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I have perfectly fine reading comprehension, thank you… 🙄 Your remarks, along those from @pubic_assistance, just show you don’t like what I said. That much is abundantly clear with the preponderance of interactions you two have with me in the forum over all. So you stoop to ad hominem attacks…

Or both nature and nurture. It’s silly to think it’s all nurture.

Perhaps a reformulation? “What factors contribute to a person’s understanding of their sexuality?”

Baking and cooking? Any good beef rubs?* Like true roasts, not braising… *I mean that culinarily, not sexually 😂

What do escorts do with their spare time? Time that’s not a) setting up appointments or b) with clients? How many hours a day do escorts spend on escorting between a) setting up appointments or b) with clients?

I wish you wouldn’t speak for other people.

Meh. That’s conjecture. In the previous line you said it’s not scientific fact, regarding the timing sexuality is determined. Then on its heels you go with a “probably,” regarding whether bisexuality somehow invalidates homosexuality or heterosexuality. What stats and science supports that “probably?” A better question is: what is at stake to say that sexuality is, at least to a degree, biologically determined? Why is that a problem? Personally…not based on presumptions and presuppositions about “people’s” motivations? Why is “born this way” personally an issue?

Some hair is fine. I don’t think I like a hairy guy though. I’m hairy though…Double standard?

No so much disgusting but initially surprising… Honey in turkey meatloaf. Several recipes online called for it, and I was skeptical, but went ahead with it. Turned out great. I highly recommend turkey meatloaf. Next time I’ll make a poultry gravy with a tablespoon of honey and a splash of liquid smoke in it. It’ll be perfect. Trying new recipe ideas has always been fun for me.

🧐 The site does seem at times to be a bit clunky. Maybe the change will have a late rollout. Like Truth Social.

In fact, I’d wager most are “independent contractors” and/or “lone wolves.”

I think extrapolating to the whole from individual incidents is a bit…dangerous. I totally accept bisexuality as a legitimate thing. In fact, I’d say people are born that way! So some gay folks think bisexuality isn’t real? Okay. Some straight people think that homosexuality isn’t real. It even sounds like some bi folks in this very forum are saying that neither heterosexuality or homosexuality is real. Guess what – saying it’s not real doesn’t make it less real. It just makes the person saying it sound ignorant and close-minded…

This. To kingdom come. Accept your boss may care about your wellbeing, to a degree – if they’ve a decent human being.

Precisely. Well put. Concise.

And how are you to know? Like I said, I had two providers who wanted me to know they considered me friends as long as the gifts and money and trips kept coming. But when I went MIA because of my mom’s COVID situation and communication and favors dried up, the friendship evaporated. One even ghosted me…after I shared that my mother had died. The other seems more…uninterested now. On the whole, I don’t call people friends because like I said, it means I consider myself devoted to them in a way I wouldn’t with just anyone. But if someone explicitly says to me they consider themselves my friend, that changes the calculus – or it has in the past at least. As for escorts as friends – I’ve learned my lesson. Fool me once. Shame on you. Fool me twice. Shame on me. I’ve had escorts tell me they are my friends and it turned out they weren’t. I’m not letting that happen again. And so that may mean that I don’t consider any escort a friend. One rotten apple spoiled the bunch. Add to that…I simply wouldn’t pay any friend, at this point, to fuck. If I’m paying someone to fuck me, then it’s business.

When the provider says something akin to “I hope you consider me among your friends,” that’s different than me thinking because we hit off, that we’re friends. That word/line is manipulative coming from a provider.

I find it interesting that GB is so different, in more ways than one!

The “friends” question comes into play here.

I also don’t immediately consider someone a friend that I owe something. When you’re my friend, I owe you my devotion. And that means some sacrifice. Friendship doesn’t mean much otherwise…* *For me

I knew this example would come up. You would pay them. Would they demand it? There’s a difference. Maybe they would. I’ve always offered my professional services to friends free of charge. But folks who aren’t friends get my bill…and I follow up. That doesn’t mean if a friend offers me something for my professional service I don’t take it. I do. But I don’t ask or expect it. For a friend. With the escorts who wanted me to know they were friends, all I can say is as long as money and gifts flowed their way, they were tangentially attentive “off the clock,” and when we were together they were very…assuming. Both of these so-called “friends” who are escorts went MIA after sharing with them that my mother died of COVID and that’s why my communication and attention to them had suffered. So…friends? Meh. No. They manipulated my feelings and I was duped. Admit it. Learn from it. Don’t repeat it.

I am “the boss,” so… And I was the one who proposed to the board four years ago that I take a 40% salary cut to keep the company solvent. I have the best job in the world (for me) and have been and would be paid less than my education level and experience level should dictate because I love my job so much. So to talk about doing work just for the pay, for me, is a tad foreign. I understand there are folks out there who do that, and that I’m fortunate that I have a job like this, but it’s really 100% true. There’s a difference between an occupation and a vocation. I believe I am paid, fortunately, to live my vocation.

I even looked for that…And didn’t see it. It must’ve been because it was late. That does add a little nuance to that puzzle. Still…has anyone met him?

If you’ll take $1200/night, say so and don’t budge from it. Same way if you’re willing to pay $2000/night.

That’s really the point I was trying to make with a lot of words. The meeting 100% wouldn’t be happening if I weren’t paying. I’ve escorts, two actually, tell me they consider me a friends. Friends don’t fuck friends for money. I’ve learned that.

https://rent.men/MascColombianBot Has anyone met this guy? His ad says basically nothing and unless I’m missing something, “bot” hardly sounds like a real (legit) guy…