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Their ad has only been up a couple weeks, and they only have one public photo at this time which doesn't show their faces. It's probably a long shot for someone here to have met them already unless they've been active before separately. Unfortunately the only public photo has them in squid game masks and costumes that don't show much. I'd be reluctant to contact them with such a limited ad.

I haven't heard of this guy in several years. I never really cared for his act. The accusations are pretty bad, but there's no current criminal investigation at this point. If there's no ability or intent to prosecute him or pursue civil recourse, then it's just more news about a minor celebrity that will quickly pass. I'm kind of struggling to find a fuck to give about it honestly.

I haven't seen these ads, I guess I'm not in their target market. 🤷‍♂️ "Javi", if that's his real name, is reasonably handsome. I rate him at 5 milliHelens. (1 milliHelen is the beauty/handsomeness required to launch 1 ship)

This is the giggity worker you've been looking for.

PDA should be negotiable, especially for longer engagements like overnights since public activities are usually involved. The problem is it's not often discussed in advance and depends on each person's comfort level in the moment. In this case, if the escort was uncomfortable holding hands in a theater, he is very discreet and should probably let clients know before an long engagement. It should always be OK for either party to say "let's keep it more discreet for now" if they're uncomfortable. For the escort's side, I'd say follow the client's lead and only initiate PDA consistent with what the client has done already. I'm not as sure what is best in the client's case, however. The client's reaction, in this case, seems excessive. I wonder if there was more to this interaction that lead to the client dumping the escort (something that came across as disgust or rejection?), or a verbal argument?

I don't mind self checkout for small orders, where you're using it like the old "10 items or less" express lanes. I can usually zip through quickly and be on my way much faster than the old express lanes. Unfortunately, my Kroger started staffing fewer full service lanes. Worse, they installed a couple larger self-service lanes with a belt to allow for self bagging at the end of the lane. Now they've stopped having any staffed lanes after 730 PM, which means you must use the self checkout. The last time I went there were no open cashiers, and they had one staffer assisting both the bank of six small self checkout stations and the large belted checkout. She looked so miserable and frazzled, running between each person needing help. Ironically, I can opt for pickup service for free, and have someone assemble my entire order and bring it out to my car when I'm ready. It's more labor intensive than staffing enough cashiers and cuts my impulse purchases to nearly zero.

Sorry, robot here. My former human body was harvested for parts some time ago. The site already knows I'm one of them, so I don't get to see the test to check if a user is still human.

Generally, I don't ask guys for more photos than they have in their profile. I'll ask to see private photos if I'm seriously considering hiring, but I don't request they send anything that's not already posted.

What's disappointing is the state of the physical plant in many of our school systems. They have AC in the buildings, but the age of the units or years of deferred maintenance means they don't work well or at all. It's not a new issue, just more visible with the hotter weather we are now experiencing.

If you keep it up, you might get a strongly worded PM compliaining about midwestern plots...

Hmm, his travel schedule seems pretty improbable: BKK -> NYC -> SIN -> DXB -> PEK -> YYZ between now and November.

Back when the US sites would allow providers including their rates in their ad, I would see one of my regulars bump up their rates occasionally. Often if I asked them when scheduling the next time to confirm their rates, they'd tell me I could pay them old rate as an appreciated client. Not always, but it did feel nice when it happened. I don't get the idea that guys can't raise their rates, however. They have to be able to earn enough to make the work worthwhile. I can certainly ask why there was an increase, but the provider doesn't owe me an answer if they don't care to explain. Conversely, if I decide to move on and not hire them again, I don't be owe them an explanation either. I just don't get the drama about it. Guys expecting to pay the same going rates from 10 years ago or more are living in a fantasy world.

No, I don't see you doing anything wrong. You don't mention if he was dining with companions or alone, but even if he's alone he is entitled to some discretion. His reaction was over the top. I can't see any reason he should expect a client to approach him socially outside, especially when you're with friends or coworkers. Maybe there was something in your expression when you recognized him that showed you were embarrassed or uneasy, but that still doesn't justify his reaction. If he's in a place where he is likely to run into clients and burns them if they don't greet him like old college chums, he'll kill of his repeat business pretty quick.

Smells like a scam. Probably a cashier's check scam, or some variation on that.

I think @Coolwave35 would be the subject matter expert on organizing escort orgies.

I think you can always give a rough idea about whether or not you had a good experience with the provider, without getting into blow-by-blow details. "So-and-so showed up on time, looked like his pics, and we had a good time together." If the person asks for more, I'd just say that I don't care to share more details. If they persist, then I'd block them.

He's a handsome guy so hopefully it means he'll stay around for a bit.

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There's also a reduction in liability and certain operating costs from reducing the number of at grade crossings. Those costs, over the service life of the infrastructure, could justify project cost. The whole corridor doesn't need to be elevated, just those portions with several roads that would otherwise need to be closed.

Grade separation eliminating crossings with road traffic, which allows faster speeds and more frequent service.

It's good to hear he offered an apology and appears to have taken this as a opportunity to do better in the future. A lot of guys would have been defensive about it.

That brings up another problem with short sessions: it breaks the fiction that clients are paying for time and not sex. Once you have to start taking things off the menu because the time is too short, it's kind of saying that you're paying for the sex. Setting a minimum time without spelling out what's on offer helps keep the fiction intact. I've heard of some escorts willing to do 30 minute sessions, but they're pretty rare.

You also have to factor preparation time, travel time (for outcalls), allowing time for late clients, cleanup time (for incalls) etc. A 20 minute session may still require an hour and a half total time or more to service, and not command a high enough rate to justify it.

That's a good idea, something I wish I did a long time ago

My grandma used to say that it's better when the trash takes itself out. You haven't lost more than the time it took reaching out to them, and you have a chance to find better guys to meet up with instead.