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If I ever do drag, it'd be Rhonda Santis. I saw the cutest pair of white boots that would bring the whole outfit together.

Should I feel in some kind of way about it? Just because an hour session is most common doesn't mean every working guy needs to abide by it. A two hour minimum might work better for their situation, since it can take a significant amount of time before and after each session for preparation and cleanup. Think of it this way, escort J makes $300 for an hour session, but needs a half hour before and after. He's really making 150/hr for the full session. Escort K makes $500 for a 2 hour session and needs the half hour before and after, too. Even with the lower rate per hour K effectively makes $166.67/hr, 11% more. It seems like a more efficient business model to me, if it works in their favor why shouldn't they do it?

Whew, I'd give it a try if I were in NYC!

I understand wanting to avoid unnecessary conflict. If you don't think reporting the user is an option, I'd say block them in RM, and flag any phone numbers they have used to contact you to ignore. If a user on RM has no intent of ever hiring you in good faith, why should you worry about them being upset if you don't play their games?

You can certainly report a user on RM if they're being abusive in some way. You also have the option of blocking the user, as well. It's not perfect, but you certainly don't have to keep dealing with someone who is jerking you around.

I was wondering the same thing about how this kind of service would make sense in the current climate. The only area I can think of would be for clients who require and can afford such a degree of discretion that they could not engage with anyone who is openly an escort in the market like providers on RM. Even then, I can't see such a business making sense because there are so many other avenues that encroach on that area. It's even more restricting if they're focused only on certain cities.

In my opinion, the idea of "usual or acceptable" depends on the context. Generally speaking, as long as the contact maintains reasonable discreation and isn't "pushy" then there is no issue. Occasionally a provider will reach out to me by RM chat when they see I've viewed their ad. RM's design allows clients who are logged in to a profile to show that they'v viewed a provider or block it at their option. If I am looking at guys in another city and they contact me after looking at them, I let them know I'm browsing and if and when I'm going to visit their town. Never had any issue with that. If you don't want those kind of contacts, set your profile to not show your viewed traces. I also don't mind it if I get a text from a travelling guy who I've seen before who is letting me know they're going to be in my area, so long as they don't get pushy when contacting me. Text me once and keep it PG, I'll respond when I am free to do so. I don't think I've ever had anyone who has been a problem that way, however.

He could be just going about his day, doing whatever. I don't expect an instant response, and I was up front that I'm not in NYC right now ready to book a time immediately. Either way, he does seem to keep busy so we'll see if he does respond. I'll report back if I get a differetn quote than Cliff.

Cool. I sent him a text message asking about his rate, but haven't gotten a response yet.

His profile was expired for a while, but I've followed him on JFF. If I were near NYC I'd be tempted, even if he was asking a steeper rate.

I think most people behave differently online vs in person, even if they don't mean to. People adapt to the tone and customs of the community they are engaging with, negatively or positively. This has been true ever since the BBS and Usenet days. The only real "innovation" that social media brought was feedback mechanism (i.e. "likes" or "retweets") creating a reward mechanism. When the reward is based mostly on engagement it leads certain people to learn which emotional buttons to poke to get more responses, good or bad, and their online personas change accordingly. Sites that had mechanisms to discourage high emotion topics (politics, religion, etc) such as LinkedIn saw less of this kind of behavior. Personally, I've cut back all usage to only direct contact by messenging. I don't post, scan the feeds, click on likes, etc. I also try to keep them from putting notifications on my phone unless it's someone messaging me, but facebook seems to be the worst about finding ways to ignore that. I've been tempted to remove the app entirely.

I wonder if he'll get to take the testicle tanner with him, or if someone else in the newsroom called dibs.

It sounds like you found someone who was extremely new or had some other issues going on to be that paranoid. Most massage or escort providers you would find on rentmen or rentmasseur know how to navigate encounters with prospective clients. If you are looking to hire for only a massage and are trying to stay strictly "within the confines of the law", consider using rentmasseur and requesting theraputic services or getting a massage in your hotel spa. Las Vegas is not in one of the counties with legal brothels, and hiring for sex in LV does violate the statutes. That said, providers in Las Vegas advertise openly on Rentmen and guys hire them all the time for all services without issues. There's very little risk of attracting LE attention as long as you're reasonably discreet, especially if you hire a well reviewed provider. The resorts are not concerned about providers visiting guests, they are more concerned guests getting solicited on property or detecting exploitation. A number of members here hire in LV and can answer questions.

That would be ideal. Unfortunately, due to SESTA/FOSTA laws passed in the US, RentMen disabled the ability to post rates for US based providers. Some have posted rates obliquely, but I'm not sure how RM treats attempt to circumvent their limits.

The old forums were under the message-forums.com domain, which were personally run by Daddy. Unfortunately, with his sudden passing, control of the old domain couldn't be maintained. @RadioRob and transition team helped set up the new domain as of March 2022 migrating the old system here, and thanks to their efforts this community was able to survive. Hopefully you will be able to participate more frequently going forward.

My account was still showing the upcoming renewal for $19.99 so i cancelled and removed my CC info from the RM site. I did the same with rentmasseur, too, just in case. They don't seem to be doing anything that justifies a 100% increase, they just know they're practically a monopoly and think they can charge what they like.

Better is relative...It can be more thorough when used right, but you have to be careful to avoid using too much pressure or getting too much water inside for you to eliminate easily. They're also less convenient for travel use, though I've seen some guys do it before. An enema bag with hose is relatively discreet for travelling. I personally don't like the bulbs.

Short answer is "No, there is no site operating in this way."

I've only heard about Mr. number, which isn't exclusively for escorts reporting on clients. If there is another site that is getting some use, a lot of providers are probably going to want to keep it from getting widely known about.

I have to agree, that post seemed a bit gratuitous. All cities have bad neighborhoods, but unfortunately Detroit has more than it's share and some of it is pretty extreme. Anyone familiar with Detroit has seen more than their share of "ruin porn", so it's always adviseable to check the neighborhood before venturing out for a meeting. It should have been enough for the OP to say that he contacted Justinpipesu and didn't feel it was safe enough when seeing the neighborhood. With respect to the provider himself, I checked out the ads that @mistrmikey mentioned on Friendboy and the pics don't look the same to me, and the phone numbers are all different. That said, something does seem a bit off with Justin, and I don't think I'd consider contacting him anytime soon.

Length, girth, and shape are all big factors in how a guy feels inside you, but overall skill makes up for a lot. I've had big guys who reallly never had to learn how to be a good top, and average guys who'd give you the ride of your life. A big guy with skills is a great combo. I tend to like guys on the longer side because they can do long strokes with less chance of coming out completely. If a guy comes out and thrusts back in at a bad angle it can hurt. Personally, longer guys who aren't too big around are the most fun. Girthy guys can be a challenge if you're tight or inexperienced, but they can deliver that "fullness" feeling that a lot of bottom guys love. I used to have a FB who was particularly wide, though, and he'd be a shock going in. Shape...now there's a wildcard. Some guys have just an unusual shape that can make for a totally different experience. A long time back I met a provider who had a huge upward bend in his cock (which was pretty big, too), and that thing was memorable to say the least. Especially when he had me go from doggie position to on my back while he was still inside.

I had someone attempt a similar scam with me last year through A4A. The one in my case started blowing up my phone with phone calls and texts and tried to threaten me by claiming they had evidence of me texting with someone underage. They went as far as looking up my family contacts and trying to contact them. I finally answered one of the calls, but it was clear they were on speaker and I was recording the call, so they never made any cash demands. I did file a police report, but after the initial contacts the scammer disappeared.

Hehe, yes, his curved cock is one thing that caught my attention. He does seem genuine, and he has a few good reviews, so I'm curious if someone here has met up with him.