANTASTIC top. Amazing body too. His pictures don't do him justice
Just as important, he is an interesting guy to talk to, with a very sexy Spanish accent (he is from Spain).
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dbar123 got a reaction from ChiTwnPaul in Overweight clients
If you are in a position where you are worried about your weight then it should be a wake-up call to better spend your hard earned money in the gym and take it off. I speak from personal experience in this having shed close to 100 pounds over the past 10 years in multiple attempts. Sorry if I offend anyone but that’s my personal view on this. Health trumps pleasure.
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dbar123 got a reaction from Medin in Anyone else not hiring specifically due to lack of interest?
As prices have increased, so have my standards of what I’m willing to accept.
When guys want $400/hr they better be perfect and EXACTLY what I want. That rarely happens. Ive found less expensive outlets to satisfy my urges
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dbar123 reacted to mtaabq in Anyone else not hiring specifically due to lack of interest?
I’m not hiring right now mainly due to a lack of desire rather than a lack of funds. We are not “spoiled for choice” where I live so most of my hires are either visitors to my area or I hire when out of town. (Local providers have not responded well to me.) I’m lucky to have one or two “non-provider” options when the mood strikes. After my last two “encounters” I felt strangely empty rather than satisfied. So, I’ve pulled back on hiring until I can figure out what it is I want.
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dbar123 got a reaction from TorontoDrew in Anyone else not hiring specifically due to lack of interest?
As prices have increased, so have my standards of what I’m willing to accept.
When guys want $400/hr they better be perfect and EXACTLY what I want. That rarely happens. Ive found less expensive outlets to satisfy my urges
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dbar123 got a reaction from pubic_assistance in *Escorting in 2026: Is it too much trouble?
I’ve stopped hiring as I’ve found the current crop of escorts in my town are just not all that engaged. I have better experience with massage guys and they tend to charge less
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dbar123 got a reaction from + Pensant in Anyone else not hiring specifically due to lack of interest?
As prices have increased, so have my standards of what I’m willing to accept.
When guys want $400/hr they better be perfect and EXACTLY what I want. That rarely happens. Ive found less expensive outlets to satisfy my urges
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dbar123 got a reaction from Aaron 90 in Anyone else not hiring specifically due to lack of interest?
As prices have increased, so have my standards of what I’m willing to accept.
When guys want $400/hr they better be perfect and EXACTLY what I want. That rarely happens. Ive found less expensive outlets to satisfy my urges
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dbar123 got a reaction from + KensingtonHomo in Anyone else not hiring specifically due to lack of interest?
As prices have increased, so have my standards of what I’m willing to accept.
When guys want $400/hr they better be perfect and EXACTLY what I want. That rarely happens. Ive found less expensive outlets to satisfy my urges
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dbar123 got a reaction from + SidewaysDM in Anyone else not hiring specifically due to lack of interest?
As prices have increased, so have my standards of what I’m willing to accept.
When guys want $400/hr they better be perfect and EXACTLY what I want. That rarely happens. Ive found less expensive outlets to satisfy my urges
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dbar123 reacted to dcguy20 in Would like feedback on disappointing experience ...
My first impression looking at his ad is young and immature. You dodged a bullet.
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dbar123 reacted to Charlington in Would like feedback on disappointing experience ...
Sorry that happened. I would never hire a guy that young. Around 25 is the minimum age for me, but prefer guys in their 30s and even early 40s. 19 year olds just don’t have the maturity, nor the development, both mentally and physically. They are also more likely to be on the skinny twinkish side of things, which is not my type.
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dbar123 reacted to mtaabq in Would like feedback on disappointing experience ...
Darling, you’ve probably just dodged a bullet. I understand the disappointment; it’s happened to many of us. Consider yourself lucky. Give yourself a day or two and then start planning your next encounter. Thank you, also, for telling the community about your experience.
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dbar123 got a reaction from Veryshyone in Providers that won’t let you touch their nipples
I’ve had that experience with a few providers. I usually presume it’s the result of steroid use making them sensitive or painful
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dbar123 got a reaction from TxMaxx in Providers that won’t let you touch their nipples
I’ve had that experience with a few providers. I usually presume it’s the result of steroid use making them sensitive or painful