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You totally misread my entire post.

https://apple.news/AoAkWmmGqQXCZcsv5tNh78g Some things to keep in mind.

Gaydar may be good at reading gay guys who send off a particular set of vibes, but the real question for me is whether it can pick up, with 95% accuracy, all gay guys. How many gay guys go under the gaydar because they don’t put off the vibes? If gaydar is 95% accurate in the cases that put off vibes, but say only 75% of gay guys put off vibes (being generous here), that means out of 100 gay guys, you’d only identify 70ish%.

Is the concern about touching the eggs right now because of COVID? I thought the CDC and WHO have said surface transmission is unlikely. They are going the airborne and aerosol transmission route now. Hence the fuss about masks.

I learned that the hard way.

We will likely have to wait much longer than that to know a lot of things about COVID-19. Just the other day, my secretary was talking about a new complication related to COVID. Very worried. She’s a bit of a worrier. I asked her, “Have you noticed we know with 100% certainty everything bad that happens around COVID is caused by COVID, but anything remotely good is couched in a host of caveats?” She of course hadn’t noticed that. But that’s sort of what I mean we’ll have to wait a while to really know. In Massachusetts they’re reporting confirmed and probable cases and deaths. What classifies as probable is a large category. With time, we’ll be able to narrow that down, but right now we actually don’t know a lot. We know more than we did in March, but there’s not a lot we know with definitude.

Aren’t the CDC and WHO saying use more soap? ?

I’ve talked with him on the phone. Schedules didn’t line up but we’ll work it out. I got the sense from the conversation he was genuinely versatile. I’m looking forward to actually meeting him.

@Jarrod_Uncut – And if said client refuses to pay the cancellation fee?

It’s for droplets. If you’re not going to end up close enough to get droplets from someone’s mucus on your face, the shield is overkill. The shield by itself also does little to protect from aerosols.

Seems an “explosion” of new faces on the Boston RM market the past few days. Awfully professional looking pictography too. That always makes me suspicious. How are these escorts getting such great photos of their naked bodies?

Why can’t we all get along? For guys who like hiring, some of clients seem skeptical of escorts. And for guys who say they like the work, some of escorts seem to despise clients, potential or otherwise.

Can you explain the context of this post, @nycboi. I feel like I’m missing something.

I’m confused about the second point. Are you saying that if you don’t deliver as the client would like, you’d like reimbursement for that?

Curious – how exactly do you exact a cancellation fee?

At the risk of speaking for others, I’m going to say that it seems that the prevalence of “bad clients” is small. We’ve spent a lot of time in this thread talking about what makes for a bad client, but @peterhung85 really was the only escort to say how prevalent they are – and he reports they are rather infrequent over the course of his escorting career. Unless other escorts want to dispute the claim, it seems plain.

Is that a special privilege? Or is there a backstory I’m ignorant of?

Meh. More to love. Good thing there’s lots of sand ?

I have a better question, in terms you may appreciate better: Cur vis similis assino videri? Your inability to see why what you said was offensive says a lot about you. And your further inability to accept that it was offensive after having it pointed out says even more. You might likewise ask why you want to bury your own head in the sand on that matter.

Or, you know, look at other studies that show that beauty standards are learned preferences and work against prejudices.

I’ve found some sex workers are more decent people than so-called decent people.

RM could drastically improve the user experience…Searching is a headache.

It shouldn’t matter if it’s a personal issue for me. It’s unacceptable to say period. Just as it’s unacceptable to say Mexicans coming to this country are criminals, drug dealers, and rapists. Or blacks are lazy and stupid. Or Asians have small dicks. I need not be a Mexican immigrant, or black man, or Asian man to be offended and outraged by such sentiments, especially when expressed. You shouldn’t be sorry that it’s personal; you should be sorry because it’s wrong prima facie. (I used some Latin so it warms your heart.)

@marylander1940 – I don’t know why mentioned the escorts getting assessed according to physical standards when we’re talking about clients. Escorts, I doubt, need your defense. I have respect for escorts as people providing a service, but I don’t get confused about what they’re offering. If they’re marketing themselves as a hot guy who spends hours at the gym every day, then their physicality is fair game for assessment. In fact, I’ve seen ads for escorts who advertise the dad bod and extra poundage. Someone who wants a twink isn’t going to choose to go with a muscle god for an escort. The escort who advertises that he will satisfy your every desire and is open minded etc. probably should take that down if he has hang ups about body size. To be clear, I have only ever had two escorts who said they weren’t interested in seeing me because of my weight. The vast majority have been princes about it. The problem is the blatant prejudiced assumption from @The_Impeccable_G that obesity makes a bad client. Even those clients who declined me for my weight were polite.

As an obese person, I face this discrimination, prejudice, and ignorance constantly. And it’s acceptable. Not all discriminations are created equally, and I’m not saying they’re all alike, but blanket statements about whole categories of people, such as obese people, are by their definition prejudicial. And it’s especially disgusting – intentional word choice – when those blanket assumptions are negative.