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You don’t “choose” your sexual orientation, whether natured or nurtured. But you can choose to be happy in whatever sexuality you have. I don’t know of that’s the “lifestyle,” but it is a choice of regarding psychological healthiness.

One hopes you penetrate to completion!

Well, he’s changed a good bit!

Like a good dentist 😂

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Wrong. Gay here. Accept it just fine.

Those aren’t actually the same guy are they?!

I agree.

I wonder what counts as “almost.”

Understood. I see that as different from “discussing.” The clarification helps. I just received a text and email from my dentist about my appointment on Tuesday. If a client schedules ahead, do you (or others) text a day or two beforehand to say anything like looking forward to the meetup etc? Or is it radio silence until you show up or vice versa?

It would be nice to see more holistic studies.

He and Lilabet made a very good looking pair. And their kids were good looking til…you know. One of the 21st century’s greatest tragedies is watching the decline of William’s good looks…

I doubt I will. I’d rather sponsor an escort’s ad, which confers same benefits. I can’t see paying to leave a review. And I have no problem asking to see private pictures.

Thank you. I’m aware… 😑 He still was scary as fuck in his old age.

How do you know beforehand if you’re able to provide what the client wants if you don’t discuss it? Assuming the client wants something other than a vanilla fuck session, in and out under an hour? I understand the dreaded “waste of time” argument. Believe me. But I’ve also wasted money because an escort either a) didn’t take the time to actually read what I was looking for, and/or b) care. Nobody who’s not mentally ill wants to waste anyone’s time. But I believe a degree of discussion can help in “special” circumstances. So am I understanding you right, Jamie, that you just stop communicating with a potential client if he wants to discuss things before the meetup?

Did you see what happened to Phillip? He actually looked scary at the end…

I’m going to go with the scientists on it. Thank you, @Unicorn, for the reasoned explanation based in evidence.

I always say I allow people to self-identify, but this is something else… This could go in the circus sideshow.

If a client approaches about meeting tonight for a session, I assume providers respond, set up the necessary details to carry out said meetup, and there’s little to really communicate. But say a potential client communicates about a longer session (multiple days). Or suppose he contacts for a BFE. Or role play. Or anything that’s not a “typical” hookup experience. Do you have a different way of handling such potential clients? Do you engage in more discussion before the meetup or do you go with the basics and let it at that? What if the potential client is scouting out providers before traveling into your area? What kind of communication do you consider normal, appropriate, and expected once whatever agreement to meet has been made before he comes to your location? I’m talking like saying, “Hey, I’ll be in Vegas next month for a conference and would like to hire you for a few days while I’m there.” Or something similar. What sort of approach do you use with one-offs versus someone who’s looking for a longer session or a special session or potentially a new regular?

This. One thousand billion times over. 👏🏻 Say it again so the guys in the back can hear it.

This would be interesting reading. Especially the “nurture” component in such a study. I’ve heard that before. Many times. And it always makes me wonder what happened to me – the oldest. Of course there are other first-borns who are gay, but it strikes me as an interesting bucking the trend if it’s in fact biologically true that more older brothers increases a boy’s likelihood of identifying as gay. Is it more a factor of biology or socialization? Maybe by the time more sons roll around, parents approach caregiving in a different way than they do their oldest son. Maybe that different approach is evolutionary? Questions…

Sounds like you may not be reading what’s written and responding how’s you choose, according to a narrative of your own creation.

You mean they can’t just say no and walk away? Obviously they can’t. It also makes sense they’d need to charge more to cover for safer accommodations. Sad but understandable…

This is what most people like too. When you ask people to change how they’ve thought about categories they thought they’ve understood, it’s often not so much they don’t like the new way of thinking as much as it’s they don’t like being challenged on what they thought they knew. People don’t like predictably and categories and labels help with that. Problems of course arise when labels are used to limit people, not just describe and distinguish them.