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Several years ago I an escort I had hired previously with an acquantance at dinner party at a mutual friend's house. They were together as a date. It was clear he recognized me when he came in, and maybe seemed a bit concerned how I'd act. I made it a point to say hello to my acquaintance and let him introduce his companion, made some "nice to meet you, have I seen you around before" noises, and then promptly excused myself to refresh my drink and left them alone. He seemed much more at ease and I made sure to pick a seat apart from them when it was time to eat. He sent me a text a little after the party thanking me for being discreet.

Some of the RM6 functionality has been buried under options, so I think some things are just a learning curve for the new interface since they didn't give a 'tutorial mode' intro. The search is kind of janky, I've noticed it doesn't seem to bring up the same results if you try roughly equivalent settings. I'm not sure if it's just the indexing isn't right or if it's the way I set up the search, but I don't think I was getting as many hits on the RM7 search. I'll also miss the added granularity with searching for vers/top - vers/btm, which is not the same as adding versitile and top or bottom together. They decisions they made generally were not helped by hiding or losing functionality. Oddly, the rates fields are included in the search options, but I think it still mostly suppresses showing them for US clients. I did somehow see rates on one provider's page (I was looking at torontonians), but I think it was a glitch. I wonder if searching on rates in the US will have any effect.

Extra points if you can decode the message in real time! 😁

I can do it if the top maintains a rhythm that allows him to feel me squeeze. If he's going too fast it's hard to do it and he doesn't feel it anyway. I did have a guy a while back who'd work in pauses just so I could give him a good squeeze or two. He said he loved it.

I haven't seen any guys on those sites with phone numbers in their profile, usually they might include a linktree that includes their RM ad if they're open to clients. If they don't have an escort ad or say they are open to clients then I'd approach cautiously. They might be looking for other OF guys for collaborations instead. Probably best just send a text message letting them know you're a subscriber first and see how they respond.

Hmm, he prominently says he's available for PNP. I don't think I'd give him a try.

It looks like he's left escorting behind entirely. He has done some porn and it looks like he's got an onlyfans going.

Then it's best to avoid engaging the firm. I suppose it's a moot point now but I hope you were able to back out of the meeting with the partner. The question of whether you should mention it to your guy is a bit debatable. There's an arguement for staying silent since you found it by chance. On the other hand, it might be worth mentioning you happened across his photo when you were looking at law firms and avoided his to maintain his discretion. If he's trying to keep his night job discreet, he may need to consider if his social profiles like facebook can make it easy to make the connection and if someone can make trouble for him that way.

I don't think the double check means replied. I've seen double check messages without receiving a reply before. Also, if they've replied you'd easily see that in your message thread. I think RMs convention is more like this: Curved arrow: Message sent via RM Single check: Recipient has logged in and RM has notified them that the message is waiting. Double check: Recipient has read the message.

I think that's particularly true now because clients who haven't used the RM Messenger with them can't easily leave reviews.

I'm not sure why his "day job" should be an issue, unless you were already using his firm or they were representing someone you were litigating against.

I've gotten two kinds lately. Obvious spam with some sexual message and a link I'm assuming is for some penis pill (i.e. "break her walls - [obfuscated link])". I just delete them and don't ever open the link. Benign conversation opener - like "Hello?" or something like that from an unknown number. If I respond they send a follow up message and sometimes a photo of an attractive female (usually Asian) saying they're following up on a business contact. If you tell them it's a wrong number they "apologize" and suggest you can still be friends. I've had the second kind through whatsapp and SMS a few times. I'm pretty sure they're fishing for someone to hit with a relationship scam of some sort. I just block them, it's not worth the effort to try to figure out their angle.

I'm curious how some of the providers here handle overnights with clients that snore? I know I tend to snore pretty loudly, and I'm self consious about that, especially if I haven't done an overnight with a guy before. What do you tend to do?

I periodically go through my RM buddylist and cull off inactive profiles. There's only a couple inactive guys that I keep on there in the off chance they go active again. They're usually guys who are active on twitter or the *fans sites. I purge guys who don't because I figure they tried it out for easy cash but found it less appealing in reality for whatever reason, so they're not likely to come back for another try at it any time soon.

Hehehe, wish him the best of luck. Personally I'd rather have pork or beef than chicken.

I checked his profile after seeing this thread and he just messaged me too. I happen to be going down to south Florida next week. While it's tempting, I think I will pass on this one. I remember seeing an interview with a performer who worked with him who said he was pretty indifferent with his bottoms and was mostly just about him getting off. I wish I remembered who it was.

Bump. Has anyone met him? I'm visiting south florida next week.

Drag shows aren't favorite thing, but I remember loving watching Charlie Brown on the Backstreet third floor stage dress down some cocky, A&F wearing, fratscum that tried to heckle him any performers on his stage. It always happened at least once every show after the Buckhead bars started closing and he'd make it clear it was their stage and read those entitled preeners for filth. The Armorettes also did a ton of charity fundraising that was critical to support gay youth and desperately needed services in the community.

Some of the reviews on RM are a mixed bag, there's many good ones but several that give me pause.

All a gold membership means is that a provider has paid extra for gold membership (or someone has gifted it to him). It gives them a higher rank in the search order, which helps them in the busier markets. I do use it as a positive indication their account is active, since they do not explicitly mark expired accounts. I'm not sure what they do if a client tries to buy a gold membership for a provider whose account is expired. I imagine the provider would have to go in and freeze their account or cancel it completely if they were not wanting to engage in business if that happened.

Even the most properly prepared pucker will periodically produce a profoundly unpropitious production, particularly when probed with a profound protuberance.

It seems a simple message like "Here's the relevant info about a session and how to book {insert details or link}. Send me a message when you are ready to set up a meeting, I try to respond within xx time during [start time] and [end time]. I'll respond to messages outside those hours the next day." The ball is in their court after that and you don't have to do anything to follow up if you don't care to. If they can't follow your instructions about how to book, it's your decision whether to resend the instruction, tell them you can't meet, or just block them. If they're the type to send "??" type messages if you don't respond fast enough (I hate it when people do that, too), then you might remind them you respond as soon as feasible but within xx amount of time and please don't send such prompts. Or block them. It's up to you how you prefer to deal with them.

When this thread veered into "mean girl" territory, this was the first thing that came to mind...

Not sure what to make of the site, I looked at the listings for my area and there were a few ads for guys that I recognized from other sites. The was one ad with a distinctive name a good uses in my area, but the pictures on the ad were a totally different guy. My guess is that whoever set up this site tried to jumpstart it by scraping other escort sites and got some of the data jumbled.

Does it matter? If we're doing things right he won't be wearing it for long.