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Going out on a limb, he's probably not available through the normal channels. He seems to do modeling and keeps a fairly tame Instagram presence. I couldn't find anything in his public facing media that indicates any sex work. If he's only doing professional modeling shoots, and maintaining a mainstream public image, he's not likely available to hire for escorting. The only avenue you might have would be to contact through his modeling agent or by Instagram, but it's probable you'll be ignored or blocked if you bring up any request for sex. If he does have a more explicit presence out there you may have better odds.

Sounds like a guy I used to meet up with in Toronto. He was also well blessed and liked to go pretty hard. He had one incident a few years ago, then he had another one a few months ago just before we were going to meet up. Put him out of commission for a while. 🤕

Yes, reading the OP again it looks like I misread who will be doing the traveling. Since he will be in the city, I think he'd be in a good position to find alternate arrangements at the last minute if the first plan falls through. Hopefully that won't happen if he keeps in communication with the provider and checks in a couple days ahead to reconfirm the date. I hope he has a great time.

So, if I understand your post, the guy you booked hasn't yet said anything about backing out or not showing up. I get the apprehension about the possibility the guy might no-show, but it's just a possibility at this point. Your best strategy is to check in with your guy a couple days ahead of the date to confirm he remembers the booking, especially if he's driving a good distance for your meeting. Presumably you and he have already considered his compensation includes driving four hours in each direction. The porn awards are only relevant in that is a big event where there are opportunities to make just as much money with less hassle. In the future, it might be worth staying closer to the city so it's easier for guys to see you, and you have more options if the plans fall though.

I used to pass by the old Sears building in Atlanta on Ponce almost daily. It was built in the 20s as their regional warehouse and retail store. The warehouse served Sears' catalog mail-order business for years. It's a huge building (I think it was claimed to be the largest in the South when it was built), dominating an entire block. Sears even ran a farmers market there for years as part of an agriculture division. It was the early 20th century version of an Amazon DC, but actually served the community it was in at the same time. When I lived there, Sears had long closed the retail store in favor of the malls, and had just abandoned the building. It was used for years by the City as an extension of city hall, but the building was rotting away slowly during that time. About the time I moved away it being renovated into Ponce City Market, with retail and residential uses along with the BeltLine project. I haven't been back to see it, but I was so happy to see the building get a new chapter that wasn't just turning it into cold offices closed to the rest of the city.

I was having issues on my phone (android). I cleared my browser cache and it fixed the problem.

Related, the old Kmart headquarters in Michigan is finally being demolished. I used to work across from "Fort Kresge" which has been abandoned for years, even though it was in a busy office district adjacent to a thriving mall. The 40 acre site will hopefully be developed soon instead of becoming yet another parking lot

Are we hiring escorts or construction equipment?

There's always something to be said for the stamina and recovery that guys in their 20s can sustain, but I find I have a better time with guys over 30. The more mature guys are more reliable and can offer a more connected session, in my experience.

I'm having trouble understanding your question. Are you asking if RMen and RMass offer providers discounts if they cross -advertise? As far as I know RMen and RMass operate as similar but separate services with different target audiences. I haven't seen that they allow for linked accounts between the two sites, but it's possible it's an advertiser only feature. Some masseurs may advertise on RMen simply because it's probably the higher traffic site in their region and pulls in more leads than RMass. If I contacted a provider like that I'd want to ask about what services he does provide up front to avoid any misunderstanding.

Since RM is headquartered in Europe, they should be at least GDPR compliant at minimum. It's always good to look for a site's data retention policy, however. RM does publish their policies in the "about" section, so you can refer there. The link below relates to their data policy. https://rent.men/about/datacollection

If you want answers from me, I expect a donation of $69 per question. Payment in advance.

I don't see why I would need to feel any kind of way as long as using the ED drug isn't affecting the session.

I recall being taught to avoid cutting across neighbor's lawns as a kid, instead of cutting corners or taking shortcuts through their property. My area wasn't particularly lawn crazy, but leaving bike ruts in the grass was probably frowned upon. As an adult, it seems like common sense to stay off the lawn to avoid tracking in dirt or worse when visiting someone's home. I don't even wear shoes indoors at home anymore.

"Amazing" is an interesting word choice...

Gloryholes and public restroom cruising are relics of the pre-smartphone days. Guys have easier and safer means of hooking up now, like Sniffies and Grindr. I think Sniffies has a way of listing cruising spots for those still looking for that, but I don't think it's that many wanting that kind of risk.

I don't normally consider age first, but I find I click best with providers over 30.

This is not what Van Halen had in mind when recording "Hot For Teacher".

They didn't even make it to their wood anniversary. Oh well.

I'll throw in with the perverts... Link please?

One risk with meeting closeted guys, especially in my area, is finding out they're married after the fact. I personally do not like being with someone cheating on their partner. I don't mind if they're in open relationships, however. That used be primarily just the closeted ones you had to worry about, since there's a lot of guys from sexually conservative cultures in my area who married for family obligations. These days it's almost as many guys in same sex marriages stepping out. Plus ça change!

While I understand and respect your wanting some discretion by not having a face picture, it will cause a lot of guys pass you over. You should make the most of the pictures you do post, making sure they show you off in the best way possible. You could also have your face pic available in a private album for serious inquiries as a compromise. Hope you have good success with your second time in the business.

I cannot judge people for being closeted, in most cases. In a perfect world everyone could be out without judgement, estrangement, or risk of harm, but that is not the case in many places. Being in the closet forces people to be dishonest to the people around them and frequently themselves. Unfortunately, even today, they feel it is necessary to keep relations with friends and family, or even their safety in certain communities. The recent case of the mayor in Alabama who took his own life after being outed is just one example of the cruel toll this takes on people who feel they cannot be open with who they are. The people I do hold in contempt are those who have power who engage in anti-LGBT rhetoric while being in the closet themselves. It's so common to be almost cliche that politicians or pastors who are stridently anti-gay are likely to have something to hide. These people do very real harm, leading to isolation, fear, and risk of violence for the people they target.

Sorry, I'm out.