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Not a lawyer, but I have had a friend rent a room in a home I owned before. I would definately advise finding out about the tenancy laws in your state before moving anyone in. It does not take long in many states (as little as a couple weeks) for someone to be able to claim tenant rights regardless if a lease was signed. After that point if you decide you want him out, you need to go through the legal process. A self-service eviction (like changing locks or throwing their stuff on the street) could create much a bigger problem for you, and local law enforcement can't usually help except in cases of domestic violence. You're giving a person you don't know particularly well access to your personal living space with all that entails, so you need to give some thought to protecting yourself. If you still think you both would make good roommates, consider doing a background check. If that comes back ok, set a simple lease that defines the term (6 months, month to month, week to week, etc) and what the expectations are for his use of the room and common spaces in your home. That way, if things aren't working out, you have better leverage to give notice to terminate the lease when it is due without needing a specific breach to justify it.

I'm going to go to the nearest bookstore and see what happens if I give the Shave and a Haircut knock.

Thanks for the responses. For some reason, at the time I posted nothing came up when I searched his name (and I pasted it directly to the search field to avoid mistyping it). Now everything comes up. It seems he's one of the good guys though, I'm thinking I'll try to meet up with him in DC.

Has anyone met him? He's been in the DC area for a while and seems to have a lot of good reviews. I didn't see any mention of him in the forums though. https://rent.men/Dominus

I'd kill for lube packaging that didn't leak when flying. I always have to put it in it's own zip lock bag so it doesn't get on anything else.

I've seen his ad before. I appreciate the desire for discretion, but the photos where he's blurred out just his eyes is just so disturbing. He'd be better off cropping his head off entirely (in my opinion).

I only saw season 1, I recall the orgy scene not ending well for normal people messing with the supes...

I've always assumed the RMotD was a pay-for promotion, though I've never asked any guys on RM how one did it or what it might cost. I've wondered if you could buy a particular day or if just paid and got put in a queue and popped up when it was your turn I have noticed a few guys that repeat so frequently, usually from the big markets, that I have to guess they continuously re-up the order for whatever benefit it gets them in visibility.

That sounds pretty sketchy. I'd worry how he got your number. It would seem he got someone's address book and is hitting up the old contacts for business.

His RM is currently expired. He's a purty one though, wish I were in LA.

Yeah, I noticed that. The new site UI isn't ready for prime time, so it's a good thing they pushed it back.

I appreciate your policy on contacting clients, you've clearly given thought to how your market values discretion and have built your business accordingly. Obviously in the OP's case, the provider did not put that thought into his strategy and lost a potential regular client. I do think there is room for a provider to reach out to certain clients. I do appreciate a message after meeting a provider saying he enjoyed the session and would be happy to see me again when I'm ready. I'm not in a position where I have to be extremely guarded about my phone contacts, however I wouldn't appreciate frequent or pushy messaging from a provider. But clients who absolutely need strict discretion should also take some responsiblity and never use their personal phone to initiate contact ever and let their providers know not to contact unless contacted first. The possible alternative is using the internal Rentmen/Rentmassuer site messaging, since that is not likely to compromise a client since other people would have to know they have an account and can access it.

I'd love to meet Colton Reece.

If we're still using the legal fiction that clients are hiring escorts for their time, than it is possible that the NDA could cover the expectation that the escort will simply not disclose that they met the client to any third parties. It doesn't have to describe the purpose of the meeting, just the fact of the meeting and any information disclosed during the meeting. Still, enforcing such an NDA would be tricky at best, I wonder if anyone has ever tried it.

Not necessarily a red flag, there's a pretty sizeable (pun not intended) cohort of guys who like mature bears. Just keep your expectations reasonable until you've met the guy in person and keep your wits about you. If you have the chance to meet in public first time, that could give you a chance to size him up before going to your place.

His pictures are impressive, I'd love to give him a try.

Hairy Pothead and the Polka of Destiny

I've usually met providers at their location, or had them come to a hotel room that I paid for. If they got a hotel room just for our meeting, then I should pay the additional cost for the room. It doesn't seem like it should be that complicated.

The article doesn't say if they targeted any gay escort sites or not. Most of it appears to be targeting straight escorts. That could easily change however. The sheriff is clearly using these operations as easy publicity going after people the voters in his county will have little sympathy for. Helping real victims of sex trafficing is a mere justification. They say they found a few trafficing victims, but a tiny fraction of the people they arrested. The press conference where the sheriff singles out the people they caught and identifies if they were married or where they worked is definately intended to pander to the voters in that county. Assuming the cops were posing as escorts of legal age, targeting the guys who respond does nothing to find trafficers or their victims. Neither does targeting sex workers who are operating independently. Sadly sex work between consenting adults is illegal in most of the US and law enforcement operations like this keeps the stigma going. This should be a reminder to know a bit about the jurisidiction before working or hiring there.

Maybe he's busy, maybe not. It doesn't sound like he's been actually rude, unless he's asking for much more details than needed to set up the appointment. If you think he's leading you on, it's a good sign to look for another guy. There's not much else to do since your not out any money and haven't met yet.

Several years ago I an escort I had hired previously with an acquantance at dinner party at a mutual friend's house. They were together as a date. It was clear he recognized me when he came in, and maybe seemed a bit concerned how I'd act. I made it a point to say hello to my acquaintance and let him introduce his companion, made some "nice to meet you, have I seen you around before" noises, and then promptly excused myself to refresh my drink and left them alone. He seemed much more at ease and I made sure to pick a seat apart from them when it was time to eat. He sent me a text a little after the party thanking me for being discreet.

Some of the RM6 functionality has been buried under options, so I think some things are just a learning curve for the new interface since they didn't give a 'tutorial mode' intro. The search is kind of janky, I've noticed it doesn't seem to bring up the same results if you try roughly equivalent settings. I'm not sure if it's just the indexing isn't right or if it's the way I set up the search, but I don't think I was getting as many hits on the RM7 search. I'll also miss the added granularity with searching for vers/top - vers/btm, which is not the same as adding versitile and top or bottom together. They decisions they made generally were not helped by hiding or losing functionality. Oddly, the rates fields are included in the search options, but I think it still mostly suppresses showing them for US clients. I did somehow see rates on one provider's page (I was looking at torontonians), but I think it was a glitch. I wonder if searching on rates in the US will have any effect.

Extra points if you can decode the message in real time! 😁

I can do it if the top maintains a rhythm that allows him to feel me squeeze. If he's going too fast it's hard to do it and he doesn't feel it anyway. I did have a guy a while back who'd work in pauses just so I could give him a good squeeze or two. He said he loved it.

I haven't seen any guys on those sites with phone numbers in their profile, usually they might include a linktree that includes their RM ad if they're open to clients. If they don't have an escort ad or say they are open to clients then I'd approach cautiously. They might be looking for other OF guys for collaborations instead. Probably best just send a text message letting them know you're a subscriber first and see how they respond.