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What I find amazing is your unwillingness to understand the dynamics at work here. Everything you seem to believe paints the girls as calculating schemers and Hefner as innocent benefactor. There’s no room for any bad behavior by Hefner in your mind. And for all your talk about presumed innocence until proven guilt, you don’t afford the same leniency to the girls. You’ve already made up your mind they’re guilty of lying to get 15 minutes of fame. It’s simply hypocritical to not even consider the possibility, with an open mind free of charged language, that they’re telling the truth. I think @Benjamin_Nicholassaid in another thread: some people don’t like the truth but it’s still the truth. Well, here we have some things that may well be coming into the light of truth. You may not like it, but hammering on it that it’s not true doesn’t make it less so.

@marylander1940 Don’t you realize?

@Shadowcatzxxxx– I know many on this forum don’t accept that guys on RM are out to scam, but I have a default skeptical position toward any new hire until we’ve met. Anything that upsets the “normal” course of action therefore raises at least a pink flag for me. I did admit that it seems responsible. It would just make me more apt to accept without surprise if the meet doesn’t happen. COVID has been a convenient excuse for many to get out of any number of things.

I’ve decided that if an escort gives me a price that is something I won’t pay, I’m up front and say that. I also see no problem in mentioning I’ve had guys take less for the same amount of time. Politely. (I’ve had guys tell me they’re quoting me the “going rate,” so I see no difference in saying I have experience at my rate too). If he wants to negotiate, I’m initially open. If it turns into haggling, I’m done. It will cloud the time together for us both. He’ll be resentful and I’ll be wondering if he’s resentful.

When I clicked on his ad just now, it came up. I’m curious about the followup after the positive test. I had to reschedule twice for sickness (not COVID) so I know it happens. But that was with regulars. Not a new provider. When it’s a new provider, I’d be really skittish if something like that happened even if COVID were the reason. Caveat emptor.

Maybe we’ll adapt and actually reach the Jetson goal for humanity by 2062.

I agree. But many guys would say it is chubby. And many guys would think they’re chubby at that. Even going so far as to laugh and think they’re fat.

Just did an image search in the gay section on pornhub for “chubby” and this was the first result.

Probably also has a lot to do with “type” too. If you want to hire younger guys, I think initial communication will have a higher probability of difficulty.

I’ve found that a lot of providers just ignore that information.

That’s part of the reason why I think more than a few perfunctory setup texts with a provider is acceptable, especially for a BFE. It doesn’t have to be a huge back-and-forth, but some level of something that determines some level of compatibility isn’t unreasonable.

Potentially. I like to remember that what we see here on the forum is a mediated reality. We don’t present our whole selves. It’s hard to draw conclusions based off what we see here…about as hard as it is to draw conclusions based off RM reviews!

Because as @pubic_assistance said, a lot of the straight providers are really only there to make a buck off horny gay guys. They might even get some sort of hetero-oppressive satisfaction out of it even, fucking gay guys for money.

I don’t think it works quite like that. I have no reason to feel that way other than I believe the species will do what it needs to in order to continue to propagate.

Those be fightin’ words with some here. I’d do you one better…the eurocisheteronormative christian patriarchal hegemony.

I didn’t know it was a rule! 🧐

Now you know why sometimes I get cranky…I need a vacation.

I’ve always said “Bi now. Gay later.” 😂

Probably just say “no” to threesomes plus…Save yourself the headache. It’s not something you offer. You don’t have to provide everything; in fact, it’s better to be up front about it for most clients instead of presenting yourself as offering something you’d rather not. I always ask new guys if they’ll enjoy what I’m looking for, and if they seem hesitant I just tell them it isn’t going to work out. I’ve learned it’s bettet to be direct up front that both of us being awkward.

I’m really not interested anymore if a provider lists “straight.”

There’s a whole world out there! And to be honest, I have no desire to see some parts our ours…

I can’t understand why. It baffles me.

Doctors always act like theirs is the time that’s valuable. I’ve been “fake” texts more and more. Like the emails we used to get from Nigerian princes. I get texts like that now. Not nearly as frequent as the emails were, though.

I don’t know that my asshole could do six guys over four days!

I’m going to stick to the original plan.