DynamicUno

Airplane mode wouldn't be sufficient protection. The phone can still passively receive radio signals and often Wi-Fi and Bluetooth are still active in airplane mode now by default. It can still track your location as you move about and sync up once it can contact Google or Apple. Turning the phone off would be the only way to assure no continuous location tracking is active.

Personal vehicle or call a taxi and pay cash, there is no absolute anonymous way to use rideshare. But then there are possibly tolls and traffic cameras that sweep up license plate numbers, which can be used to determine the route you took. Even walking is not completely discreet since cameras along your route can have facial recognition capabilities. There is no way to guarantee completely anonymous travel in these times.

They travel through the magical wardrobe to the land of Nonya, where a gentle bear takes them to a fantasy nursing home/bordello run by the Grand Madame Dorothy.

I haven't encountered this myself, usually the questions I ask don't lend themselves to one word answers. If I did get such a respose I would follow up with a simple "Thanks, can you tell me a little more" type of reply. If they still won't engage, I'd just take that as a sign and move on to the next.

I didn't say he needed to name names, in fact I can respect him not calling out the escorts directly. However if he said something like he "contacted a couple traveling escorts in Vegas who are also OF models", it would give more context as to why he was getting such exorbitant quotes, and maybe provide a more productive direction for the discussion than vague whinging.

Probably. Unfortunately the OP probably won't say anything about the kinds of guys he's contacted, and will only give vague comments instead. He'll never answer any direct questions, like in his other threads. That's assuming he really did get these super high quotes and isn't exaggerating. I don't want to say it's BS, so let's just call it well prepared potting soil...

I'm curious where you're finding so many extravagantly priced guys, I never get anything quite so high. Are they also performers on OF/JFF or porn stars in high demand?

I have never encountered this, but it's extremely unprofessional behavior. I think you handled it correctly, i.e. finish up and send the guy packing as soon as you can without getting into a worse situation. If you can, please post a link to the guys profile so the community knows to avoid this guy. Also, assuming you found the guy on RM, you should put a review on his profile and detail the attempt to shake you for more money.

I tend to agree, however the OP perceives it as a bug. Either way, if the OP hopes RM will change how the site behaves, he should direct his complaint to the people who run the site instead of whinging about it to an audience that has no ability to help him.

https://rent.men/about/report-bug

Have you contacted RM support about your question? I seriously doubt they monitor this board for support requests...

Romance is in the air!

Entenmann's had a thrift shop in the neighborhood where I grew up. My mom used to love getting this spice cake they used to sell at that shop. Sadly it doesn't seem they make that recipe anymore, but that taste would bring back some bittersweet memories for me.

Searching on RM for BOTTOM escorts who are into GROUPS literally yields hundreds if I search in "all locations". It probably wouldn't be useful if all the guys we suggest aren't anywhere near you. If I search with those terms in Chicago I get almost 20. LA yields almost 60. I'm sure there are plenty who would be into a group scene in your area if you ask. Maybe you could do that search in your area and ask about the guys who fit that search who strike your interest?

This! Some guys here get huffy if they can't wiggle a few dollars and have their pick of any guy they wish on whatever terms they want. If a provider is asking a price you think is outragous, they either have tapped a market that is willing to pay that rate or they'll find themselves at a loss for business. Either way, you can simply move on to another guy who is in your range.

Is this a question or a complaint?

This is a frequent question, but any sites for escorts to share information about clients will be kept pretty close to the vest. The most well known method is the Mr. Number app. It's not specific to escorting, but it allows people to put comments related to a given phone number. This method is useful for escorts since client bad actors are often best identified by the phone numbers they used to contact them. While it's possible to circumvent this using a burner number/voip app, it's a little more involved than creating a new gmail account.

It would seem to be more useful to challenge posts you think are being unfair to providers directly in the thread where they were posted. A vague post whinging about unspecific behavior is just an invitation to useless controversy.

This! I usually make contact first though text, and I don't go into sexual details. I usually engage with guys who have profiles that are direct about their capabilities, so there's less need to ask them too much. If there's something more involved that arranging time and place, I might ask if it we can discuss further by text or a short call.

The fact that the provider is overseas in Asia puts a much different spin on this question. If you were asking in general, assuming the provider was local to me or at least in the same country, I might be inclined to give a provider with a small number of reviews a try. I've done it before with no issues. Are you in the region where this provider is based, or travelling there? Given that RM less used overseas, I wouldn't be surprised by the lack of reviews. He may advertise in other local resources, but I think reviews are more of a "US/Euro" thing and relatively unique to RM and CoM. If I were in the region or planning to travel there relatively soon, and his profile indicated he is accustomed to dealing with entertaining vistors, I might be inclined to contact him to see if a meeting could be arranged. That would depend on the country since the local circumstances (safety, legality, etc) vary greatly. I wouldn't consider hiring someone to travel to me from overseas, due to the risks involved with immigration.

Going out on a limb, he's probably not available through the normal channels. He seems to do modeling and keeps a fairly tame Instagram presence. I couldn't find anything in his public facing media that indicates any sex work. If he's only doing professional modeling shoots, and maintaining a mainstream public image, he's not likely available to hire for escorting. The only avenue you might have would be to contact through his modeling agent or by Instagram, but it's probable you'll be ignored or blocked if you bring up any request for sex. If he does have a more explicit presence out there you may have better odds.

Sounds like a guy I used to meet up with in Toronto. He was also well blessed and liked to go pretty hard. He had one incident a few years ago, then he had another one a few months ago just before we were going to meet up. Put him out of commission for a while. 🤕

Yes, reading the OP again it looks like I misread who will be doing the traveling. Since he will be in the city, I think he'd be in a good position to find alternate arrangements at the last minute if the first plan falls through. Hopefully that won't happen if he keeps in communication with the provider and checks in a couple days ahead to reconfirm the date. I hope he has a great time.

So, if I understand your post, the guy you booked hasn't yet said anything about backing out or not showing up. I get the apprehension about the possibility the guy might no-show, but it's just a possibility at this point. Your best strategy is to check in with your guy a couple days ahead of the date to confirm he remembers the booking, especially if he's driving a good distance for your meeting. Presumably you and he have already considered his compensation includes driving four hours in each direction. The porn awards are only relevant in that is a big event where there are opportunities to make just as much money with less hassle. In the future, it might be worth staying closer to the city so it's easier for guys to see you, and you have more options if the plans fall though.

I used to pass by the old Sears building in Atlanta on Ponce almost daily. It was built in the 20s as their regional warehouse and retail store. The warehouse served Sears' catalog mail-order business for years. It's a huge building (I think it was claimed to be the largest in the South when it was built), dominating an entire block. Sears even ran a farmers market there for years as part of an agriculture division. It was the early 20th century version of an Amazon DC, but actually served the community it was in at the same time. When I lived there, Sears had long closed the retail store in favor of the malls, and had just abandoned the building. It was used for years by the City as an extension of city hall, but the building was rotting away slowly during that time. About the time I moved away it being renovated into Ponce City Market, with retail and residential uses along with the BeltLine project. I haven't been back to see it, but I was so happy to see the building get a new chapter that wasn't just turning it into cold offices closed to the rest of the city.