PetetKsfo

"It always seems impossible until its done"

(Nelson Mandela)

I generally don't cum during the day if planning or hoping to see more clients, as I want to keep my energy level and arrousal high for each client. I sense that some clients who specifically ask for my latest appointment time do so implying that they want me to cum with them or for them. (Other clients - please confirm if you believe that type inquiriy implies what I think it does!) But even if I don't cum with a client, I generally will by myself before I go to sleeep, especially if I made some great connections with clients. Though it never fails (murphy's law) that if I cum earlier in the evening with a client, I always will get a call from someone else later!!

I just had a client who screamed louder than any client I have ever had, or any boyfriend or date I have ever had when he came. I looked out the windows after, and was glad that both of my neighbors were not at home - otherwise I fear they might have called the police worried someone was being attacked. My client said he was glad to have booked the 90 minutes rather than only an hour. I'm glad he enjoyed the massage.

Check the dates of when both the provider and client made their profiles - and the date that the client posted the review.

That might be very telling

Peter

Do any providers have recommendations on nice higher quality disposable towels for clients to use for end of appointments that you have found?

At home I have a supply of small cloth hand towels for times when clients don't wish to shower after, but was thinking that some of the high-quality folded disposable towels that you sometimes see in washrooms at high end hotels might actually be nicer. And these might be great to use too when on the road. I certialy don't want to offer plain basic paper towels.

Any recommendations welcome

Thanks!

I love getting feedback from clients. Moans, groans, using words!

Occasionally though i am not sure if it is a good moan or a bad moan, and will ask to make sure I'm not hurting him.

I lived in SF for a while and have since moved to Provincetown, but still love SF and get back there often. I also get to NYC often, and love the 9th Avenue area of HK. If you like the type of mix between residental/commercial and also a mix between new industrial look mixed with old architecture, I agree that SOMA or South Beach areas (Ballpark area) have that. I still feel that vibe in the Castro and also Mission areas too. SF is small enough that you find lots of interesting pockets of gay life throughout the city. Checking out the different neighborhoods is a great idea. I have friends who recently bought a house in the Portola area - San Bruno Ave/Bayshore/Third Avenue area. It is a section that I never previously spent much time in, and now I love that neighborhood. So you may find that some neighborhoods that you might not think about could be very enchanting to you.

On two occasions I’ve had escorts tell me they had an STI “in the butt” (one chlamydia the other gonorrhea). Does that qualification mean anything? I declined the opportunity to meet up, but if I hadn’t I would expect to be at risk unless I used a condom for both oral and anal sex with him. My research found nothing on this subject, but if it’s “in the butt” the risk isn’t limited to that hole is it?

Yes, both Chlamydia and Gonorrhea are localized. Therefore, I suspect that his disclosure was to say that you should not top him, particularly not bareback. But if he really only had it rectally, then he could top you and would not transmit to you, or you could have oral sex with each other and not be at risk.

It is a good point to make regarding going for testing. If your doctor does not know you well or know your types of sexual contact, many doctors would generally only test a guy by a urine test, and not a throat swab or rectal swab. If you are not comfortable asking for those tests from your own doctor, consider going to public/annonymous testing sites.

I never expect a tip, nor fell slighted by a client who does not tip, but always apprecaite when someone does.

I also don't make any up-charges, and so my hope is that guys who like what I offer will offer something extra in return, particularly if they think I went above and beyond what they were expecting.

practice, practice, practice

Aaron - Nice to see you on here.

I hope you don't mind that I post the cute story of how we met a couple of weeks ago!

I was in Los Angeles, going for lunch at my favorite burger joint - In-N-Out. With the distancing, the line forms outside the resturant. So as I am getting in line, I see this hot muscle stud in line behind me. I cruise him, and he returns the cruise and smile. We start chatting, and he somehow mentions that he is from Palm Springs and was in LA to see a "client." I initially took the high road, seeing all his muscles, said - "oh, you do personal training? or...." He filled in the dots and came right out to say that he is an escort. I smiled and said "me too!" It turns out we had both just seen morning clients and were ready for a well-deserved lunch after we had both skipped breakfast to be ready for our clients. We enjoyed our burgers and fries together, while sharing fun stories about work and clients!

I will also vouch for him - he is a sweet guy and even better looking in person than the pictures here!

If you're in the PS area, you should definately schedule some time with him.

Well, I certainly welcome guys who like hairy men!

I think that even back hair is starting to make a comeback.

I find that I have more healthy things when I am cooking at home than eating out.

I also have set up a work out bench at my house and get out bicycling as much as I can

Be who you are and say what you feel.

Because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.

(Dr Seuss)

Lenny is a great guy with years of massage experience.

I often refer massage clients to him if I am away or not available.

He doesn't list on rentmasseur or masseurfinder, but expect a quality massage from him.

14 days? Ask @PeterMxM if he'll give you a Covidity discount.

I think car rental companies give a weekly discount of 7 days for the price of 5 (or at least they used to.)

Perhaps we could work something out like that if you come to visit me and have to quarantine at my place.

Of course then you'd get to enjoy my cooking too in addition to other things....

the main question is if @PeterMxM will be asked to quarantine while visiting NYC

 

Some hotels might require him to meet visitors at the street door of the hotel, they might not allow visitors to make it to the lobby.

Thus far, Massachusetts residents are able to go to NY without quarantine. I hope that will hold up.

But then again, if I am staying in my hotel room anyway (other than to meet guys in the loby to bring them upstairs), isn't that quarantining?

This is me

Greetings Guys -

I'd be interested in recommendations from other providers or clients on hotels that you have found to be "provider/client friendly." I am mostly interested in Boston, New York City, Washington, and Albany NY - but this might be a good thread to hear about any prefered or problematic hotels that anyone may have used. in any location.

I stayed at a hotel in Boston last week and discovered that they now have a policy of only permitting registered guests into rooms. I got freindly with some of the staff, and noticed they looked the other way a bit, but I also saw other staff giving other guests a hard time.

My thoughts on important criteria:

* Resitrictions on guests in hotel

* Size and layout of lobby to make visits less conspicuous

* Elevator access requiring key or not

* Parking availability

* Any other criteria you think is important

Thanks for any feedback you can offer

Regards

Peter

I take six psyllium capsules a day and find them gentle and effective.

I also use psyllium husk. I sometimes use the powder in shakes, oatmeal, or in water, but as Mike mentioned, they also come in capsules. Psyllium Husk is the main active ingredient fiber in Metamucil, but Metamucil also contains aspartame and other things too.

Greetings -

I am in Provincetown most weekends (year-round) and in Hyannis on weeknight evenings.

Please check out my listing and feel free to PM me or contact me for info

Best regards,

Peter

I flew into the Ontario airport. It’s on the eastern side of LA which saves you from driving through L.A. saving you both time and frustrating traffic. It’s a short 1 hour drive to Palm Springs from the Ontario airport.

I agree - Before the PSP airport became more popular, I would alwasy fly into ONT and rent a car there for the short drive from there to PSP. Many airlines will be rethinking their networks, with many smaller airports likely losing some service. We will have a better idea after the fall once the federal airline funding runs out.

I agree. Another approach I've seen in a few ads is men listing the specific days and times of day they are available on a monthly basis. As a prospective client that seems great to me since I can know in advance, for example, that a guy is never available before 5 pm or doesn't work certain days of the week. I assume some men do this either to give themselves a more predictable work schedule or because they have other things that result in them being unavailable during specific hours.

Yes, I do exactly that. I try my best to keep my ad up to date, listing travel locations and dates and specific times when I am available. I have found that the more clear I am, the easier - and then I don't have to reply back to say that I'm not available.

I sometimes use the "near travel" option on RentMassuer which allows me to put out potential future travel cities without specific dates yet, but that can sometimes be confusing. I then show up in the display for that city, and guys may not always see that it is a "future travel" location. I'd love to see RentMasseur (and probably same on RentMen) improve the display of current and future travel cities

One of the reasons I like weekends is that there’s less pressure to fill every second with each other’s attention. I actually appreciate him going to the gym for an hour or whatever. I can’t be with anyone with unbroken attention for that long. An hour I get it. But more time gives a nicer experience but you just can’t expect the escort (or yourself) to be “on” for 48+ hours...

Certianly - I have not yet done more lenghy appointments - only an hour or two, and so in those cases it is about the client.

But agree - for a longer period of time, both would want some alone time

It is also a great practice to get comfortable with just asking for what you're looking for.

Oh, and by the way...you just did exactly that in your posting!