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LOL. I spent a minute wondering what in the world is wrong with the word "errant"? Or maybe "Nathan"? Or is it the way the two words fit together and spelled something else unexpectedly? Or something else...?
Only then I realized what you might be concerned with!  😉  So my answer is NO! From this queer to your ear: there is great power in reclaiming the words that others use to shame us! 

LOL. I spent a minute wondering what in the world is wrong with the word "errant"? Or maybe "Nathan"? Or is it the way the two words fit together and spelled something else unexpectedly? Or something else...?
Only then I realized what you might be concerned with!  😉  So my answer is NO! From this queer to your ear: there is great power in reclaiming the words that others use to shame us! 

LOL. I spent a minute wondering what in the world is wrong with the word "errant"? Or maybe "Nathan"? Or is it the way the two words fit together and spelled something else unexpectedly? Or something else...?
Only then I realized what you might be concerned with!  😉  So my answer is NO! From this queer to your ear: there is great power in reclaiming the words that others use to shame us! 

I have some tolerance for a guy being up to an hour late if there's communication in advance that he's running behind--and I don't mean 5 minutes before the agreed upon time.  If he's going to be a little late, fine.  But don't make me sit around unable to make use of the time because I have no idea when we're starting.  Obviously, emergencies or the unexpected can happen.  But that's not what we're talking about here.
What has become a dealbreaker for me is the same-day request to reschedule for a totally different time--say, from that evening to the next morning.  My erstwhile regular did this to me two or three times.  The last time he did it (and the reason he's an erstwhile regular, LOL), he was upfront that it was because someone else wanted to see him the evening I had booked with him and he wanted to try to see both of us by moving me to the next morning.  (As it turned out, the other potential client bailed on him, so trying to move one to add another produced a result of zero.)

Hey, if you're totally jacked and your gym session is running really late -- and you're heading over to me right after -- I am NOT going to complain. Keep lifting bro. 😈 🤤 
That said some people are just chronically late in all aspects of their life. I tend to book late in the day and early evenings, and typically don't have anything to do after, so no sweat off my back as long as it is within reason and we're communicating (e.g., don't just show up late without warning). As a client who is booking, if I had a definite end time, I might offer that up in the conversation before we even meet to set expectations. Just something I have learned from years in business.  
I once booked with MuscleVIP in NYC who confirmed that morning (around say 8-9 am), but went radio silent and texted a solid hour after we were supposed to meet (7 pm) that he was running late and he was still at his house starting to get ready. No actual reason was offered up to explain.
As hot as he is, I politely said sorry you missed our time -- even though I had zero other plans that evening and had all the time in the world. It was a simple sign of respect that wasn't shown. Sad, because every time I see his picture, I kind of regret that decision. But my time is also worth money and it's a two way street.  

Everyone is entitled to their opinion. How many threads do we need with the same six people saying they hate tattoos? Then dehumanize providers by treating them like they've "ruined" their bodies or looks with tattoos. We get it. You don't like tattoos. 
I'm not attracted to half the guys who people start threads about. But I don't say anything because it's a) not particularly interesting and b) I don't want to yuck other people's yum. 

Current acceptance rates
Goldilocks -- 33% Harvard -- 4% Bozo -- 0% Clearly Bozo is more discriminating than most.   ;-)

And when he logs onto Porhhub, he only reads the articles.  😉  

Personally, I don't like it as much as the older version.  To me, the screen is just too "busy" and not as easy to navigate through.  Again, just my opinion.....

I leafed through my saved messages yesterday and found posters whom I can no longer remember, posters who are long deceased, and topics that left me baffled. I save too much old communication as it is (I still have a huge box of personal letters I received when I was in college, before computers were invented), so I probably won't miss much if you clean out the files.

Yes I agree 👍. Your doing a amazing job. 

We are all praying for your continued good health!!

I feel like this reply was put into a blender and then someone hit frappe.

Current acceptance rates
Goldilocks -- 33% Harvard -- 4% Bozo -- 0% Clearly Bozo is more discriminating than most.   ;-)

yes, exactly.

Says the guy who just joined a few minutes ago.

Nice second post. Lol

Current acceptance rates
Goldilocks -- 33% Harvard -- 4% Bozo -- 0% Clearly Bozo is more discriminating than most.   ;-)

Is he the guy who travels with LokiWithTheGnocchi?

The new NYC Ginger Experience (TM) is till in the planning stages but is scheduled to open in Times Square in 2024, just around the corner from the Hard Rod Cafe.
Until it opens, we'll all have to use the old analogue gingers.

Agreed!!!  I was also contemplating Dean....but these exceedingly long posts filled with effusive and "ceaseless adulation" make me seriously wonder what's going on, and greatly lowering the potential I will contact Dean.

Agreed!!!  I was also contemplating Dean....but these exceedingly long posts filled with effusive and "ceaseless adulation" make me seriously wonder what's going on, and greatly lowering the potential I will contact Dean.

Agreed!!!  I was also contemplating Dean....but these exceedingly long posts filled with effusive and "ceaseless adulation" make me seriously wonder what's going on, and greatly lowering the potential I will contact Dean.

Agreed!!!  I was also contemplating Dean....but these exceedingly long posts filled with effusive and "ceaseless adulation" make me seriously wonder what's going on, and greatly lowering the potential I will contact Dean.