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I forgot what a great porn performer he was, he looks like he loves every minute he's on screen. He'll just have to be a distant fantasy for me, though.

The text in his profile raises a huge red flag for me. The phrase starting with "Dominating you is entertainment for me...." used to be on a lot of shady escort profiles back in the craglist/backpage days. I think you can still google the line and find it out there. When guys are using the same exact phrase in their ads like that I have to think there's an underlying scam involved.

He's visiting my area, I reached out to him but haven't gotten anything set up yet. We'll see how it goes.

I don't mind some ink, even some extensive art, but face and neck tattoos are a definite turnoff. If the guy looks like a doodle pad with random images or words, its more of a turnoff. Facial hair isn't normally a problem, but less is more for me. More Tony Stark and less ZZ Top.

It depends on the nature of the attraction to the guy as a person or as an object, and if there is consent. The OP in particular called it a fetish for talking to asian guys in a sexually demeaning way. That begs the question if it's only asians. If so, why get off on demeanting guys of this ethnicity in particular? He may know some asian guys who like that sort of scene, and it's fine if everyone is consenting. If he gets off on demeaning guys who haven't consented to it, then I think it's very problematic.

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It's a toss up between the crossed yubnub, the reverse frumpet, or the downward facing vicar. It's always a great time when we do the vicar.

Do you mean porn actors? I don't think there's any such resource for such information other than anectdotal info. It's not like there's a registry.

I wonder if they're getting DDOS attacked, the slowness is a classic symptom if their protection service is having to sort out the legitimate traffic from the attack.

Just like with many other kinds of work, especially customer service focused fields, covid triggered a lot of people to reassess their career path. A lot of guys went into other kinds of work. Some just simply retired, too since they may have been aging out of the prime escorting years. Others have gone into making videos for the *fans sites, since they get to choose the guys the work with. There's more options now. A lot of guys started escorting, too. So you just have to see who's on the market now.

Sometimes I really appreaciate a guy whose cock has a unusal shape like a proununced curve or unique proportions. Some years back I met one escort whose cock had a sharp bend up in the middle so it looked like a hockey stick when he was hard. It felt amazing when he topped me, though it was a bit of a challenge at first because he was pretty big. I had another buddy whose cock was particularly wide and blunt. It was almost flat on the top and bottom but almost 2" wide. And since it was blunt headed it felt like a battering ram going in. I did not soon forget the first time he topped me. Do you have any experiences that stand out where a guy's cock left such a memorabile impression?

I think the normal practice would be to have the essentials needed and don't expect the other guy will be prepared. This is true for hosting or travelling, and whether it is a escort session or hookup. That way you're taking control of your preparation and risks, and reducing friction (pun intended) for you and your guest to enjoy yourselves.

The USHorsemarket has this in their FAQ: - All shapes, sizes, colors, and ages are welcome and do attend my Horse Market parties. Every event and city is different with different Stallions and Mares so there is no way of knowing who would get play and who would not. I cannot tell Stallions who to play with. Be mindful that it may take a few minutes for the event to get going as the Stallions have to get in, get undressed and make their way onto the floor. It seems like they're trying to be outwardly less discriminatory, though I have no idea how it works in practice. The structure of the event means they have to stay in the venue capacity and that they need to have a balance of tops and bottoms. They say they sell the bottom tickets by lottery as the top tickets are sold. I've never signed up so no idea how it works in real practice.

I know a guy who's attended the SF Horsemarket event as a top. He said it was fun but it got a bit monotonous, too. After all, there's no connection with the bottom, he's wearing a hood and never sees the guys fucking him. Personally I'm way too self consious to try it even if I had the age and physique to fit in the attendees. I've never had the courage to try totally anonymous group scenes. They also have volunteers to help with the event however, so maybe being just an observer would be more my speed, lol.

I would not mind some extra screening from this TSA agent...

I'm in Detroit, and they advertise events at the local bathhouses in Detroit and Grand Rapids. I've never been, but I can't imagine them being quite as wild as they might be in the bigger cities.

Sure, there's plenty of "straight" and gay guys who get off on that kind of scene, usually in a cruising kind of encounter. When I lived in Atlanta there was a few places in the 90s that were known for rough trade cruising. The question is when does it cross the line from homophobic and abusive into gay bashing for you? If it's not a role playing situation where you get to negotiate limits, you're pretty much taking on the risk that the guy will be more than verbally abusive. That may be part of the thrill, but you should understand what kind of risk you're willing to tolerate.

Different strokes. Some clients like the guys in their early-mid 20s and using "boy" in their name is the best way to get those clients' interest. You skip over them and go for the kind of guys you like. Wouldn't it be dull if every provider was the same type of guy? Hopefully you're in an area where there's a variety, and everyone can find something in their interest. FWIW, nobody in my area is using any version of boy at this time, but there is one using 'man' and another couple 'jocks'. For some reason, if I go to the next state there's at least three 'pup's, not sure what's up with that. I'm only annoyed with guys who are pushing into their 30s and up are still using 'boy' in their name or profile.

I think about it like asking someone what they want to eat when going out. If they answer "whatever you think" or something like that, I'm actually a little peeved. At least give me a general idea I can work with. I think a provider would prefer it if you answer with at least a little bit of your preferences. If you say something like "I like bottoming and pleasing a guy, what really turns you on with a client?", it gives him just enough to know what you're looking for in a session and he'd probably say "that's great" or even elaborate on what he likes.

I really would love to see the Miss Manners column dealing with OnlyFans etiquette, too.

Just like with escorts, there is not really any "normal" with the *Fans sites. Every guy is different. Some guys will show appreciation and interact with their fans, others just don't. Have you ever reached out to him from RM? His interactions with potential clients may be very different than interactions through the *Fans sites.

I tried to see him a while back in SF, he flaked with an excuse about car trouble. I don't think I'd give him another try.

The DNC registry still exists but only legitimate telemarketers in the US adhere to it. Very occasionally you hear of a robocaller operation getting a fine, but most scam operations are outside of the US and are using VOIP systems to dial into the US. They spoof their caller ID, so it's worthless blocking the numbers. My pixel phone blocks most obvious fake calls from even ringing, and I can send other unknowns to an screening system that prompts the caller to say who they are and the reason for the call. I can see a live transcript and decide to pick up. The FCC has been pushing technology solutions like STIR/SHAKEN and forceing the telecoms to only accept traffic from authenticated exchanges, but it's not really doing enough.

He's fun, but not for the novice bottom. 😉

It's a general site for 'service industry' employment, but I can't imagine they want to be an advertising site for escorts or other sex workers. I can't see escorts flocking to it, either, there's no expecation of getting traffic from there. An escort hiring site needs to have certain features to be useful for both clients and providers, and even industry specific sites like RentMen have a hard time getting it right. Craigslist was only succesful in that respect because it had so many local sub-sites, a separate 'adult' section (before they had to can it, and it was free or cheap to put up an ad.