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Entenmann's had a thrift shop in the neighborhood where I grew up.  My mom used to love getting this spice cake they used to sell at that shop.  Sadly it doesn't seem they make that recipe anymore, but that taste would bring back some bittersweet memories for me.

Searching on RM for BOTTOM escorts who are into GROUPS literally yields hundreds if I search in "all locations".   It probably wouldn't be useful if all the guys we suggest aren't anywhere near you.

If I search with those terms in Chicago I get almost 20.  LA yields almost 60.  I'm sure there are plenty who would be into a group scene in your area if you ask.  Maybe you could do that search in your area and ask about the guys who fit that search who strike your interest?

15 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Never forget that just because you cannot afford it or are unwilling to pay it doesn't mean someone else won't.

There is indeed a hammer for every nail.

The public pearl-clutching over rates, by some, is amusing.  

This!  Some guys here get huffy if they can't wiggle a few dollars and have their pick of any guy they wish on whatever terms they want.  If a provider is asking a price you think is outragous, they either have tapped a market that is willing to pay that rate or they'll find themselves at a loss for business.  Either way, you can simply move on to another guy who is in your range.  

Is this a question or a complaint?

This is a frequent question, but any sites for escorts to share information about clients will be kept pretty close to the vest.

The most well known method is the Mr. Number app.  It's not specific to escorting, but it allows people to put comments related to a given phone number.  This method is useful for escorts since client bad actors are often best identified by the phone numbers they used to contact them.   While it's possible to circumvent this using a burner number/voip app, it's a little more involved than creating a new gmail account.

It would seem to be more useful to challenge posts you think are being unfair to providers directly in the thread where they were posted.  A vague post whinging about unspecific behavior is just an invitation to useless controversy.

17 minutes ago, Socalguy said:

I usually text or message them asking them what is their preferred method to discuss details (after we've established an initial conversation).

This!  I usually make contact first though text, and I don't go into sexual details.  I usually engage with guys who have profiles that are direct about their capabilities, so there's less need to ask them too much.  If there's something more involved that arranging time and place, I might ask if it we can discuss further by text or a short call.

The fact that the provider is overseas in Asia puts a much different spin on this question.  If you were asking in general, assuming the provider was local to me or at least in the same country, I might be inclined to give a provider with a small number of reviews a try.  I've done it before with no issues.

Are you in the region where this provider is based, or travelling there?  Given that RM less used overseas, I wouldn't be surprised by the lack of reviews.  He may advertise in other local resources, but I think reviews are more of a "US/Euro" thing and relatively unique to RM and CoM.

If I were in the region or planning to travel there relatively soon, and his profile indicated he is accustomed to dealing with entertaining vistors, I might be inclined to contact him to see if a meeting could be arranged.  That would depend on the country since the local circumstances (safety, legality, etc) vary greatly.  

I wouldn't consider hiring someone to travel to me from overseas, due to the risks involved with immigration.

Going out on a limb, he's probably not available through the normal channels. He seems to do modeling and keeps a fairly tame Instagram presence.  I couldn't find anything in his public facing media that indicates any sex work.

If he's only doing professional modeling shoots, and maintaining a mainstream public image, he's not likely available to hire for escorting.  The only avenue you might have would be to contact through his modeling agent or by Instagram, but it's probable you'll be ignored or blocked if you bring up any request for sex.

If he does have a more explicit presence out there you may have better odds.

On 12/20/2023 at 7:57 PM, Luv2play said:

Anyone here who ever experienced or knew someone who had a penile fracture? In the last year I encountered this with a provider who I have been with a number of times over the last 5 years. 
He doesn’t advertise any longer but still takes old clients. He suffered a penile fracture over a year ago. He had an operation and resumed sexual activities, including a spectacular date with me this summer.

Then he had another and had a second operation. I should mention he has an enormous cock. Don’t know if that was a factor. 
Anyway I hope to see him again this next year.  But only after he assures me everything is ok. 

Sounds like a guy I used to meet up with in Toronto.  He was also well blessed and liked to go pretty hard.  He had one incident a few years ago, then he had another one a few months ago just before we were going to meet up.  Put him out of commission for a while. 🤕

2 hours ago, maninsoma said:

I think you misread at least one thing in the OP.  The client is traveling four hours into the city to see the escort; he is not expecting an escort to travel four hours outside of Vegas to see him.  At least that's how I read it.

Yes, reading the OP again it looks like I misread who will be doing the traveling.  Since he will be in the city, I think he'd be in a good position to find alternate arrangements at the last minute if the first plan falls through.  Hopefully that won't happen if he keeps in communication with the provider and checks in a couple days ahead to reconfirm the date.  I hope he has a great time.

So, if I understand your post, the guy you booked hasn't yet said anything about backing out or not showing up.  I get the apprehension about the possibility the guy might no-show, but it's just a possibility at this point. 

Your best strategy is to check in with your guy a couple days ahead of the date to confirm he remembers the booking, especially if he's driving a good distance for your meeting.  Presumably you and he have already considered his compensation includes driving four hours in each direction. 

The porn awards are only relevant in that is a big event where there are opportunities to make just as much money with less hassle. In the future, it might be worth staying closer to the city so it's easier for guys to see you, and you have more options if the plans fall though.

I used to pass by the old Sears building in Atlanta on Ponce almost daily.  It was built in the 20s as their regional warehouse and retail store.  The warehouse served Sears' catalog mail-order business for years. It's a huge building (I think it was claimed to be the largest in the South when it was built), dominating an entire block. Sears even ran a farmers market there for years as part of an agriculture division.  It was the early 20th century version of an Amazon DC, but actually served the community it was in at the same time.

When I lived there, Sears had long closed the retail store in favor of the malls, and had just abandoned the building.  It was used for years by the City as an extension of city hall, but the building was rotting away slowly during that time.

About the time I moved away it being renovated into Ponce City Market, with retail and residential uses along with the BeltLine project.  I haven't been back to see it, but I was so happy to see the building get a new chapter that wasn't just turning it into cold offices closed to the rest of the city.

I was having issues on my phone (android).  I cleared my browser cache and it fixed the problem.

Related, the old Kmart headquarters in Michigan is finally being demolished.  I used to work across from "Fort Kresge" which has been abandoned for years, even though it was in a busy office district adjacent to a thriving mall.  The 40 acre site will hopefully be developed soon instead of becoming yet another parking lot 

Are we hiring escorts or construction equipment?

There's always something to be said for the stamina and recovery that guys in their 20s can sustain, but I find I have a better time with guys over 30.  The more mature guys are more reliable and can offer a more connected session, in my experience.

On 1/4/2024 at 10:04 PM, viewing ownly said:

Apologies if this topic has been covered before. Is the ad of no additional charge to those that advertise on rent masseur?

I don't think it's out of the realm to HOPE even if a provider spells that out - on rent men - that there's a glimmer of a chance they don't really mean it!

The escapades of a VERY lucky few on here have experiences with advertisers that are quite out of the realm of ordinary from most others. Reasons I'm explained as to why are mostly due to having a much larger member than most do downstairs, and / or having an insatiable body that the person seen can't resist. 

If indeed it's included as an advertising option, then I applaud those who have strict limits to what they're willing to do and not do with ALL clients, and are realistic with listing sensual, but not erotic, and NOT placing a misguided ad on rent men, too. Nobody goes to rent men looking only for a therapeutic massage. 

I'm having trouble understanding your question.  Are you asking if RMen and RMass offer providers discounts if they cross -advertise?

As far as I know RMen and RMass operate as similar but separate services with different target audiences.  I haven't seen that they allow for linked accounts between the two sites, but it's possible it's an advertiser only feature.

Some masseurs may advertise on RMen simply because it's probably the higher traffic site in their region and pulls in more leads than RMass.  If I contacted a provider like that I'd want to ask about what services he does provide up front to avoid any misunderstanding.

Since RM is headquartered in Europe, they should be at least GDPR compliant at minimum. It's always good to look for a site's data retention policy, however.  RM does publish their policies in the "about" section, so you can refer there.  The link below relates to their data policy.

https://rent.men/about/datacollection

If you want answers from me, I expect a donation of $69 per question. Payment in advance.

I don't see why I would need to feel any kind of way as long as using the ED drug isn't affecting the session.  

I recall being taught to avoid cutting across neighbor's lawns as a kid, instead of cutting corners or taking shortcuts through their property.   My area wasn't particularly lawn crazy, but leaving bike ruts in the grass was probably frowned upon.

As an adult, it seems like common sense to stay off the lawn to avoid tracking in dirt or worse when visiting someone's home. I don't even wear shoes indoors at home anymore.

2 hours ago, WilliamM said:

Well the always  amazing 😁 Andy Cohen replaced Kathy 

"Amazing" is an interesting word choice...

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

Agreed.... but must you have to say something that obvious? 

Gloryholes and public restroom cruising are relics of the pre-smartphone days.  Guys have easier and safer means of hooking up now, like Sniffies and Grindr.  I think Sniffies has a way of listing cruising spots for those still looking for that, but I don't think it's that many wanting that kind of risk.